When the Sun in one chart forms an aspect to another person's
Saturn
Sun conjunct Saturn in synastry:
One strong factor that attracted you to each other (perhaps
unconsciously) is the feeling that you can have a deep, stable,
permanent relationship and settle down together, facing life's
responsibilities in a mature way, tackling challenges together
such as raising children, becoming financially secure, etc. These
concerns can gradually cause your relationship to become too
absorbed with "serious" matters, causing both of you to feel
limited and stifled by the relationship. Saturn has a strong
tendency to criticize and judge Sun's actions, sometimes
accurately and sometimes unjustly. Saturn should guard against
this tendency to dampen Sun's enthusiasm, and Sun needs to avoid
being overly sensitive to Saturn's suggestions and criticisms.
Saturn's tendency to dominate, control, or even repress Sun makes
Sun feel resentful at times, and Sun may feel lowered vitality and
self-confidence after being with Saturn for a long time. You must
make room for lightness and play, or you both will feel burdened
by the tone that is set between you. Remember that there is a
solid sense of being able to depend on one another, and this is a
precious gift. Saturn may not be aware of the limiting effect
Saturn has on Sun, and Sun would do well to understand that Saturn
has this influence due to insecurities. There can be some haughty
and judgmental exchanges between the two of you at times, and it
is wise to step back and examine exactly why this happens! Saturn
can easily feel threatened by Sun's expressions of growth and
individuality, because Saturn feels much more safe when Sun stays
the same! Growth on Sun's part does not mean growing apart from
Saturn, and Saturn would do well to understand this.
Sun opposition Saturn in synastry:
In the early stages of your relationship Sun is likely to feel
attracted to the mature, steady, disciplined, and responsible
qualities of Saturn, but over time these same qualities can begin to
feel restrictive, limiting, even oppressive. Saturn can fall into
the role of being the parent, teacher, or taskmaster of Sun, causing
Sun to feel inhibited and confined by Saturn's seriousness and
inflexibility. If Sun can benefit from the responsible and concerned
attitude of Saturn and Saturn can refrain from taking problems or
concerns too seriously, then the positive sense of maturity,
responsibility, and stability of the relationship can overcome the
negative tendencies.
Sun square Saturn in synastry:
Although it's not usually apparent at the beginning of your
relationship, certain patterns and dynamics are likely to develop
between you over time. Saturn must be very careful not to harshly
criticize or judge Sun. There is a strong tendency for Sun to feel
blocked, frustrated, and discouraged by Saturn. Typically, Saturn
will feel surprised by Sun's feelings of frustration and anger, and
feel that Sun is just being overly sensitive to criticism. There is
an element of truth to both viewpoints: Saturn tends to be too
critical of Sun and Sun tends to be too sensitive to the criticism;
the combination can be disastrous! Sun may try to ignore the
problem, but ignoring the problem will not cause the problem to
disappear. This is a relationship that can help both of you mature a
great deal; you are able to build a secure, stable life together and
face many challenges and responsibilities together that you have
been trying to avoid. However, the tendency to become overly
concerned with your responsibilities and be too conservative,
cautious, and restrictive towards each other must not get out of
hand, or you will both feel severely confined and restricted by
being together.
Sun trine Saturn in synastry:
Saturn is very dedicated and loyal to Sun, with a strong desire to
fulfill the responsibilities and demands of this relationship.
Saturn is willing to go the extra mile and make sacrifices without
complaining, for the benefit of Sun and the relationship. Sun is
encouraging and supportive of Saturn, inspiring a sense of security
and well-being. If the two of you engage in business activities or
marry, you will find that you work well together on meeting the
problems that arise and you can count on each other to be
responsible and trustworthy. There is a deep sense of mutual
commitment and dedication that holds your relationship together,
even when you go through difficult times together.
Sun sextile Saturn in synastry:
There is a deep sense of mutual commitment and dedication that keeps
the two of you together, even when you face difficult times. Saturn
is very dedicated and loyal to Sun, sincerely interested in being
responsible to Sun, and willing to make sacrifices when necessary.
The two of you work well together on practical matters and business
affairs. If you marry, you will find that you can rely on each other
to be helpful and responsible.
General notes about Sun-Saturn connections in synastry:
The Sun represents our "inner adult" (the Moon symbolizes our
"inner child"), and Saturn represents our inner parent. When Sun
meets Saturn in synastry, there can be a "war" not unlike one that
can exist when an adult lives with a parent! Management of these
interchart aspects requires stepping back from the situation and
asking yourselves why you are reacting as you are to each other. The
Sun person can easily feel picked on and can resent the
"interference" of the Saturn person. The Saturn person can feel
unjustly criticized as well.
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