Sample Compatibility & Conflict Report – Unknown Birth Time
Romantic Compatibility and Conflict Report for
Birth Data for Goldie:
November 21, 1945
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Birth Data for Kurt:
March 17, 1951
Unknown Birth Time
Your birth chart interpretation is based on the positions of the planets at the time of your birth. For the benefit of students of astrology, these positions, along with other technical information, are listed below:
Positions and Data for Goldie:
Sun position is 28 deg. 55 min. of Scorpio
Moon position is 26 deg. 24 min. of Gemini
Mercury position is 20 deg. 44 min. of Sagittarius
Venus position is 11 deg. 39 min. of Scorpio
Mars position is 2 deg. 05 min. of Leo
Jupiter position is 18 deg. 28 min. of Libra
Saturn position is 24 deg. 41 min. of Cancer
Uranus position is 16 deg. 06 min. of Gemini
Neptune position is 7 deg. 57 min. of Libra
Pluto position is 11 deg. 47 min. of Leo
Tropical/PLACIDUS Standard time observed. GMT: 14:20:00
Time Zone: 5 hours West. Lat & Long: 38 N 53 42 77 W 02 12
Positions and Data for Kurt:
Sun position is 26 deg. 15 min. of Pisces
Moon position is 17 deg. 17 min. of Cancer
Mercury position is 2 deg. 19 min. of Aries
Venus position is 25 deg. 25 min. of Aries
Mars position is 12 deg. 06 min. of Aries
Jupiter position is 21 deg. 46 min. of Pisces
Saturn position is 29 deg. 13 min. of Virgo
Uranus position is 5 deg. 24 min. of Cancer
Neptune position is 18 deg. 46 min. of Libra
Pluto position is 17 deg. 50 min. of Leo
Tropical/PLACIDUS Standard time observed. GMT: 15:42:00
Time Zone: 5 hours West. Lat & Long: 42 N 06 05 72 W 35 25
Welcome to the Compatibility and Conflict Report and the myriad ways of expressing the continual dance of life. This report is based on methods employed through years of working with couples, observing relationships and analyzing the lives of the famous and infamous. The contacts described within this program are certainly not all the combinations possible between two people. But they are the core patterns of relationship analysis that I begin with in determining areas of compatibility and potential conflict between two people. I analyze these basic points of contact to arrive at my interpretation of what is central for an enduring relationship or for one that teaches something of importance and leaves a lasting impression. Additional parts, patterns and interpretations will be added to this report in the future.
In many of the interpretations, I’ve described the highest potential that one can strive for with a particular combination. Yet it is only a potential and we are human and have complex emotions and contradictory issues and reactions at any given time in our lives. Use this report as a guideline to make your relationships as rewarding and fulfilling as you possibly can. And know that your relationships are simply mirroring your own soul’s struggles. Each relationship will fulfill something within you and challenge you to look at your shadow and transform yourself. Sometimes this means staying with a partner or a relationship and sometimes the learning process requires that you let the relationship go. These decisions are never easy and they should only be made after careful and truthful introspection, reflection and guidance. But ultimately, these decisions are yours and yours alone to make. Remember that variety is the spice of life and that although you may have some difficult areas of relating with a partner, it is in those areas that you can learn the most about yourself and others and grow in wisdom. It would be a mistake to look for a partner with whom you have no disagreements at all and this kind of relationship is a fantasy, rarely if ever, a reality.
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Chapter 1: Enjoyment, Closeness and Lasting Impressions
This section is based on the idea that there are three basic needs in every relationship:
* Interest, energy and stimulation or sexuality.
* Enjoyment, abundance, expansion of awareness and happiness.
* Patterns for commitment, consistency, teaching each other or reaffirming something essential one for the other and vice versa.
The sort between your charts is for eleven separate aspects that define energy, fun and lasting impressions between you. Most strong relationships have at least four to six of these aspects between their charts.
