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Star*Mate Composite Report for
Camilla Parker Bowles
and
Prince Charles
Birth Data for Camilla:
Camilla Parker BowlesJuly 17, 1947
7:00 AMLondon, England
Birth Data for Prince Charles:
Prince CharlesNovember 14, 1948
9:14 PMLondon, England
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This interpretation is based on the composite chart and planetary positions at
birth.
Introduction
"The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical
substances: if there is any reaction, both are transformed." Carl Jung
When we enter into a relationship with another person, we become a part of
something greater than ourselves, the relationship. We are lifted out of
ourselves. And it is through relationship, that we can truly see who we are as
individuals, both the light and dark. So it is where it is most possible to
develop personally, professionally and spiritually.
Astrology, derived from the Ancient Greek word astrologia meaning "telling of
the stars," affords us information that usually remains hidden. Having a clear
overview and understanding can empower us to achieve harmony and wholeness
through a relationship and guide us through any troubled or dangerous waters.
The composite (or relationship) chart can tell us what a relationship looks
like inside, where we meet and where we don’t. It shows us what experiences are
possible together, what is easy or difficult. The composite chart will reveal
the pattern and magic of a relationship when people come together. It is
special and unique, just as the individuals who are relating, and ceases to
exist when they are no longer together.
We long to participate in the magic and upliftment of relationship and we want
to avoid the challenges and fears that it also brings. With the blueprint of
our relationship in hand, we can gain and apply antidotes to the pains of
relationship & celebrate more consciously the delights. Sometimes this means we
can grow a common garden variety relationship into an exotic flower that can be
appreciated and benefit all, including ourselves. And sometimes it precludes
anything happening at all except the chaos of weeds. The choice all depends on
the individuals involved, their goals, values and focus and what they do with
the blueprint.
There is also a Mystery at the heart of every relationship that is not even
revealed by the ‘telling’ of astrology. This is the uncharted territory of
which even astrology can only allude to as Love or Fate.
These are the strengths and limitations of the composite chart and this
interpretation attempts to empower you both with the blueprint and tools to
guide your way in your relationship.
"The ritual of marriage is not simply a social event; it is a crossing of
threads in the fabric of fate. Many strands bring the couple and their families
together and spin their lives into a fabric that is woven on their children."
Portuguese-Jewish Wedding Ceremony.
Copyright 2006 Pemo Theodore
Chapter 1: Important Issues and Themes in your Relationship
"Intimate relationships cannot substitute for a life plan. But to have any
meaning or viability at all, a life plan must include intimate relationships."
Harriet Lerner
Every relationship is as individual, as are its participants! This chapter
looks at the very bedrock of your relationship and identifies what your
potential is when you are together. Each relationship has issues that need to
be dealt with on an ongoing basis and different ways of dealing with them.
There are also certain areas of life within which individuals find themselves
when they are together. If the essence of a relationship is healthy and
positive, there is nothing that you cannot accomplish in life and then the
relationship is self-renewing and fulfilling. It is important to identify what
in essence you have together that you can then build on. Then everything else
is bonus!
Second/Eighth House Emphasis in Composite Chart (4 or more planets):
This relationship is incredibly stable and will be rock solid for you and also
possibly serve others in that way too. There may be a strong focus on creating
material security together and you will definitely benefit by being together,
whether this is spiritually or materially will depend on your focus. This is a
great relationship for business or commitment as your focus will be on going the
distance together. There is a depth here too that supports intimacy, both sexual
and emotional and shared resources. However it may be hard to change or loosen
your hold on this relationship, if ever that is needed.
Third/Ninth House Emphasis in Composite Chart (4 or more planets):
Communication and understanding is easy in this relationship. You may like to
share intellectual activities together. You are continually learning, teaching
and expanding your vistas together, and networks outside the relationship will
be important for the stimulus that they bring to the relationship. Your
relationship may also involve travel, both within your general area and foreign.
There is a free quality to your mode of relating and interest and mutual
understanding are usually present. This is a great relationship for teacher and
student.
Sun in 3rd or 9th house in composite chart:
There is a light and free manner to this relationship and you will enjoy
expressing yourselves through learning, growing and traveling together.
Communication and networking with others are very important and you may find it
easy to include others who will bring much mental stimulus to the relationship.
You both like to know that there is meaning in being together. Movement both
of ideas and of the relationship is essential for it work well for both of you.
Whichever person appears to be the more active partner may identify much more
with the connecting and learning strength, when you are together.
Moon in 5th or 11th house in composite chart:
This relationship will have a lot of heartfelt feelings. You will care about
yourselves, others and any creative ventures that arise from the relationship.
There is a childlike quality to the feelings that are engendered and therefore
you may find it easy to play, have fun and be entertained by each other. It is
easy in this relationship to stay connected to your hearts’ desires and this
will keep the relationship at its best. Whichever person appears to be the more
receptive partner may identify much more with the strong feelings of love, joy
and playfulness, when you are together.
Sun Opposition Mars:
This is a strongly dynamic and attractive relationship where you both need to
express your individual desires whilst together. Sexuality, work and physical
activities are good opportunities for togetherness with this dynamic connection.
Be careful of being aggressive and too competitive with each other which can
preclude relating. Whichever person appears to be the more active partner may
identify much more with this very active energy, when you are together.
