Description
As an alternative to the Romantic Compatibility report, if one or both birth times are unknown, we have a Relationship Report Package with interpretations of both synastry and composite positions that are not time-dependent, with the possible exception of the Moon sign. This package includes the Compatibility Report, Compatibility & Conflict Report, and the Couples Report for Unknown Birth Times(where at least one birth time is unknown).
The 3 reports included in this package include interpretations of the following:
- Comparison of Temperaments
- Major Themes – What Brought You Together
- Destiny and Final Outcome of the Relationship
- Emotions and Communications
- Challenges & Weaknesses
- Romantic & Sexual Attraction
Each of the three reports included in this package run an average of 10 pages long for a total of approximately 30 pages of interpretation.
You will need to provide the following information for both people involved in the relationship:
- Name (First name only is absolutely acceptable).
- Birth Day (example, Aug 15/68 – please use Month/Day/Year format if you are using numerical months)
- Birth Place (City, state/country).
Please note that if one of the people’s birth times is known, it should be included for more accuracy. Unknown birth times are entered as noon, but the houses and Ascendant/Midheaven are not interpreted because these cannot be known if the birth time is not known. The Moon sign may be inaccurate, however, so please treat it as a possibility only.
NOTE: This report package is not available for situations in which birth times are known for both individuals. It is available for situations in which one or both birth times are unknown.
#RRP-U $9.95 US Relationship Report Package – No Birth Times computerized report package is delivered through email usually within 24 hours of receipt of payment AND full information required. The email registered with Paypal will be used to send the report. If you’d prefer the report sent to you at a different email address, please add this to the “Optional Instructions” option given during the ordering process. This package includes three separate reports, each running an average of 10 pages long.
Romantic Compatibility Report Sample
The Compatibility Report for
Goldie Hawn
and
Kurt Russell
Birth Data for Goldie:
Goldie Hawn November 21, 1945
Unknown Birth Time
Washington, D.C.
Birth Data for Kurt:
Kurt Russell March 17, 1951
Unknown Birth Time
Springfield, MA
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This Lovers Report is divided into 4 chapters.
Chapter 1 compares your temperaments and personalities. The issues described in Chapter 1 become particularly powerful if you are married or live together. Idiosyncrasies or quirks in another person’s personality do not bother us as much if our relationship is a casual one. For example, if one person is neat and tidy and the other is sloppy, this is more likely to become a concern if you are married than if you are only seeing each other occasionally.
Pay close attention to the issues described in Chapter 2 because these are the most important themes in your relationship. For example, if themes of romance and sexual attraction are emphasized, then you can count on this relationship being a passionate one. However, if romance and sexuality are hardly mentioned at all, then this relationship will not be a passionate one. Note also that the material in Chapter 2 is presented roughly in order of importance, so that the material presented at the beginning of Chapter 2 is the most powerful.
Chapter 4 describes issues in your relationship of less importance than those presented in Chapter 2. Chapter 3 describes situations and circumstances that arise if you have a close, long-lasting relationship.
If a statement appears to contradict another statement, then your roles are likely to alternate. For example, a statement that Goldie is more aggressive than Kurt, and another statement that Kurt is more aggressive than Goldie, means that you alternate roles, with Goldie sometimes being the leader and Kurt being the follower, and sometimes just the opposite. Also, read the statements carefully, as it is likely that a careful reading will reveal different kinds of aggressiveness or areas in which the aggressiveness is likely to express itself.
To make the most of this report, combine this astrological analysis with other things that you know about each other. For example, we have assumed that you are opposite-sexed (assuming that both of you are heterosexual, otherwise same-sexed). Physical attractiveness, age, religion, education, family and cultural background will affect your relationship as well. The material in Chapters 2, 3, and 4 of this report describes the magnetism between you, but does not describe your individual natures. For example, suppose that Chapter 2 makes little mention of romance and sexuality, but the Natal Reports for each of you indicate that each of you has extremely strong romantic and sexual desires. In this case, marriage is not likely to be successful! However, if romance and sexuality are not important to either of you, then the lack of passion in your relationship is not likely to be as much of a stumbling block.
Your birth chart interpretation is based on the positions of the planets at the time of your birth. For the benefit of
students of astrology, these positions, along with other
technical information, are listed below:
Positions and Data for Goldie: Sun position is 28 deg. 55 min. of Scorpio
Moon position is 26 deg. 24 min. of Gemini
Mercury position is 20 deg. 44 min. of Sagittarius
Venus position is 11 deg. 39 min. of Scorpio
Mars position is 2 deg. 05 min. of Leo
Jupiter position is 18 deg. 28 min. of Libra
Saturn position is 24 deg. 41 min. of Cancer
Uranus position is 16 deg. 06 min. of Gemini
Neptune position is 7 deg. 57 min. of Libra
Pluto position is 11 deg. 47 min. of Leo
Tropical/PLACIDUS Standard time observed. GMT: 14:20:00 Time Zone: 5 hours West. Lat & Long: 38 N 53 42 77 W 02 12
Positions and Data for Kurt: Sun position is 26 deg. 15 min. of Pisces
Moon position is 17 deg. 17 min. of Cancer
Mercury position is 2 deg. 19 min. of Aries
Venus position is 25 deg. 25 min. of Aries
Mars position is 12 deg. 06 min. of Aries
Jupiter position is 21 deg. 46 min. of Pisces
Saturn position is 29 deg. 13 min. of Virgo
Uranus position is 5 deg. 24 min. of Cancer
Neptune position is 18 deg. 46 min. of Libra
Pluto position is 17 deg. 50 min. of Leo
Tropical/PLACIDUS Standard time observed. GMT: 15:42:00 Time Zone: 5 hours West. Lat & Long: 42 N 06 05 72 W 35 25
Note: Birth time of at least one person is not precise.