Kurt’s Sun Square Goldie’s Moon:
A challenging aspect of the Sun and Moon between you can initially attract or repel or both. The outcome depends on other planetary connections in your chart comparison. Respect and recognition of each other is vital with this aspect. Either your approach to life or some of your habitual patterns will be very different from your partners. As you get to know each other, you may find that you disagree on some important or basic life issues. Initially this will produce conflict but it also offers you the opportunity to understand something more about your partner and even yourself. Do not minimize or belittle your partners strong feelings. Instead, learn to allow each other to have your say and find ways to compromise, so that one person doesnt always give in to the wishes or demands of the other. Sometimes these aspects can indicate a lack of appreciation for the life view, habits or patterns of the other. Lack of appreciation will quickly erode your love for each other. Of course, you cannot expect always to agree but you can learn to tolerate a style or strengths in the other that are different from your own. These differences can in fact complement your life together. There will be times when you feel that the two of you are going in opposing directions and that you just rub each other the wrong way. This may be quite true but it gives you the choice to talk about what each of you want and how both of you can support each other. It may be that this aspect indicates that you need separate interests and fewer shared projects. When you come together again, you will bring plenty of new experiences into the relationship and life will rarely be dull.
Kurt’s Sun Trine Goldie’s Mars:
The core intent of this aspect is to motivate you to act and motivate you to create and achieve together. You may find yourselves being somewhat competitive with each other. But with this aspect between your charts, a healthy competition can enable each of you to move ahead and maximize the energy generated when you are together. Fortunately, your competitive edge tends to be smoother and easier to resolve in a positive manner. For the most part this combination can indicate a healthy way to support each other and get motivated to reach higher and achieve your goals. If one of you is consistently more selfish or if you too often place your needs before your partners needs, trouble will begin. This aspect encourages directness and progress, which can help to resolve your differences, if it is done in a fair and respectful way. Avoid pushing, demanding or taking action without discussing important plans with your partner. It isnt so much what you want to do as that each person knows what the other is doing and why. And that there is agreement in terms of the goal or goals you are mutually pursuing. A healthy energy flow and a productive competitiveness is easier to come by with this aspect. And your lives will be busy and active in some important ways.
Kurt’s Moon Conj Goldie’s Saturn:
You are serious about each other and your relationship. Or theres a serious tone, a sense of responsibility between you when you are together. This can be positive or it can put a damper on things, it depends on what each of you want from the other. One meaning of this aspect is that you have some important work to accomplish together and you could even go into business together. You are likely to feel a strong commitment and form a bond with each other that goes to your roots. Both of you will feel the strong connection and this can become devotion to each other. Although at times you will feel burdened by the obligations you inevitably share, this aspect is a strongly binding one. Possibly Goldie may want more security within the relationship than Kurt, but this does not always follow. There is a mutual urge for establishing some type of commitment or at least creating rules of engagement for your relationship. Discussions of emotional or financial security will likely arise early in the relationship. The partnership works best if there are clear structures that both of you agree upon. With practice working together, you quickly become adept at problem solving, planning, organizing and honoring commitments youve made. Important issues between the two of you will concern responsibility, keeping promises, maintaining integrity, timeliness, parents, children and the overall structure or pattern of your life together. Having goals to pursue and work towards will enhance your partnership. As a team, others view you as stable, reliable and dependable. They may seek out your advice and counsel because they view you as responsible or even wise.
Goldie’s Moon Square Kurt’s Saturn:
This aspect is a binding one but has its share of struggles. The bond is one of a perceived (or real) responsibility toward each other. The two of you will have challenges and obstacles to overcome and obligations to shoulder. In fact, obstacles or burdens may prevent you from culminating your relationship long term or they can make your relationship stronger, as you face them together. Some of the struggles this aspect draws concern the balance or relationship between your past history, your families or divergent career and domestic needs. You could have different feelings or definitions about the roles each of you should assume within the structure of your relationship. Faithfully seeking to determine what the most important priorities are between the two of you will help you separate the real issues from non-essential ones. Sometimes what initially appears to be an issue is, upon deeper scrutiny, a non-issue. Trust and responsibility are key factors in the success or failure of your relationship. The main purpose of this energy pattern between you is to help you develop a greater understanding of trustworthiness and reliability, exactly what that means, and where and how these concepts fit into your relationship life together.