Sun Square Uranus:
Your individual expression is challenged by this relationship and you may
struggle to be involved. It is important to balance your individual insight and
needs for space together with working together on meaningful projects. There is
a danger here that you may feel it is easier to fly solo than to be together, so
be creative with this relationship - it has to have its own stamp! Whichever
person appears to be the more active partner may identify much more with this
pull to do their own thing, when you are together.
Sun Semisextile Saturn:
You can establish a sense of security within this relationship. You value
consistency and are in touch with what motivates your security needs. Whichever
person appears to be the more active partner may identify much more with this
stability, when you are together.
Moon Opposition Jupiter:
You feel good benefiting others and are very giving emotionally. You may have
personal benefactors who support you and that inspires a confidence and optimism
about yourselves. However you may also be controlled by big displays of
feelings and need to make sure that you are in touch with the simple exchanges
within the relationship. Whichever person appears to be the more receptive
partner may identify much more with these extreme feelings, when you are
together.
Chapter 2: How You Complement One Another
"Passion makes the world go round. Love just makes it a safer place." Ice T,
The Ice Opinion
It feels like a kind of magic when people are attracted to each other, about
which we can only wonder. If it is not there, we are not drawn to continue
connecting with each other. Depending on the strength and quality of this
attraction it is easy, delightful or compulsive to connect. When we are in a
long term relationship with someone it provides a pull that brings us back
together through more difficult times. It is the desire adhesive that sticks us
together; otherwise we would easily drift away from each other due to all the
pressures of modern life. This magnetism, lack of it or repulsion is the subtle
energy that binds us, or not, in relationship with others. That attraction can
comprise of sexual desire, physical appreciation and feelings of love and warmth
that are easily accessible. It helps us make the compromises that are necessary
in any partnership and encourages our collaborating and co-operating with one
another. As a result it is an extremely important factor in the fate and
enjoyment of any kind of relationship.
Venus in 2nd or 8th house in composite chart:
You value & appreciate this relationship and love each other very loyally. You
may enjoy building up your financial and creative resources together. You have
a sense of security and trust in the love that you share together. You may feel
very deep levels of love for each other and the sexual expression of your love
would be a further dimension of care towards each other. You love to express
your romantic love intimately.
Mars in 3rd or 9th house in composite chart:
You need a lot of movement in this relationship, either physical travel or
ideas. You may like to communicate and this could be good for a friendship or
learning type of relationship. You spark each other off and will be stimulated
mentally when together. Be careful if you spar verbally, that your partner’s
feelings are not hurt. Make sure that you either travel together or spend some
time together. You need the freedom to explore and providing for that need
should keep the connection dynamic and passionate.
Venus Conjunct Saturn:
You may have difficulties expressing your love for each other and may veer to
minimal displays. However you both value the longevity of the relationship and
so will be able to weather hard times together. Sometimes this aspect will feel
like a strong love attraction initially that draws you together and it is later
that you may notice that you feel shy or inhibited about being demonstrative
once the relationship is established. You both value a conservative expression
of love and money.
Venus Sextile Uranus:
You have opportunities to feel the excitement of a love, which includes who you
are as individuals. Your friends may help you stay aware whilst caring for each
other. The freedom that you afford yourselves and others is the magnet that
keeps you together.
Mars Opposition Mercury:
You are easily triggered by each other mentally, for good or ill. You may find
that your communications become heated easily and also they may inspire sexual
attraction. Your ideas challenge each other and stimulate new ways of thinking
and acting. However you also need to be careful that you are not critical of
each other and don’t promote too much anxiety or worry in each other. Also you
may find that you think and talk about sex a lot?
Mars Trine Chiron:
You are instinctively drawn together and your physical relationship is very
healing to both of you. You are attracted to each other on a very basic human
level. There is an easy and sensual flow of energy together.
Mars Quincunx Pluto:
You may find it difficult to handle the intensity of the sexual and physical
side of this relationship. You will need to find a creative balance between
asserting your will and desires and regenerating and renewing your energies
between you.
Asc. Trine Jupiter:
There is a great ease between your philosophy and how the relationship expresses
itself. You will easily feel inspired and enthused and find a sense of meaning
when you are together. Initially you may have felt excited about the
possibilities when you are together. Others too may be uplifted by this
relationship and you will generally have a positive response when you are
together. The world just becomes a better place, full of more opportunity by
being together.
Asc. Sextile Moon:
There is a great ease between the personal side of your lives and how the
relationship expresses itself. You feel comfortable together and can share how
your feelings naturally. Others will also see the feeling flow that you share
and may benefit from your caring too. When you first met you probably instantly
connected to each other emotionally. Whichever person appears to be the more
receptive partner may identify much more with this flow of feeling, when you are
together.
MC Opposition Neptune:
This is an incredibly significant and strongly intuitive relationship! You will
instantly empathize and feel connected to each other on a soul level. You may
feel drawn to being together spiritually. However you will have to practice
consciousness on boundary keeping as this relationship tends to dissolve your
individual boundaries instantly. Be careful to honor each other’s individual
selves and clarify those as well. Clear communication is the main tool that can
support this relationship in working at its most positive.
MC Trine Jupiter:
This is a significant relationship as your opportunities for expansion and
growth flow easily with the integrity and core of the relationship. You both
feel blessed by the sense of optimism that this relationship engenders and there
may also be a sense of confidence that there is nothing you can’t do together.