Chapter 1 A Comparison of Temperaments and Life Styles
that Affect Your Ability to Harmonize with Each Other
Goldie’s Sun in Scorpio and Kurt’s Sun in Pisces:
Both of you are very sensitive, feeling, compassionate people, and with one another you are able to have a depth of sharing and intimacy and emotional union that you will find with few others.
Kurt’s sympathetic, non-judgmental, understanding attitude can be a healing balm to Goldie, who is more emotional and who often carries secret guilts, inner conflicts, and pain.
Goldie is more forceful than Kurt, and will sometimes lash out with sarcasm or vindictiveness when hurt, which deeply wounds Kurt. Kurt is gentler, has less protective armor, and is generally more forgiving than Goldie is. Another difference in your natures is this: Goldie is highly sexual and physical, while Kurt prefers more softness, subtlety, and romance. Basically however, you are quite compatible and can have a very fulfilling union.
Goldie’s Moon in Gemini and Kurt’s Moon in Cancer:
The two of you will need to recognize and accept one another’s different styles and needs in order to avoid numerous misunderstandings.
Kurt is very sensitive and moody, and needs a lot of tenderness, support and understanding at times. Easily hurt, Kurt is very prone to feeling left out or unloved. Kurt holds onto the past; to memories, to people, and to anything of sentimental value.
While Kurt responds very personally and emotionally to everything, Goldie responds intellectually or logically. Instead of tea and sympathy, Kurt is more likely to get a playful and witty comment, an insightful jest, or a reasonable discussion with very little emotional content from Goldie.
Put simply, Goldie is uncomfortable with Kurt’s emotionality, and may feel overwhelmed or smothered by Kurt’s emotional needs or solicitous concern.
Goldie seems too “light”, detached and cool to Kurt at times. It may appear that Goldie doesn’t care very deeply. This may not be the case at all, but Goldie is often unaware of feelings, including personal ones.
Neither is Goldie an especially sentimental creature. Dates that are special to Kurt (anniversaries, birthdays, etc.) aren’t as significant to Goldie as they are to Kurt. Goldie is very flexible and adaptable, however, and can learn to remember how important “the little things” are to Kurt.
Another difference between you is that Kurt is very domestic, loves the familiar, and is quite a homebody, while Goldie is just the opposite. Goldie gets bored without a lot of interaction with others and mental stimulation. Goldie’s restlessness can make Kurt feel insecure at times, but Kurt should definitely resist the tendency to cling so tightly that Goldie feels smothered.
Chapter 2 Major Themes in the Relationship: What Brought You Together
Sun Mutually Aspects Saturn:
As a couple, you tend to focus too much on the responsibilities and duties that you have to each other and not enough time to simply have fun, laugh, and enjoy life. Both of you are also likely to feel blocked in your creative expression. You may feel judged and criticized by each other, and that you hold one another back. Many astrologers would say that you owe each other a “karmic debt”, and whether this is true or not, you will be called on to make lots of sacrifices for one another.
Goldie’s Sun Sextile Kurt’s Saturn:
There is a deep sense of mutual commitment and dedication that keeps the two of you together, even when you face difficult times. Kurt is very dedicated and loyal to Goldie, sincerely interested in being responsible to Goldie, and willing to make sacrifices when necessary. The two of you work well together on practical matters and business affairs. If you marry, you will find that you can rely on each other to be helpful and responsible.
Kurt’s Sun Trine Goldie’s Saturn:
Goldie is very dedicated and loyal to Kurt, with a strong desire to fulfill the responsibilities and demands of this relationship. Goldie is willing to go the extra mile and make sacrifices without complaining, for the benefit of Kurt and the relationship. Kurt is encouraging and supportive of Goldie, inspiring a sense of security and well-being. If the two of you engage in business activities or marry, you will find that you work well together on meeting the problems that arise and you can count on each other to be responsible and trustworthy. There is a deep sense of mutual commitment and dedication that holds your relationship together, even when you go through difficult times together.
Uranus Mutually Aspects Neptune:
Unusual states of consciousness, increased mystical or psychic sensitivity, or creative imagination and inspiration characterize your relationship. You stimulate one another’s aspirations and spiritual yearnings. You can become very unbalanced, impractical, and erratic together. You need to take care not to lose touch with practical limitations and realities.
Goldie’s Uranus Trine Kurt’s Neptune:
You are more open and receptive to the psychic realm and to spiritual impulses when you are together, and as a couple you may explore areas such as telepathy, dreams, meditation, and “higher consciousness” to a greater degree than ever before. You inspire imagination and creativity along artistic or musical lines in one another as well.
Kurt’s Uranus Square Goldie’s Neptune:
Bursts of inspiration, creative imagination and insight, or strange psychic experiences makes your relationship lively and unusual. You may do some rather bizarre or unusual experimenting together. Avoidance of responsibility or reality can be a problem at times.
Kurt’s Sun Square Goldie’s Moon:
The two of you are fascinated by each other and strongly attracted to each other, but the distinct differences in your temperaments also inclines you to periods of personality clashes and misunderstandings. In particular, Goldie often feels that Kurt does not sympathize enough or try to really understand Goldie’s feelings. If you try to force each other to be more like yourself (or more your like image of the perfect mate), this relationship can be disastrous. But if the two of you understand and respect each other’s differences, you can enjoy the fascination and stimulating effect of your differences without clashing with each other. This is easier said than done, however, and both of you must make a concerted effort to harmonize your very different temperaments.