Kurt’s and Goldie’s Sun and Saturn in mutual soft aspect:
This aspect requires that both of you work on developing form and structure in your relationship with each other and the projects of your choice. Maturation and elaborating your specific priorities for a successful life are themes the two of you will be evolving. Expect initiation into higher levels of functioning. This is a growth aspect. Accepting and handling responsibilities of various kinds will be a normal, natural part of your relationship life. In fact, you are likely to seek challenges. There is a desire for order and accomplishment in anything you pursue together. As a team, you appear to enjoy structuring, leading and organizing. Others see you as achievement-oriented and effective at what you create together. As partners, you require a certain level of commitment and you are likely to want a strong foundation on which to build a life. Your energy together leans toward the conservative and you desire value over volume. The intent of this pattern is for longevity and solidity to the extent that you can create this within your relationship, you will have fulfilled the purpose of the aspect.
Kurt’s and Goldie’s Moon and Jupiter in mutual hard aspect:
This energy between you expresses the endless possibilities available and encourages the freedom to express your emotions. At the same time, the aspect leans towards excessive expression. Whether an expression is excessive, over the top or fitting for a particular context, is something the two of you will have to decide. How much is too much and the resultant consequences, is the learning curve you will be testing together. This aspect requires that both of you determine how you are exceeding your boundaries and whether thats a good thing or not. Emotions will go out of control from time to time particularly when one of you is overwhelmed with too much to handle. The intent of this aspect is to teach you better judgment and encourage wisdom from the many and varied experiences you actively seek. There will be times of poor judgment when you will discover that you failed to take an important element of a situation into consideration. Resist saying “yes” until youve evaluated the conditions or slept on the idea or proposition. Exaggeration and failing to keep promises will create problems for you and so will overoptimism without full knowledge of the facts. If you experience too much “bad luck”, re-evaluate your choices and be sure to be generous wherever you can to maintain the balance between taking and giving in your lives together.
Kurt’s and Goldie’s Moon and Venus in mutual soft aspect:
There is a genuine liking of each other, a very natural affection and sweetness in your relationship. It is one aspect between you that will support you during times of conflict. This energy combination adds to the desire for partnership and naturally gravitates to finding mutual ground for agreement. You will enjoy creating a secure and appealing home environment, if you share living space. There is a natural aesthetic appreciation that could lead you to participate in various artistic or creative pursuits. You will be drawn to the finer things in life and will have to keep tabs on your budget. Others will respond easily to the warm and affectionate energy you have for each other, since it will be obvious that you like each other. Social activities are highlighted and with a bit of effort the two of you can create a fine network of friendships.
Chapter 2: Emotions and Communication Between You
These aspects detail the quality of the emotional connection and basic comfort between the two of you and your ease or difficulty in communicating, talking with each other and simply understanding where each of you is coming from. These aspects also describe how you reason together and resolve issues or problems.
Goldie’s Moon in Gemini, and Kurt’s is in Cancer:
Although you are attracted to each other on many levels, your basic day-to-day habits are probably very different. You approach life’s mundane chores and happenings in ways that may not be clearly understood by your partner. Your feelings and responses can sometimes be confusing for the other person, as much as they care for you and want to understand. This can cause not only friction on a regular basis but also frustration for both of you. Your habits and peculiarities can grate on each other and be the cause of arguments and misunderstanding. If you care for each other, you will, with patience and willingness to compromise, resolve some of these differences. Still, you operate differently internally, which stems very much from your upbringing and how you responded to your early conditioning. These habits and predilections can be difficult to change, and you may simply have to accept the differences in each other. Discussing your feelings openly is a crucial part of this combination. There is a good chance that, once you really understand the emotions behind the attitude or habitual responses of your partner, greater tolerance will result. On the other hand, once your partner understands how you are affected by a particular response or habit, modifying the offending or annoying behavior is part of the compromise necessary for relationship harmony. This aspect definitely requires more tolerance, acceptance and willingness to allow for differences in mood and reaction. You have attracted this combination because you need to dig deeper into your habitual ways of responding and seek out the roots of your behavior by exploring your upbringing. There are many things you do that are unconscious and automatic, and contact with your partner will allow you to take a closer look, modify the negatives and also reaffirm your strongest feelings.