MC Trine Pluto:
This is a significant relationship as the intensity and profundity when you are
together flow easily with the integrity and core of the relationship. There is
an ability to support each other in change through love rather than
manipulation. It is easy to empower each other through this relationship.
MC Quincunx Mercury:
This is a significant relationship but you will need to be creative as regards
your communication styles and ideas. There may be challenges between the
integrity and core of the relationship and how you think independently and
communicate to each other. You will both value your individual ideas and
understand what motivates them. Others will acknowledge the creativity that is
necessary to resolve this.
MC Sesquiquadrate Venus:
Although a significant relationship, there will be some conflict with the
integrity and core of this relationship and the attraction and love you feel for
each other. You will be forced to act to resolve this in a positive manner
within the relationship.
Chapter 3: How You Communicate
"Listen. Do not have an opinion while you listen because frankly, your
opinion doesn’t hold much water outside of Your Universe. Just listen. Listen
until their brain has been twisted like a dripping towel and what they have to
say is all over the floor." Hugh Elliott, Standing Room Only weblog, 02-14-2003
"When in doubt, tell the truth." Mark Twain (1835 - 1910)
The bridge that links us as individuals and saves us from our isolation is
communication and so it is a key piece to any relationship. The good news is
that anyone can learn communication skills if they are interested in bridging
that gap. One of the main skills is listening, and of course we can listen not
only with our ears but on all levels. And the other key skill is truth telling.
These two basic keys are the best foundation for any kind of good relationship
and guarantee that you can continue to grow and develop together.
In some relationships we easily develop good communication patterns but in
others there are inherent stresses or resistances to healthy sharing on this
level. We then have to work harder to maintain optimum communication levels.
So when starting any new relationship, it would bode us well if we are
initially challenged, to be realistic about how much effort will need to be
expended in developing consciousness and healthy habits for the future
relationship. Then we can choose whether this is worthy of our effort or not.
Be forewarned that the largest common cause of relationship breakdown is when
there is a breakdown in communication. Then the bridge that everything else
must cross to link us has fallen into the crevasse between us. Bringing
consciousness to this area in all your relationships will pay off dividends with
healthy, happy and flourishing connections with others.
Mercury in 3rd or 9th house in composite chart:
You talk easily and learn from each other by exchange of ideas. You also love
the stimulation of contributions from your networks and neighbors. Movement is
central to you both, of ideas and travel and so development needs to be obvious.
You will include others in your exchange of ideas and learning. This makes for
a very good friendship at the very least but doesn’t necessarily denote
stability of the connection.
Mercury Square Jupiter:
Your individual thinking and communication styles run into conflict as you tend
to leap into grand ideas without paying attention to the details. You may find
that it is challenging to plan your goals or you may get lost in the details to
the cost of seeing where they are leading. You generally aim for a positive
direction in your conversations but there may be a tendency to be too
overoptimistic, without getting a reality check or just too much talk without
the follow through. You may become disillusioned as if there is no substance in
your conversations or thinking at times. Checking with each other at the end of
conversations to make sure that each person has had a chance to have their input
and brushing up on your listening skills will support you in experiencing this
positively.
Mercury Sextile Chiron:
You have opportunities to be instinctively connected with your ideas and
conversations. Others may provide support in understanding past challenges in
thinking and communicating as regards your basic humanity that emerges when you
are together. The healing effect of your ideas and communications will benefit
others around you too.
Mercury Semisextile Pluto:
You value the intensity and power of your ideas and conversations. You are also
aware of what motivates your intimate exchanges. As a result you are able to
deepen your ideas and communications with each other as well as empower
yourselves.
Chapter 4: Challenges to Relating
"I love being married. It's so great to find that one special person you want
to annoy for the rest of your life." Rita Rudner
In some cases the challenges to relating are easily transformed and then
integrated and in others they feel more like stumbling towards the eventual
collapse of the relationship! Challenges in life can be important to help us
remain conscious in our participation with each other, rather than falling into
a state of unconscious participation that allows our complexes full expression!
However there is a middle line, a relationship cannot be all about work, but
needs an element of relaxation so that we can rest and restore ourselves whilst
together. If this place of refuge is not available then we cannot and will not
persist with the development of a mature relationship. So it is important that
any relationship is not overburdened with challenges and lacking any ease, joy
and fun.
There are many kinds of challenges within relationships; these occur mainly in
the areas of communication, sexuality, finances, security and trust to name just
a few. All these challenges can be alleviated and bridged through clear
communication. Trust can be established if you know that both parties are
committed to growing the relationship. That is the foundation underneath any
relationship, the willingness to go the distance through good times or bad, so
that when life intervenes to ‘spoil our fun’ we have tools and a sense of
perseverance to persist.
It is up to the individuals whether the challenges within their relationships
are workable and ultimately elevating or whether they are more trouble than they
are worth.
Saturn in 2nd or 8th house in composite chart:
Safety and security are big issues for you when you are together. This
relationship will be focused on building trust with each other and establishing
both these themes. Whatever these issues mean to you individually, you will
work together, whether building material security or emotional stability and
security together. You will feel committed to being together to learn certain
lessons about these for a certain period of time and may not find it easy to
move on. Be careful that the fear of lack and insecurity doesn’t underpin your
relationship.
North Node in 4th or 10th house in composite chart:
You will feel drawn to build a structure together, whether that is family and
home or a business. You will identify with certain roles as individuals within
this relationship. Within the context of these roles and the structure that you
build together, you will discover the areas that need to be developed or worked
upon as individuals within this relationship. These lessons will tend to be
focused on home, family, career and your roles in the world.