Goldie’s Sun Trine Kurt’s Sun:
Your basic aims and approach to life are in harmony, and the mutual respect you feel forms the basis of an excellent friendship or partnership. You feel understood, appreciated, recognized, and affirmed by one another. You stimulate, vitalize, motivate, and believe in each other.
Goldie’s Moon Square Kurt’s Saturn:
This relationship is not an easy one! There is a sense of responsibility towards each other that may incline you to marry or form some kind of long-lasting commitment to each other. But although the union is likely to be long-lasting, it is also likely to have more than its fair share of frustrations and difficulties. At times you both feel emotionally constrained and inhibited by being together, and this relationship may feel like a form of imprisonment! Goldie, in particular, may feel disheartened by Kurt’s criticisms, worries, fears, or need to dominate Goldie’s life. Goldie’s emotional needs and feelings are ignored and neglected at times, leaving Goldie feeling alone in this relationship. Most likely there is too much emphasis on responsibilities and obligations and not enough attention given to the needs for acceptance and tenderness. The serious tone of the relationship also stifles play and light-hearted fun-loving activities. This relationship may endure even when your feelings towards one another have cooled because there is a great deal of security in it, even if there is little satisfaction over time.
Kurt’s Moon Square Goldie’s Jupiter:
You enjoy joking and kidding each other, and you spark each other’s sense of humor. In fact, it is sometimes difficult to be serious with each other; the tendency to be light-hearted and jovial is too irresistible. Also, you are very supportive and encouraging to each other, but you tend to be overly optimistic about each other and make promises that you cannot fulfill. You encourage each other to be extravagant, sometimes too much so.
Goldie’s Moon Sextile Kurt’s Venus:
Romantic love for each other is very strong, and there is a very sweet, tender, and romantic quality to your feelings for each other. You also evoke feelings of good will and tenderness in each other. This is a sweet relationship that could easily become a long-lasting one.
Goldie’s Mercury Square Kurt’s Jupiter:
This relationship has a marked effect on the overall attitudes and beliefs of both of you, but particularly of Goldie. You challenge each other’s religious, political, and philosophical beliefs. You may experience differences of opinion that are difficult to reconcile. You are also inclined to take risks together and speculate, sometimes foolishly.
Goldie’s Mercury Trine Kurt’s Pluto:
Your conversations are deep and probing. You understand each other at a very deep level, and you may find yourselves revealing things about yourself that you have not mentioned to anyone else. You also make a good research team or investigators.
Kurt’s Mercury Trine Goldie’s Mars:
You inspire each other to refine and clarify your ideas, plans and strategies. You are an effective team in research, writing, or business pursuits. You also help each other to successfully implement a plan or follow through on an idea until it manifests as a successful product or creative work. You also have spirited, feisty debates with one another.
Kurt’s Venus Square Goldie’s Saturn:
This relationship may very well lead to marriage, but there are some major negative tendencies that you both need to try to avoid. The proclivity to marriage stems from the strong sense of commitment, reliability, trustworthiness, faithfulness, and stability that this relationship offers. You both feel that you can count on each other and dedicate your lives to each other. However, this stable, reliable relationship can easily become boring, unexciting, and downright cold over time. Kurt, in particular, is likely to feel stifled by the relationship. Kurt may feel neglected, unloved, and unappreciated. Your tastes and interests are often different and you sometimes simply don’t connect with each other on an emotional level. To prevent this relationship from drying up, you both must maintain your involvement in activities that inspire and uplift you, and maintain your friendships, hobbies, and entertainment you love -even when your partner does not share your enthusiasm for these activities.
Kurt’s Mars Trine Goldie’s Pluto:
As your relationship grows over time, you begin to work together very closely on shared goals and objectives. You develop a joint sense of purpose and you join together on projects that are rich in purpose and meaning. The intimate blending of your creative efforts and career goals makes the two of you that much closer and the bonding between you is very strong. Physical and sexual attraction is also strong, and chances are high that if you marry, this will be a lasting, strong union.
Chapter 3 Destiny and Final Outcome of Your Relationship
Composite Sun Quincunx Saturn:
Circumstances beyond your control and not of your choosing may intrude themselves upon you two, and prevent you from having as full a relationship as you would wish. You may have to overcome great odds in order to be together, or simply find that other duties, obligations, and commitments don’t enable you to be together as much as you would like. Beware of reinforcing thoughts of gloom and doom, struggle, or “we can’t”, and try to focus instead on what you do enjoy about one another and your relationship. Inevitably, there will be lacks, gaps, regrets, or missing elements in your relationship, but if you concentrate on what IS working, you’ll have a better chance of overcoming those difficulties.
Composite Moon Opposition Jupiter:
“Let’s have a good time!” will be one of the ongoing themes in your relationship. You encourage each other to play, to laugh and see the lighter side of life, to expand your horizons, and simply to enjoy life.
As a couple you are inclined to overdo the “good life” however, and can put too much into luxuries, vacations, delicious but transitory pleasures. You’ll want to live it up together, to just go out and have fun – and FUN is definitely one of the purposes of your relationship… but eventually you’ll have to pay for this if you two don’t keep it within reasonable bounds.
Nevertheless, unexpected good fortune and “miracles” will happen to the two of you as a couple. There is an undeniable “lucky” streak in this relationship.
Composite Mercury Trine Neptune:
The two of you as a couple will be strongly influenced be spiritual teachings, the joint pursuit of inner development, or a combined interest in imagery, poetry, art, and the imaginative life of the mind.
You will be unusually telepathic with one another, and will almost immediately be able to convey your thoughts to one another non-verbally. On a mental level anyway, you blend together very will.
Idealism and trying to view situations from a higher, more encompassing perspective are emphasized when you are together, and a spiritual understanding will be easy for the two of you to achieve.