Kurt’s Mercury in Aries, and Goldie’s is in Sagittarius:
There are many different ways to communicate and the two of you seem to be on the same wavelength most of the time. In other words, your partner understands and responds well to your style and method of reasoning, thinking and expressing your thoughts and feelings. You can make yourselves understood the first time, without rehashing and reiterating endlessly. Of course, you won’t agree on everything all of the time, but coming to agreement on issues important to you or perceiving what the other wants to communicate will be easier. Your styles of intelligence are also similar and your preferences for mental stimulation could be the same. You are likely interested in many of the same subjects or enjoy learning together. In fact, one the best features of your relationship is that you can say about each other, “You understand me, you really understand me. I can tell you anything.” You can talk for hours and never get bored. There’s simply a natural connection which will make the rest of your lives together — and your inevitable challenges — that much easier. Because, when you put your heads together, you’re more likely to arrive at a solution you can both live with than either of you could separately.
Chapter 3: Your Closest Contacts, Your Strongest Themes
This section interprets the closest connections between your charts. The idea is that the closest ties explain the major or central themes of your relationships and the reason you have come together. The nature of these aspects will also define the main activities, interests and patterns that comprise your life together.
Notice that in this section each paragraph contains both the easier expression of energies as well as the more challenging ones. Both interpretations are included because these close connections pertain to the central learning curve of your relationship. Based on the premise that the more exact the connection (also the closest energetic contact) between your pair of planets, the more psychologically significant the aspect will be for each of you. This means that you are likely to be strongly influenced by each other in the areas described. Because of this, it will be useful to consider both the easier and more challenging interpretations even though you lead with one of them. You will, from time to time and in various circumstances, probably exhibit some elements of each group, both the easier expressions as well as the more challenging ones. Another thing — it’s possible with both types of aspects that you will have the same challenges but simply respond or react to them in different ways. The goal is to rise to the best possible expression of each combination. This is the learning curve and this bestows wisdom.
Kurt’s Sun Square Goldie’s Moon (challenging aspect):
If this is your most exact aspect, the central theme of your relationship is one of balance between the male and female expressions in your relationship and the inner or emotional expressions versus the outer masks you wear to show others.
Challenging aspects: You are likely to struggle more with the expectations you each bring to the relationship regarding the roles you should assume with each other. There is also a tendency to under-appreciate each other’s function within the partnership and this can cause problems. One partner can feel neglected or misunderstood or possibly taken for granted. Take the time to understand fully each other’s contribution to the overall functioning of the relationship, to alleviate any resentment. And be sure to discuss issues as they arise, to avoid forming bad habits.
Easier aspects: It will be easier for you to align yourselves with your emotional side and to feel free to express that part of you with each other and even publicly. You will feel a greater sense of connection and find it easier to take on roles within your relationship without resentment. You are able to establish harmony more quickly than most.
Kurt’s Mercury Trine Goldie’s Mars (easier aspect):
If this is the most exact aspect between your charts, your main relationship theme is being straightforward and proactive in both your initiatives and in your communication.
Easier aspects: It will be easy for you to be direct and initiate communication with each other. You won’t want to leave issues unresolved for long, you’d rather get them out of the way, so you can move on to other activities. You have considerable skill in communicating with teens or youths and it’s possible your work lies in this area or in another that involves strong communication skills. Gathering and distributing information is your forte and can include salesmanship or promoting anything you find worthwhile.
Challenging aspects: At times you are too assertive in the way you express your opinions and, instead of getting support, you will antagonize your partner and others. Speaking before you think can also cause unnecessary hurt and lasting impressions. Take a moment to think before you speak and consider both to whom you are speaking and the consequences of your communication beyond the immediate moment. Impatience can be the culprit of many of your communication problems. Take time to really listen to the other person.