True Node Opposition Chiron:
You will feel fatefully and instinctively drawn together physically. The
vulnerabilities that are exposed from past relationship wounds will be brought
to the surface to be released and healed. Within the context of this
vulnerability, you will discover the areas that need to be developed or worked
upon as individuals within this relationship. These lessons will tend to be
focused on relationship wounds, physicality, sense of meaning and wholeness
within relating and vulnerabilities.
True Node Square Saturn:
This destined commitment to each other may be in conflict with your individual
social contexts. There may be a sense of undue responsibility, work and
pressure as a couple. Within this conflict, you will discover the areas that
need to be developed or worked upon as individuals within this relationship.
These lessons will tend to be focused on trust, loyalty and responsibility.
True Node Square Pluto:
Your fateful intensity of relating may be in conflict with your individual sense
of empowerment. The transformative quality of the relationship may cause
disharmony due to issues around control. Within the context of this conflict,
you will discover the areas that need to be developed or worked upon as
individuals within this relationship. These lessons will tend to be focused on
empowerment, transformation and intensity.
True Node Trine Sun:
You may take it for granted how easily you integrate the destiny of your purpose
in being together. You will smoothly harness your focus for the goals that will
be developed together. Within the context of this flow, you will discover the
areas that will be developed as individuals within this relationship. These
lessons will be around mission, purpose and creative expression. Whichever
person appears to be the more active partner may identify much more with the
flow of destined purpose that is available, when you are together.
True Node Trine Mercury:
You may take it for granted how easily you integrate the destiny of the sharing
of ideas together. You will smoothly develop a fated friendship and
communication patterns together. The destiny of movement will flow smoothly.
Within the context of this flow, you will discover the areas that will easily
be developed as individuals within this relationship. These lessons will be
around learning, communicating and understanding.
Black Moon Lilith in 1st or 7th house in composite chart:
This relationship has a strong soul to soul partnership, and you feel linked
together at the roots of your being. Very strong sexual and instinctual
feelings are also triggered, and this can be wonderful. However there will also
be a lot of unconscious content activated, and that can show up as willful
behavior, strong sexual drive and extreme independent action. There are no
rules for this relationship; in fact trying to force structure to contain this
energy will defeat the wonderful potential is possible. You have a very strong
pull to be together that will draw you both in and the fulfillment that you will
both feel can be deep and soul fulfilling. Just be aware of the potential
dangers of the hidden sides of your natures which is also released.
Communication and acceptance are the keys here to promote the best of this
potential.
True Lilith Opposition Pluto:
This relationship is very profound and transforming as deep emotional and sexual
feelings are triggered in each other and those around you. There is a need for
deep intimacy and acceptance will allow these wild feelings to nourish you and
others. It is important too that you allow the feeling of Love to sustain you
rather than revert to willpower. Then normally hidden and unconscious contents
can surface and be integrated in a healing way.
True Lilith Square Chiron:
There is a conflict between your vulnerabilities from past relationship wounds
and the deep emotions and sexuality that are released from being together. You
may find that these more unconscious feelings disturb your sense of wholeness
and need to be accepted and integrated. Repressing these feelings will only
prove disruptive to the relationship and contribute to lack of depth.
True Lilith Trine Neptune:
You may take it for granted how easily your subtle, spiritual connection flows
together with the deep emotions and sexuality that surface within the
relationship. Your individual boundaries integrate easily together with this
level that is normally unconscious. It is easy to accept and integrate, so that
you are capable of intuiting together on a profound, soulful level.
True Lilith Sextile MC:
This is a significant relationship as the integrity and core of the relationship
flows easily with the deep emotions and sexuality that surface within the
relationship. The roles you share together whether in work, home or family
integrate easily together with this level that is normally unconscious. It is
easy to accept and integrate, so that you are capable of functioning together on
a profound, soulful level.
True Lilith Quincunx Mercury:
You may find it difficult to integrate the deep emotional and sexual feelings
you share with how you think and communicate. You need to find a creative
resolution to this paradox and find ways to bring to consciousness these
normally hidden and unconscious components.
True Lilith Sesquiquadrate Uranus:
There may be underlying tensions between your needs for freedom and space and
the deep emotional and sexual feelings you share. Others may appear to trigger
this; however you will need to resolve this by integrating this normally hidden
and unconscious level.
Chapter 5: Background of the Relationship
"My mother used to say that there are no strangers, only friends you haven't
met yet. She's now in a maximum security twilight home in Australia." Dame Edna
Everage (1934)
"Nobody sees a flower - really - it is so small it takes time - we
haven't time - and to see takes time, like to have a friend takes time." Georgia
O'Keeffe (1887 - 1986)
"Don't accept rides from strange men, and remember that all men are
strange." Robin Morgan
We have many different types of relationships. These days we have the
luxury of being able to be very creative with all our relationships and can work
together to make them suit us as individuals. We have grown beyond
automatically relating from predetermined roles. This is truly wonderful as it
has the great advantage that we then are challenged to stay conscious whilst we
interact with each other.
It is important in any kind of relationship to have friendship as the underlying
foundation. The origins of the word friend come from the Old English word "freond"
which meant "to love, to favor" and is related to the Old English word "freo"
which meant "free". This is a clue as to how to make all our relationships
successful, to honor each other"s freedom as individuals and to love each other.