You are destined to be involved with learning about the subtle, intangible forces in life, the effects of color, music, artistic images, subtle healing energies, or prayer. Teaching or otherwise disseminating these ideas may well be a function of your relationship.
Composite Sun Quincunx Uranus:
Throughout your relationship, there will be unusual events, sudden turnabouts, unexpected intrusions, and surprises, which may prevent you from following through on some of your joint plans or settling into a steady, reliable pattern with one another. There may be a disjointed, unnerving sense of uncertainty, but if you are both fairly adaptable and open, you may be able to ride through the ups and downs. A sense of humor will be a requirement!
If one of you becomes restless, it is important to be absolutely truthful and up-front about the changes you want to make, rather than becoming unreliable and acting out erratically. You may find to your surprise that the other person is restless too, and willing to try something radically different.
You won’t be able to avoid change in this relationship; how you deal with it will determine the success of your togetherness.
Composite Mercury Opposition Pluto:
Your conversations will reveal to both of you aspects of yourselves that have been hidden – either purposely concealed or long ago denied and buried. Without even trying, the two of you will make the other confront those underlying assumptions, unquestioned beliefs, and ways of thinking which you normally would take for granted. You also find yourselves divulging information, or questioning things which until now you were content to let lie.
Mysteries, secrets, investigating the underside of any issue – these will be a significant part of your relationship. Whether or not you are willing to see and consciously acknowledge some of these things will determine how well you two get along. Part of the purpose of your relationship is to bring to light and conscious understanding those parts of your lives that have not been examined before. For the well-being of both of you, make sure that you do not use the knowledge and information you have of one another as a tool to control or manipulate each other. Especially do not abuse your awareness of the other’s psychological weaknesses and vulnerabilities.
Composite Venus Trine Mars:
Warm affection, romantic desire, and sexual harmony come naturally with the two of you. You’ll find that expressing yourselves sexually will simply flow, and this should be a source of great fulfillment in your relationship, easing at least somewhat any of the other challenges or conflicts you may have.
This is destined to be a very creative union, and very fulfilling. In addition to the passionate element, which is quite strong, other avenues of creative self-expression flourish when the two of you work together. If either of you is artistically inclined, your relationship will enhance this. On a biological level, as well, the two of you are quite fertile.
Composite Mars Quincunx Jupiter:
As a couple you will have to balance a certain tendency to over-estimate your resources and capacities. Somehow you foster in one another an unrealistic belief in your powers, prowess, or potential for success. You will generate a lot of positive energy and expectations which can then dissipate due to poor timing or becoming discouraged over having bitten off more than you could chew. Like the minor league player who will never feel successful unless he makes it to the major league, you’ll need to be satisfied with what you can do or achieve or create, rather than comparing yourselves to a rather grandiose standard. The “wannabe” syndrome is a rather discordant note in what otherwise may well be a healthy and positive pairing.
Composite Saturn Sextile Uranus:
The two of you can work together for long periods of time, under considerable stress, and endure it rather well. There is a balancing, stabilizing factor here; you let one another get a bit crazy and blow off some steam every once in a while, then you get back to your routine. This harmonious balance between order and change in your relationship bodes well for its longevity.
Chapter 4 Other Themes in Your Relationship
Goldie’s Sun Trine Kurt’s Mercury:
The mental rapport that you two share is a big reason why you enjoy each other’s company and are good friends. Communication is open and harmonious. You work together very well on practical affairs, daily chores, problem-solving, and business activities.
Goldie’s Mercury Trine Kurt’s Venus:
You love to discuss the arts, literature, culture, or any other area that involves a strong aesthetic or emotional element. You are also likely to work successfully together in artistic, literary, or some humanitarian area. Your strong friendship and admiration for each other fosters a lasting, harmonious partnership.
Goldie’s Mercury Sextile Kurt’s Neptune:
You have a strong intuitive and psychic rapport, and you often sense what is on each other’s minds well before any words are spoken. You also enjoy discussing topics that have a strong imaginative or mystical element, such as the arts, music, religion, etc.
Kurt’s Mars Opposition Goldie’s Neptune:
You can act very silly and childish together. When the two of you get together, you love to let your imaginations run wild. You have difficulty accomplishing anything of a serious or mundane nature together, and you prefer to explore artistic, religious, and metaphysical areas, rather than focus on more mundane affairs. If there is a physical or romantic attraction to each other, you are likely to feel mesmerized by each other, and fall into a very dreamy romance. Your sexual life also has a strong element of fantasy.
Goldie’s Jupiter Conjunct Kurt’s Neptune:
You dream big and beautiful dreams together and because you stimulate one another’s faith, optimism, and idealism, you feel that anything is possible. If either or both of you tend to be impractical or irresponsible, being with one another will increase that propensity, and together you are likely to harbor unrealistic hopes or ungrounded, grandiose schemes and speculations. You may become sloppy or lazy together. On the other hand, if you are fairly disciplined and well-balanced people, you will encourage each other to take a leap of faith, and to push past previous limits and boundaries that you’ve set for yourselves. Traveling, enjoyable escapades, or spiritual quests are an important aspect of your relationship.
Kurt’s Jupiter Trine Goldie’s Saturn:
You work well together on the level of practical, mundane affairs and could function very well as business partners. When you blend your energies, financial matters, investments, and plans for future security tend to work out quite well. Because you are able to cooperate to be faithful to your shared aims and goals, you make a successful team.
Goldie’s Jupiter Sextile Kurt’s Pluto:
Your faith and confidence in yourselves and in life deepens through your relationship with one another. You encourage one another to explore and develop your personal potential and to be more courageous in taking risks in your lives. Unusual coincidences and unexpected good fortune seem to come your way when the two of you are together.