Kurt’s Mars Trine Goldie’s Pluto (easier aspect):
If this is the most exact aspect between your charts, your main relationship theme is to understand, express and harness the wealth of human emotion, passion and power.
Easier aspects: As partners, you are able to focus your energies easily on what you want from life and you have the energy to attain it. You pursue each other’s love or respect with great passion and power and, your bond is a strong one. You will be solicited for positions of power once people understand that you can make things happen in a big way. Part of giving back can be to encourage and train younger folk to persist and go for the prize.
Challenging aspects: In your relationship, you will be dealing with the deep and sometimes unresolved emotional and psychological conflicts of your partner. Intimacy makes these wounded areas of your partner’s psyche more vulnerable. So tread carefully and also don’t overreact. Spend necessary time to understand what motivates you and be sure to “own your stuff,” as they say. Avoid blaming others or projecting your hurts. Work with your frustrations and your passion and learn to control your angry responses. Self-control, now that’s real power.
Goldie’s Sun Sextile Kurt’s Saturn (easier aspect):
If this is the most exact aspect between your charts, your main relationship theme is one of responsibility and credibility. You will likely be ambitious to achieve certain goals and work hard at self-improvement. Honing your skills and talents in order to gain the respect of your peers or community is important. With consistent effort, you can become experts and leaders in your field of endeavor.
Easier aspects: In your relationship, you will seek security and stability for yourselves and anyone or anything else under your care and protection. You are organizers and will forge step-by-step plans to reach your goals. Others will admire your persistence and discipline. Because you enjoy being productive, or enjoy the benefits of working, there are times when you’ll overwork yourselves. You will need to learn to balance your work time with relaxed, fun times. Although you seem to attract responsibility, it is also something you desire and you appear to handle it well, most of the time.
Challenging aspects: You are likely to have many struggles in your life together and, perhaps, more responsibility than most for children or parents or your careers. Although your successes are often hard-won, you are unlikely to give up, and your struggles can make you stronger. What’s important is that you refuse to become negative or cynical if things take longer or are more difficult than you wanted. Maintaining your integrity in the midst of adversity will earn you the respect and trust of others, and with time and persistence, you will reach your goals.
Kurt’s Venus Square Goldie’s Saturn (challenging aspect):
If this is the most exact aspect between your charts, your main relationship theme concerns the values of seriousness, integrity, trust, commitments and contracts.
Challenging aspects: It’s possible there are obstacles to being committed in love or in business that will frustrate both of you. Timing can be an issue – you may wait too long and delay your decision until the opportunity has passed by. You will learn by trial and error your own rhythm of timing, and when making a move or taking action feels right to you. Avoid negative criticism of yourself and others, because it is counterproductive. It’s also only part of the whole picture.
Easier aspects: You are cautious when getting involved and look for trustworthiness and quality in others, but these are also what you are willing to give. You feel most content with familiar repeated patterns or habits and with creating financial and emotional security. The stability of marriage or formal business contracts appeals to your careful and methodical nature. You are well organized and reliable and tend to keep your word. Others will seek out these admirable abilities. You will be offered positions of responsibility and leadership, and your sense of timing is excellent.
Goldie’s Moon Sextile Kurt’s Venus (easier aspect):
If this is the most exact aspect between your charts, your main relationship themes are valuing emotional balance, a beautiful and harmonious home environment and graciousness and fairness in all your dealings with others.
Easier aspects: You have a natural charm and a way of diffusing tensions in times of conflict. In fact, you don’t really like conflict and confrontation and are quite happy in offering compromises whenever possible. Your relationships with others tend to be positive, although there are times when you fail to say what is necessary for fear of upsetting the apple cart. You will have many friends and associates, and social engagements will always be important in your lives. You strive for beauty and equanimity.
Challenging aspects: Taking each other for granted and failing to give praise or acknowledgement for favors is an issue that you will have to deal with. Self-indulgence can also make life a bit difficult. Living beyond your means or seeking to keep up appearances will eventually create strain in your relationship. Take time to identify what’s the most important value to strive for in any situation You will also learn how much to compromise and when it’s too much, even for the sake of peace.
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