This can be applied to all business and personal relationships if we want to
achieve the highest expression of potential between others.
Jupiter in 5th or 11th house in composite chart:
In this relationship you are blessed in the areas of love, creativity, friends,
fun and possibly also children. You grow and learn from each other by following
your heart's desires and as a result you have a lot of generosity of heart
towards those around you. This could be a "great love"! You are both playful
together and may like to be involved in entertainments, sports or just having
fun with whatever you are doing together. Creative projects will be done in a
big way and you could benefit very much from these.
Chiron in 4th or 10th house in composite chart:
This relationship brings to consciousness vulnerabilities from past relationship
wounds, as they relate to the roles that you share. Your very humanity at the
core and integrity of being together is incorporated as you build the structure
of home, family or business. These vulnerabilities may come from the past, from
family or your work environment. As you accept and feel more whole about these
issues, you will experience a great sense of healing. This can extend to those
around you too.
Uranus in 5th or 11th house in composite chart:
This relationship is about individual creative expression whether through love,
creative projects, following your heart's desires or children. You both will
value the freedom to explore your inner child within this relationship. Just be
careful that the disruptive and willful behavior of your "inner children" does
not destroy the mature love that you have for each other. By affording
opportunities for creating this relationship to suit both your individual needs
for freedom and independence as well as the truth of your care for each other
will be a positive expression of this relationship.
Neptune in 3rd or 9th house in composite chart:
This relationship has a very strong intuitive level of communication. You may
find it hard to keep your thoughts to yourself as the permeable membrane between
each other's minds is so strong. In spite of this, it is important that you
practice clear and regular communication to avoid confusion or disappointment.
You both may share a spiritual path together and therefore share your ideas and
conversations on these topics.
Pluto in 1st or 7th house in composite chart:
This is a very profound partnership where you may feel compulsive, driven or
drawn to be together. There may be a fateful quality to the partnership. Being
together will change you both and has the potential for great empowerment
individually. Others will see you both as a very powerful force when you are
together. It is important that you stay connected to the Love with the
relationship and not resort to manipulation or control of each other, or those
around you.
Chiron Square Pluto:
You find that your empowerment is challenged from past relationship wounds that
are exposed when you are together. You will be challenged to balance both your
need for transformation with acceptance of your basic human vulnerability. You
have the potential for profound healing and sense of wholeness together.
Ceres in 5th or 11th house in composite chart:
This relationship has a strong caring focus for creative projects or children.
You are able to nourish from a deep well within your hearts, and your hearts
are certainly pivotal in how you care for each other and others. You look after
yourselves by having fun, through entertainment or sports or just through the
sheer joy of Love. This could certainly be a very fulfilling, great Love!
However if this love together is threatened, then you will experience the
opposite face of devastation and loss. This will be a heart-breaking loss!
Juno in 1st or 7th house in composite chart:
This partnership has clearly defined roles and an inherent basis that you were
meant to be together. You can go through challenges to the partnership and
still come back together. This is probably a formal relationship such as a
marriage or business partnership. You definitely can go the distance with each
other for long term results and goals. It is necessary to be aware of game
playing within the clearly established roles that you have together. It is
human nature to "want to have it all", much better to be honest about that than
to live by deception and game playing.
Vesta in 2nd or 8th house in composite chart:
This relationship has a strong focus on working to build material and financial
security together. You will expend a lot of hard work to achieve your goals in
this area. You both will have extreme devotion to building trust and stability
in the relationship through work and sexual expression. In fact the sexual part
of the relationship may become a thing almost holy and definitely an area of
spiritual transformation! Be careful not to distract yourselves with work and
when matters of the heart may need to be addressed with love and or passion.
Psyche in 4th or 10th house in composite chart:
This relationship is focused on a core level with integrating the human
vulnerabilities that you share within your love and sexual relationship. You
focus the very integrity of the relationship on the deep feelings that surface
and are brought to consciousness. You are then able to weave those together
with your involvement in building together some sort of structure, whether home,
family or business. There is a great sense of meaning in being together that
feeds your soul on a higher level.
Sappho in 5th or 11th house in composite chart:
Your heart's desires and expression are the focus of your passionate romantic
and sexual attraction. You have deep value for each other and the areas of life
that you share, whether creative expression, children, entertainment, fun or
sports. The bond between you is the focus of most of your creative expression,
which can be poetic in some way. As a couple you possibly support others in
preparation for the challenges of formalizing partnerships through marriage or
some other official bond.
Eros in 4th or 10th house in composite chart:
You focus your erotic love on a core life structure that you are building
together, whether business, home and family. Your sexual passion is integral to
the lives you share together and will bring a life and vitality to your personal
lives or business. You are very sexually compatible and this may stem from your
family or heredity. Your family and business life will tend to revolve around
your sexual life as it can be compulsive.
Cupido in 1st or 7th house in composite chart:
You were pulled together due to your strong physical attraction and chemistry
that you have together. Your physical appearance is very appealing to each
other and as a couple you look very attractive together. This is a partnership
that is blessed with a high value on beauty and harmony. You need to be careful
to not be caught too much in the superficial look of the relationship. It is
also important to attend to the heart of your love and care for each other.