Couples Report Sample
COUPLES REPORT
Goldie Hawn
and
Kurt Russell
Birth Data for Goldie:
Goldie Hawn November 21, 1945
Unknown Birth Time
Washington, D.C.
Birth Data for Kurt:
Kurt Russell March 17, 1951
Unknown Birth Time
Springfield, MA
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The interpretation of your relationship is based on the positions of the planets at the time of your birth, and the composite chart.
For the benefit of students of astrology, these positions, along
with other technical information, are listed below:
Goldie: Kurt: Composite: Sun: 28 Sco 55 26 Pis 15 27 Cap 35
Moo: 26 Gem 24 17 Can 17 6 Can 50
Mer: 20 Sag 44 2 Ari 19 11 Aqu 31
Ven: 11 Sco 39 25 Ari 25 3 Aqu 32
Mar: 2 Leo 05 12 Ari 06 7 Gem 05
Jup: 18 Lib 28 21 Pis 46 5 Cap 07
Sat: 24 Can 41 29 Vir 13 26 Leo 57
Ura: 16 Gem 06 5 Can 24 25 Gem 45
Nep: 7 Lib 57 18 Lib 46 13 Lib 21
Plu: 11 Leo 47 17 Leo 50 14 Leo 49
Nod: 0 Can 12 19 Pis 00 9 Tau 36
Asc: 27 Sag 55 0 Can 21 29 Vir 08
MC: 19 Lib 42 5 Pis 30 27 Gem 36
2nd: 5 Aqu 05 19 Can 56 27 Lib 30
3rd: 15 Pis 29 10 Leo 26 27 Sco 57
5th: 16 Tau 00 9 Lib 09 27 Cap 35
6th: 7 Gem 34 21 Sco 10 29 Aqu 22
Tropical Zodiac Tropical Zodiac Standard time observed. Standard time observed.
GMT: 14:20:00 15:42:00
Time Zone: 5 hours West. Time Zone: 5 hours West.
Lat. of birth: 38 N 53 42 42 N 06 05
Long. of birth: 77 W 02 12 Long. of birth: 72 W 35 25
PLACIDUS houses PLACIDUS houses
Part 1: Planets and Aspects
Sun Conjunct Venus
This aspect signifies that you just plainly love each other. The attraction is so strong between you that even though you may be incompatible by other standards, you still feel like being with your partner because of that love you feel for them. It’s not that they won’t occasionally drive you nuts – they will. It’s just that the bottom line is that there is real love between you and there is no stronger emotion in the universe.
By being together you can create beauty and form as well as appreciate art and music. Your home can easily be filled with “treasures” that reflect the talents you have. But as always with Venus, be careful of overindulging in the good things of life so they do not become a noose around your neck instead of an object of desire. Remember, the more things you have, the more trouble you art likely to have. You will not mind showing off what you have accrued together, but vanity can become an undesired side effect of this aspect if it is not kept in check.
Avoid hiding any difficulties in your relationship and bring them out in the open so they can be resolved or at least recognized in order to avoid major problems down the road. You may also be drawn to speculative ventures with this aspect, so just remember to be practical in your expenditures.
With this configuration, no matter what difficulties come along to challenge you, you will always feel a need and desire to make peace, reconcile and create harmony and cooperation in your relationship. This aspect offers a great stability that will keep you from turning against each other, unless the obstacles become totally overwhelming.
A great deal of time and effort can be put into social activities and if you are involved in creative ventures together, then this aspect adds support and form to your ideas.
You look just right for each other according to others. A touch of diplomacy follows you into your social interactions. People are captured by your entertaining personalities. Your knowledge about money could be just as sharp as handling your human relations. Possessions mean much to you both. It may be more important what items symbolize to you, rather than their mere actual worth. You can put your creative power together to make a comfortable life. Showing affection brings you closer. Pleasing each other is a heartfelt desire. What is your biggest challenge? Decision making! You might talk one another out of choices occasionally. There will be times when it will be better to proceed ahead and worry about the consequences later. Just don’t say: “I told you so.” With practice, you can be a spontaneous couple. Friends and strangers appreciate your warmth.
Mercury Opposition Pluto
Communication may be centered on digging out the truth in each other’s life and uncovering things about the other you would not dream to tell anyone else. You will cause each other to transform thoughts, feelings, beliefs and desires that have been buried for a very long time. This relationship will also have you questioning things that up until now were better off left alone. Because of this potent power you must be careful of manipulating your partner for your own purposes or trying to control their life and the way they think. Do not use the power of this aspect for psychological manipulation, brainwashing or for taking advantage of your partner’s weaknesses and vulnerabilities.
Together you may choose to delve into the occult or to use the power of mind over matter. Just make sure the dark side does not win you over. If you get carried away in any of these areas, people may perceive you as a threat and bring danger to you. Should you heed the above warnings, then you can gain some very important truths about life, the universe and yourselves.
Your minds can cut right to the chase! A probing tendency, to the depths of each other’s secrets, is either admired or feared. It can be amusing to discuss your observation of others. The psychologist and detective within you are never that far out of sight. Investigating why people act the way they do is stimulating. Your intellectual interests probably intersect on fascinating learning highways. You like individuals unembarrassed to discuss societal taboos. There are those who may even fear your way of sizing them up accurately. Be careful in how you approach sensitive topics with each other, as your accurate insights can hit the nail right on the head. Business savvy is better than most. Advising each other on how to better market your skills is in high focus. Acquiring the things that make each other happy is a heartfelt desire. Your mental tenacity can lead you through the most daring challenges.