Amor in 3rd or 9th house in composite chart:
In this relationship your thinking and communicating will be focused on the
unconditional love that you share and how to develop that together. You may
talk about the ideal aspects of loving each other and the boundaries between you
that contribute to loving each other. You may also become involved in speaking,
lecturing, writing, publishing and media that is focused on ideal love in
relationships. You like to learn how to keep the love flowing so you would be
able to teach each other and those around you. This could be a very creative,
even poetic relationship.
Aphrodite in 2nd or 8th house in composite chart:
This relationship feels fated in developing a sense of security and trust in
your love for each other. There will be a strong focus on beauty and art and
this may be part of your financial security, you will definitely own beautiful
things together. You will build your stability and value on the sense of magic
that draws you together and supports you in staying together. Your sexual
relationship is a major component of this and this may almost be equivalent to a
tantric relationship where you feel touched by the divine when you share your
most intimate moments together. You were meant to be together and trust in the
love you share.
Ceres Conjunct Uranus:
This serious relationship had an instant magnetic attraction to care for each
other. This care comes in the form of encouraging freedom and independent
action within the relationship. This makes for unusual care and nurture which
focuses very individually on your independence and freedom. You can bring
excitement back to nurture each other by allowing this freedom within the
relationship.
Ceres Square Sun:
You have difficulty bringing your care and support for each other together with
the purpose of why you are together. You want to be nurturing to each other but
there seems to be inherent differences in your goals for the relationship. Be
careful to pay attention to balancing both your relationship purpose and
nurturing each other so that difficulties will be minimized. Whichever person
appears to be the more active partner may identify much more with this conflict
with care and purpose, when you are together.
Juno Opposition Asc.:
This very important partnership will have some kind of contract or bond,
possibly marriage which will be integral to how you present as a couple. Others
will also see you as a united force and a tight couple. As vulnerable humans
we need to work together and partnerships are a foundation of our relationships
with others. So we need to develop these to serve and protect our
vulnerabilities. In this context of safety, we can grow the relationship in
love and trust together. This should be a long term relationship where you are
seen as a strong partnership and can foster other partnerships.
Juno Opposition Pluto:
This is an important relationship which has some sort of contract or bond,
possibly marriage or business that involves the intense, transformative
exchanges that you share. You are bonded together but at times you may find it
challenging in feeling empowered within the relationship. Others may be
involved in this dynamic within the relationship.
Juno Trine Moon:
This important personal relationship easily incorporates the contract or bond
that you share, whether marriage or business with your feelings. There is a
real flow between your bond together and your comfort levels. Whichever person
appears to be the more receptive partner may identify much more with the flow of
feeling, when you are together.
Juno Trine Neptune:
This important relationship easily incorporates the contract or bond that you
share, whether marriage or business with your subtle, soul connection. There is
a real flow with this bond and your spiritual lives. You have an easy empathic
connection and a harmony with your boundary issues so that you really feel well
matched.
Juno Sextile MC:
This is a significant important relationship as the contract or bond that you
share, whether marriage or business combines easily with the integrity and core
of the relationship. There is a real flow between the bond you share and your
roles in building home, family or business. You can experience harmony just
being together and could easily live together.
Juno Sextile Jupiter:
You have opportunities to broaden your world and yourselves within the contract
or bond you share, whether marriage or business. You can easily be inspired and
enthusiastic within the contract you have with each other, with just a little
attention. Friends may be integral in assisting you both to experience this
fulfillment of confidence together.
Vesta Conjunct Venus:
This relationship has a strong work ethic which you will embrace with your
desire and attraction. You may both tend to overcompensate for any difficulties
within the relationship by throwing yourselves into work, healing and creative
sacrifice. However within the relationship this is where your desire and love
burn and so does not imply conflict between you as regards this focus. You can
creatively configure this strong sense of service and healing within the context
of the sexual relationship as well, so that it can be almost a tantric
experience of wholeness.
Vesta Conjunct Saturn:
This relationship has a strong work ethic which you will embrace within your
commitment to each other. You may both tend to overcompensate for any
difficulties within the relationship by throwing yourselves into work, healing
and creative sacrifice. However this is where the foundation and structure lies
within the relationship and so does not imply conflict between you as regards
this focus. You can creatively configure this strong sense of service and
healing within the context of the sexual relationship as well, so that it can be
almost a tantric experience of wholeness.
Psyche Trine Uranus:
You easily integrate this soul union which embodies your personal development,
with your individual and freedom needs. You go with the flow of independence
and find who you are as individuals by looking in the mirror of each other's
eyes. You are also very connected to each other psychologically and the
relationship easily affords you transformation and healing.
Psyche Sextile Venus:
You can see opportunities for this soul union which encompasses personal
development and the desire and attraction you have for each other. Others may
offer you opportunities to find who you are as individuals by looking in the
mirror of each other's eyes. You also have the potential to connect with each
other psychologically and the relationship can afford you transformation and
healing.
Sappho Opposition Uranus:
This is a profound meeting where your sense of comradeship will be polarized
with your individual paths. You share similar values in beauty and the arts but
at times may find it challenging to integrate your independent and freedom
needs. You aim for refinement as regard deeper more unconscious feelings and
your sexual expression. By elevating these areas through the arts and ideas and
balancing them with your independence, you will experience acceptance, and
therefore healing.
Sappho Square Sun:
You have difficulty combining the sense of comradeship between you and its
expression aesthetically, with the purpose of being together. You share similar
values in beauty and the arts but there seems to be inherent differences in how
you view your goals. Your aim for refinement as regard deeper more unconscious
feelings and your sexual expression needs to be balanced with your mission. You
can then experience acceptance and healing and difficulties will be minimized.
Whichever person appears to be the more active partner may identify much more
with this bonding conflict, when you are together.
Sappho Trine Venus:
You easily feel comradeship together, where you share similar values in beauty
and the arts as part of your attraction and desire for each other. Refinement
flows as regard your deeper more unconscious feelings and your sexual
expression. You can easily elevate these areas through the arts and ideas and
will be accepting of each other so that the relationship is healing.
Sappho Trine Saturn:
You easily feel comradeship together, where you share similar values in beauty
and the arts as part of the commitment you share. Refinement flows as regard
your deeper more unconscious feelings and your sexual expression. You can
easily elevate these areas through the arts and ideas and will be accepting of
each other so that the relationship is healing.
Eros Conjunct Chiron:
This is a great Love and you can accept and heal past relationship wounds that
emerge when together! Your vulnerabilities are touched and shaped deeply by
this erotic connection. You are both challenged to love your vulnerabilities
and find a sense of meaning in surrendering to Love.
Eros Opposition True Node:
This is a destined great Love and you were meant to be together! Your fates are
touched and shaped deeply by this erotic connection. You are both challenged to
love your vulnerabilities and find a sense of meaning in surrendering to Love.
Within the context of your erotic connection, you will discover the areas that
need to be developed or worked upon as individuals within this relationship.
These lessons will tend to be focused on this erotic Love.
Eros Square Pluto:
You have difficulty combining the power of this great Love with your sense of
empowerment in the relationship. You are touched and shaped deeply by this
erotic love for each other but there seems to be inherent differences in your
empowerment needs. Be careful to pay attention to balancing both the power of
this erotic Love and each other's sense of power so that difficulties will be
minimized. You are both challenged to love your vulnerabilities and find a
sense of meaning in surrendering to Love.
Eros Trine Mars:
It is easy to surrender to this great Love as part of your energies and sexual
expression together! Your activities and sexuality together flow smoothly as
you are touched and shaped deeply by this erotic connection. You can easily
love your vulnerabilities and find a sense of meaning in surrendering to this
Love.
Cupido Conjunct Pluto:
You are strongly drawn together from a deep unconscious level because you
complement each other in attractiveness and beauty. You find a beauty in each
other that reflects a hidden beauty in yourself and this is integral to your
empowerment together. As a result you turn each other on sexually too.
Cupido Square Chiron:
You have difficulty coming to terms with your attractiveness to each other and
past relationship wounds that are exposed when you are together. You are very
much attracted to each other from a deep unconscious level because you
complement each other in attractiveness and beauty but there seems to be
inherent differences in your human vulnerabilities. Be careful to pay attention
to balancing both the attraction to each other's beauty and your acceptance of
vulnerability so that difficulties will be minimized. You are challenged to
understand that the beauty you are attracted to in each other reflects a hidden
beauty in yourself and that is why you turn each other on sexually too.
Cupido Trine Jupiter:
Your attraction for each other flows easily with your sense of meaning together.
This attraction flows from a deep unconscious level because you complement each
other in attractiveness and beauty. It is easy to find a beauty in each other
as that reflects a hidden beauty in yourself and this is pivotal to your
philosophy and belief systems. As a result this promotes desire and turns each
other on sexually too.
Cupido Trine MC:
This is a significant relationship where your attraction for each other flows
easily with the core and integrity of the relationship. This attraction flows
from a deep unconscious level because you complement each other in
attractiveness and beauty. It is easy to find a beauty in each other as that
reflects a hidden beauty in yourself and this is pivotal to building together
home, family or business. As a result this promotes desire and turns each other
on sexually too.
Cupido Sextile Neptune:
Others can offer you opportunities to integrate your attraction for each other
with the intuitive, subtle connection together. This attraction flows from a
deep unconscious level because you complement each other in attractiveness and
beauty. There are possibilities to find a beauty in each other that reflects a
hidden beauty in you and this is pivotal to the empathy you share together. As
a result this will promote desire and turns each other on sexually too.
Amor Conjunct MC:
This incredibly significant relationship embodies a destined, perfected love,
which may be difficult to experience in reality, in your home, family or
business that you build together. You can creatively incorporate more hidden
unconscious dimensions of desire and attraction in this relationship. Both of
you can identify the boundaries between you and honor and love each other as a
result.
Amor Opposition Neptune:
This is a profound meeting where your destined, perfected love, which may be
difficult to experience in reality, will be polarized with your subtle,
intuitive connection together. You love each other purely but at times may find
it challenging to integrate the more hidden unconscious dimensions of desire and
attraction. Both of you will be challenged to identify the boundaries between
you and honor and love each other as a result.
Amor Trine Jupiter:
This relationship flows easily with your destined, perfected love, which may be
difficult to experience in reality with your sense of meaning together. You can
easily and creatively incorporate more hidden unconscious dimensions of desire
and attraction in this relationship. Within the ease between you, both of you
can identify your boundaries and honor and love each other as a result.
Amor Trine Asc.:
This significant partnership flows easily with your destined, perfected love,
which may be difficult to experience in reality. You can easily and creatively
incorporate more hidden unconscious dimensions of desire and attraction in this
relationship. Within the ease between you, both of you can identify your
boundaries and honor and love each other as a result.