Mercury Trine Mars
Right from the start you may have noticed that heated debates and arguments are sexual turn-ons for you and your partner. There seems to be no end to the ways you challenge each other’s thinking and you love to compete on how much you know intellectually. A wonderful playfulness emerges from these conversations and if one thing leads to another, then so much the better. One thing is for sure, you will never be at a loss for words when you are around each other.
Your communication will be very open, direct and frank, and very little of your opinion will be withheld from the other. If you believe that there are times when a little white lie will help spare hurt to your partner’s feelings, then you’d better learn to forget it. That won’t happen here. At least try to sugar coat it a little bit so you are not quite so offensive.
Neither of you will enjoy being rushed into decisions by the other. Each of you has a knack for influencing others to believe in your ideas. Travel energizes you both. Arguing might take too much out of you. Don’t be afraid to disagree. The two of you can act swiftly and decisively without worrying one another. You complement your partner’s romantic thinking with a touch of your own. Well-timed business decisions are possible.
Mercury Trine Neptune
Imagination plus! The two of you can fantasize about the ideal life. You may sometimes feel like hopeless romantics when sharing your daydreams. Don’t forget to make the effort it will take to realize your hopes and wishes. Staying free from stress is likely a mutual desire. You can be a true friend for one another by readily lending a listening ear. People may observe you to be a couple with few problems, whether you are in a season of bliss or hard rain.
Your relationship is sure to be filled with fantasy, imagination and artistic, poetic or musical abilities or qualities. If you are looking for a totally practical, logical and organized relationship, then you have not found it here. Others are more likely to find you both staring at the ceiling, pondering the mysteries of the universe or lost in a dream world that only the two of you know about. There will be strong telepathic or non-verbal communication between you that only the two of you can hear or understand.
Your conversations may be focused on spiritual or metaphysical ideas. You will talk about your dreams and your ideals of what a perfect world would be like. The danger with this aspect, though, is that you need to be very honest with each other to avoid the possibility of misunderstanding, deception or illusion. The fantasy of your relationship is likely to be wonderful, but you need to come down to earth and take a look at the reality of it. You may be treating your partner as the person they are in your head rather than the person they really are reality. When the picture in your imagination falls off the pedestal, then a great deal of disappointment and disillusion can occur. This can wreck havoc on your relationship. You must be very clear with your partner as to your expectations and goals of your relationship. The more straight-forward and honest you can be, the better.
Another positive of this aspect is that you may share common interest in healing techniques, charitable work, or religious concerns. These activities can help bring the two of you closer together.
Idealistic thinking pulsates through your minds without much effort. You bring out faith in one another. There is a quiet acceptance of each other that confirms your closeness. Helping your partner tap into their inner resources is a mutual benefit. Your joint imagination inspires you to travel and escape in any way possible. Romantic sparks are exhilarating to light together. Your highest beliefs will probably never be that far apart in meaning.
Mercury Sesquiquadrate Uranus
If you are looking for a relationship to uproot your pattern of thinking, mix in a little adventure, and experiment in the mind-blowing side of weird, then congratulations, you may have found it. New ideas, alternative ways of thinking, changing old patterns of thought and just plain bizarre behavior tend to go along with this aspect. Expect the unconventional and the ever-changing, frequently and suddenly.
Trying to communicate in stereo can’t happen so you will have to stop talking while the other person is talking so you don’t miss their train of thought. There is much nervous energy surrounding you both and together you can come up with some wonderful new ideas, perhaps far ahead of their time, and enjoy some excellent creative adventures together. But plan on taking a break from one another from time to time in order to repair your burned out brain cells and get some sanity back into your lives. There is so much stimulation and mental excitement between you that it may be difficult for you to settle down to the routine, everyday aspects and needs of your relationship. Because a certain amount of restlessness and anxiety go along with this aspect, you will need time to recuperate. So take it, even if it means getting away from each other at times.
A serious side to this aspect is that the two of you may constantly challenge and disagree with your partner’s viewpoint just for the sake of causing a commotion. At first this can be great fun and very exciting. But in the long run it may become very old and when one or the other of you tire of it, it may be too late to do anything about it because your partner will have already up and left. The two of you need to control the tendency of automatically disagreeing with the other’s viewpoint in order to keep some stability in the relationship.
Your minds are in a high-speed chase to catch up with each other! Do the two of you get bored easily? If you are shaking your heads yes, it is not surprising. Be sure to listen to each other carefully. You can really excite each other’s perceptions. Travel and intellectual exchanges are exhilarating. Go without either for too long, and it’s like telling Eddie Murphy or Jim Carrey to never laugh again. You may feel like you are the other’s lookout tower for new life directions. Modern technologies seem as though they were invented for your delight. Nervous energy can get out of hand. Unexpectedly breaking appointments upsets your partner. You don’t like people boring you with the obvious. This elicits your sarcasm. Original thinking is what you both admire. Inventive ideas can’t help but be born through your conversations. Mutual support for goals is wise. It maintains your connection. Your peers are likely progressive and unique. Learn to enjoy stability. It focuses you on your true potentials.
Venus Trine Mars
Yours is likely a very passionate and affectionate relationship and this aspect will help strengthen the bond between you. The intensity that you feel as a couple cannot be ignored and if you think you are just going to be friends, without any intimate contact, then you may need to think again. No matter how much you try to deny the powerful attraction, the sexual energy will remain, and the urge to merge will be overwhelming.
Your feelings will always have a high degree of sizzle and this should keep you warm on a cold night and should not fade over time. This will not be a “ships that pass in the night” relationship and, should other indicators in your chart signal any difficulties, this will add fuel to the high intensity fire. You will have to look elsewhere in the chart for intellectual and emotional togetherness, but as for the physical side, it’s a definite go!