Aphrodite Conjunct Venus:
This is a "bolt out of the blue" fated relationship and figures largely in your
attraction and desire for each other. You are challenged to be creative in
developing this relationship in its own mold and to benefit from the depth and
profundity that it offers.
Aphrodite Square Moon:
You have difficulty combining your "bolt out of the blue" fated relationship
together with your feelings together. You are destined to be connected but
there seems to be inherent differences in your feelings of comfort together. Be
careful to pay attention to balancing both your fated relationship and your
feelings so that difficulties will be minimized. You are challenged to be
creative in developing this relationship in its own mold and to benefit from the
depth and profundity that it offers. Whichever person appears to be the more
receptive partner may identify much more with this conflict of feelings, when
you are together.
Chapter 6: Summary
"Just because you love someone doesn't mean you have to be involved with
them. Love is not a bandage to cover wounds." Hugh Elliott, Standing Room Only
weblog, February 16, 2004
"The conception of two people living together for twenty-five years
without having a cross word suggests a lack of spirit only to be admired in
sheep." Alan Patrick Herbert
"Why is it so hard to find a soulmate? Because most of us are actually
searching for egomates instead. We place the most limited and unloving aspect of
our minds in charge of our search for love, and then wonder why we aren't
succeeding. To the degree that we identify with this false sense of self, and
operate on the basis of its limited point of view, we aren't looking for someone
to love so much as recruiting fellow actors to take on supporting roles in a
favorite melodrama." Carolyn Godschild Miller "Soulmates: Following Inner
Guidance to the Relationship of Your Dreams."
Relationships can be challenging & sometimes seem more trouble than they are
worth. We are challenged to live our best life & to be the best that we can be!
These days going down the relationship path, consciously, can be more profound
& enlightening than getting thyself into a nunnery! We see each other through
the mirror & reflection in each other's eyes, of who we are & what we are doing
or not doing! We cannot hide or delude ourselves when we live in the light of
our partner's eyes. So if we choose to take this path in life we are subject to
all the gifts & joys of sharing, companionship, care & love that relating can
bring. We are also brought more fully into conscious attention to our own souls
& personal development. We honor & respect each other's boundaries & separation
so that we can unite with each other in love & compassion. On a bigger scale the
microcosm of our personal & business relationships are the seed of our
community, our country & our planet. We have all been brought together under
the banner of humanity & our spiritual challenge is learning to live with
ourselves firstly & then others in a harmonious, peaceful & respectful way!
When seen from this perspective, whatever needs to be addressed in our
immediate relationships, will provide a good basis for a better planet! May
these reflections help serve that purpose!
Romantic and Sexual Attraction Medium Score (99):
This relationship has a reasonable level of romantic & sexual attraction & that
means that you would enjoy being together. This is a good foundation for any
kind of relationship that you wish to develop together.
Good Communication, Problem Solving High Score (215):
The bridge that links 2 people is their ability to communicate & this therefore
facilitates understanding of each other. This relationship scores high &
therefore your ability to maintain a good relationship with mutual understanding
& solve life’s problems is excellent.
Longevity & Commitment High Score (174):
This relationship has an excellent ability to go the distance & be a stable
foundation for both of you. You can rely on each other & will easily be able to
face challenges or difficulties. In fact these will only increase your
commitment.
Sense of Fate & Destiny Together High Score (217):
There is an incredibly powerful pull, possibly a compulsion, to be together that
often feels stronger than your own individual personal needs. You may also
experience a strong sense of familiarity even when you initially meet. You will
learn profound & life changing lessons together. It probably feels fated to be
together, so ready or not you will be propelled into big changes together. This
may be a soul mate relationship!
Challenges & Weaknesses High Score (135):
There are many challenges in this relationship & it would bode you well to pay a
lot of attention to them. If one or both of you feel trapped, ignored,
dissatisfied, manipulated, disillusioned or disappointed then you will need to
consciously address these issues. If you want this relationship to work it would
be easier & quicker to seek professional assistance from a therapist, counselor
or coach.
"Love is the most difficult and dangerous form of courage. Courage is the
most desperate, admirable, and noble kind of love." Delmore Schwartz
Chapter 7: Credits
Pemo Theodore has been a practising Australian astrologer for 26 years in many
countries including Australia, Canada, Ireland & the US. She completed the
Federation of Australian Astrologer's certificate exam in November 1983 & was
then President of the FAA on the Sunshine Coast, Queensland. She taught
astrology classes & lectured. She was a Jungian therapist for 7 years having
trained with an Jungian analyst, Patrick Jansen, graduating with a Diploma of
Rebirthing & Transpersonal Psychodynamics in 1985. She is now a certified
International Coach Federation Associate certified Coach. She established her
business Star Consulting in Dublin, Ireland in 2000 & was featured on radio, TV
& newspaper articles. She was the founding President of the Ireland chapter of
the ICF. She was in the first round of ISAR certified astrologers in August
2005.
Pemo's gift & greatest love, both as an astrologer, therapist & coach, has been
relationships; what makes them work & what undermines them. She was featured in
2004 in a Dublin 98FM promotion in which she was the relationship coach &
astrologer and achieved an extremely positive outcome for a couple. She
continues to coach them & other couples. This project, the "Star-Mate Composite
Report", has been a labour of love!
See our Romantic Compatibility Reports
page to see how you can order a report personalized for you, and based on
your birth data.
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