This aspect does indicate that the two of you are very complementary. In other words, one of you is strong where the other is weak and vice-versa. This is very positive no matter what sort of relationship you have.
You make no bones about your feelings for each other. Positive regard emanates naturally between you. You enrich the other’s life materially and emotionally. Getting out to movies, dinners and other social events is good for you. Participating in a competitive activity together might be fun. You may have a team you cheer for in common. There may be a hurt ego if you don’t receive enough compliments. People will likely see the two of you as affectionate and full of life. You can give one another a confidence boost just in the nick of time.
Romance is never that far from your minds. You motivate each other to create romantic moments together. Disputes are usually not that hard to settle. Your business sense can take you far. Taking well-calculated risks can be profitable. Adventurous actions make you both feel more alive. You know how to have a good time at social occasions. Each of you can be at home in dealing with the public. People can feel at ease in your company.
Saturn Sextile Uranus
For the two of you this configuration supports a very nice, secure, stable and structured environment in which you can both thrive. You can expect changes from time to time, but nothing that is going to rock the boat to the point of tipping it over. You will enjoy friends that are stable and some that are somewhat far out and you won’t have any problem fitting in with either. You should be able to pursue joint projects with unending fervor and bring them to a successful conclusion. There is a nice blending of energies here that lends support for the other, without infringing on the other’s space. This is one indication of a long, content and interesting life together.
You both can energize the key goals each cherishes in a unique manner. Altering your plans can be done with a minimum of anxiety through clear planning. Sudden changes of direction can find you making quick adjustments. No matter your age, it is fun to think young. Exposing one another to new interests is enlivening. Group involvements can be a shared enjoyment. You can display a sober awareness of reality and a tendency to sometimes want to throw caution to the wind.
Saturn Semisquare Neptune
Yours may not be a very positive relationship, instead it may be fraught with confusion, deception and instability. You may find that you cannot rely on each other in time of need or support. This stems from the fact that you have difficulty deciding what your relationship is all about. There will seem to be a bond that puts you together, yet through your interaction you will discover the weaknesses, fears, insecurities and inadequacies the two of you have as a couple, even if you do not have these qualities as individuals. You may feel that you are controlled, manipulated and exploited. There may be self-doubts, even if you never experienced them before. If there are enough positive aspects elsewhere to counter this negativity, then this aspect can be helpful in finding out about yourself. If not, then you may need to reconsider your relationship carefully. You may even have to move on. This relationship is going to challenge everything you believe, both materially and spiritually, and you will have to back up your ideals or let them go. Deception may be a big part of your relationship, whether intended or not. Confusion may enter the picture as well. There may be a constant battle in knowing what is real and what is not. Unless honesty is adhered to, mistrust may be the underlying factor in the relationship’s end.
You could be closer to agreeing on apparent points of contention than you often realize. With communication this will be seen. Going toward your most idealized ambitions causes conflict if it seems to exclude your partner. A clear defining of your commitment goes far in maintaining a steady connection. You influence each other to find the faith to go beyond self-doubts. When you don’t overly indulge in judgment, you both feel better. Don’t deny issues. Resolving the big ones makes the road ahead clearer and full of romantic joy.
Neptune Sextile Pluto
Matters of spirituality, psychic awareness or communication, supernatural forces and mind-reading will be very strong interests in your lives and it may be impossible to deny or to get away from them. There may be times that you can actually hear what the other person is thinking without ever having to say anything. You might decide to play the role of psychic detectives, uncovering mysteries or hidden things. You enjoy anything that has to do with mind expansion or mind alteration.
Part 2: MIDPOINTS – Additional Influences on Relationship Potential
Venus Conjunct Sun/Mercury Orb:1 Deg 02 Min
Love takes form through poetry and writing; sexuality is aroused through sensual perceptions; love may defined by the intellectual process; together you can effectively share ideas by using a softer approach.
This is one indication of effective communication between the two of you. You are capable of talking about love quite naturally. You are able to maintain a youthful quality to your relationship over time. There is always something fresh and interesting to talk about.
Neptune Opposition Sun/Uranus Orb:1 Deg 41 Min
Relationships are sensitive, and should be handled very carefully; your ego’s can develop plans for personal recognition which will prove to be a delusion; neglecting each other.
Mars Opposition Sun/Neptune Orb:1 Deg 37 Min
Unethical and immoral methods may be applied to satisfy the ego in this relationship; irresistible qualities enter your life, and sexual awareness is present; weak sexual abilities that can easily get in the way of this relationship; putting schemes into reality; creative visualizations.
There may be sexual addictions, fanaticism, and hidden attractions. There can be deception from a partner or being deceived by others. More likely, self-deception can undermine the partnership from time to time. There may also be scandals created by hiding a relationship from others or as a result of just being out-and-out deceitful.
Neptune Opposition Venus/Uranus Orb:1 Deg 17 Min
Fantasy and sexual expression will go out of the realm of the ordinary in this relationship; problems in relationships can be difficult to determine; insights into new forms of pleasure; seduction; renouncing love.
Mars Opposition Venus/Neptune Orb:1 Deg 21 Min
Your attraction to each other is very strong. Keep your expectations of intimacy realistic! You may be over-excited, and the actual manifestation of love is taking place in your mind only, never taking place in the physical realm. However, this is one of the most sensuous midpoint combinations, in that it has the potential to create and fulfill one another’s fantasies surrounding love. On the shadow side of this energy, theres a tendency to hide sexual acts from others. There can be a feeling of being soul mates.
N. Node Opposition Venus/Pluto Orb:0 Deg 26 Min
This relationship is supported by passionate love or loving group transformation; relationships with others might produce feelings of deep loving connections, as though they were fated to happen; associations with people where deep love is involved; can be wasting emotions or that meetings or encounters with people can feel or be more of a gamble rather than giving a feeling of security (maybe you need to reevaluate one who is chosen for a friend or partner); there can be a drive to associate with other people of sometimes questionable qualities or character.
Mercury Opposition Mars/Neptune Orb:1 Deg 18 Min
Difficulties in dealing with each other; nerves; disorders due to overindulgence in alcohol, tobacco and drugs, medications and self abuse; intuitive and psychic abilities.
Sun Opposition Saturn/Uranus Orb:1 Deg 14 Min
Separations from each other is highlighted; problems that stem from a character that is too stubborn and unwilling to give; meeting opposition to your ideas; strains.
Jupiter Opposition Saturn/N. Node Orb:1 Deg 51 Min
Stressful situations will be too much to bear as you strive to break free from this relationship through rebellious methods; people of different ages will not agree at all.
Sun Opposition Neptune/N. Node Orb:1 Deg 07 Min
Disappointments in relationships; strange contacts.
Uranus Conjunct Pluto/N. Node Orb:1 Deg 27 Min
Ruthlessness will get you all of the attention and recognition that you want in this relationship; opposition will feel the wrath of your power as you easily walk over each other; being around each other can be difficult; violence of some sort can occur while you are with each other.
Compatibility & Conflict Report Sample
Romantic Compatibility and Conflict Report for
Goldie Hawn
and
Kurt Russell
Birth Data for Goldie:
Goldie Hawn November 21, 1945
Unknown Birth Time
Washington, D.C.
Birth Data for Kurt:
Kurt Russell March 17, 1951
Unknown Birth Time
Springfield, MA
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Your birth chart interpretation is based on the positions of the planets at the time of your birth. For the benefit of students of astrology, these positions, along with other technical information, are listed below:
Positions and Data for Goldie: Sun position is 28 deg. 55 min. of Scorpio
Moon position is 26 deg. 24 min. of Gemini
Mercury position is 20 deg. 44 min. of Sagittarius
Venus position is 11 deg. 39 min. of Scorpio
Mars position is 2 deg. 05 min. of Leo
Jupiter position is 18 deg. 28 min. of Libra
Saturn position is 24 deg. 41 min. of Cancer
Uranus position is 16 deg. 06 min. of Gemini
Neptune position is 7 deg. 57 min. of Libra
Pluto position is 11 deg. 47 min. of Leo
Tropical/PLACIDUS Standard time observed. GMT: 14:20:00 Time Zone: 5 hours West. Lat & Long: 38 N 53 42 77 W 02 12
Positions and Data for Kurt: Sun position is 26 deg. 15 min. of Pisces
Moon position is 17 deg. 17 min. of Cancer
Mercury position is 2 deg. 19 min. of Aries
Venus position is 25 deg. 25 min. of Aries
Mars position is 12 deg. 06 min. of Aries
Jupiter position is 21 deg. 46 min. of Pisces
Saturn position is 29 deg. 13 min. of Virgo
Uranus position is 5 deg. 24 min. of Cancer
Neptune position is 18 deg. 46 min. of Libra
Pluto position is 17 deg. 50 min. of Leo
Tropical/PLACIDUS Standard time observed. GMT: 15:42:00 Time Zone: 5 hours West. Lat & Long: 42 N 06 05 72 W 35 25
Dear friends:
Welcome to the Compatibility and Conflict Report and the myriad ways of expressing the continual dance of life. This report is based on methods employed through years of working with couples, observing relationships and analyzing the lives of the famous and infamous. The contacts described within this program are certainly not all the combinations possible between two people. But they are the core patterns of relationship analysis that I begin with in determining areas of compatibility and potential conflict between two people. I analyze these basic points of contact to arrive at my interpretation of what is central for an enduring relationship or for one that teaches something of importance and leaves a lasting impression. Additional parts, patterns and interpretations will be added to this report in the future.
In many of the interpretations, I’ve described the highest potential that one can strive for with a particular combination. Yet it is only a potential and we are human and have complex emotions and contradictory issues and reactions at any given time in our lives. Use this report as a guideline to make your relationships as rewarding and fulfilling as you possibly can. And know that your relationships are simply mirroring your own soul’s struggles. Each relationship will fulfill something within you and challenge you to look at your shadow and transform yourself. Sometimes this means staying with a partner or a relationship and sometimes the learning process requires that you let the relationship go. These decisions are never easy and they should only be made after careful and truthful introspection, reflection and guidance. But ultimately, these decisions are yours and yours alone to make. Remember that variety is the spice of life and that although you may have some difficult areas of relating with a partner, it is in those areas that you can learn the most about yourself and others and grow in wisdom. It would be a mistake to look for a partner with whom you have no disagreements at all and this kind of relationship is a fantasy, rarely if ever, a reality.
Thank you for purchasing this report and I hope it is meaningful and useful to you.
Chapter 1: Enjoyment, Closeness and Lasting Impressions
This section is based on the idea that there are three basic needs in every relationship:
* Interest, energy and stimulation or sexuality. * Enjoyment, abundance, expansion of awareness and happiness.
* Patterns for commitment, consistency, teaching each other or reaffirming something essential one for the other and vice versa.
The sort between your charts is for eleven separate aspects that define energy, fun and lasting impressions between you. Most strong relationships have at least four to six of these aspects between their charts.
Kurt’s Sun Square Goldie’s Moon:
A challenging aspect of the Sun and Moon between you can initially attract or repel or both. The outcome depends on other planetary connections in your chart comparison. Respect and recognition of each other is vital with this aspect. Either your approach to life or some of your habitual patterns will be very different from your partners. As you get to know each other, you may find that you disagree on some important or basic life issues. Initially this will produce conflict but it also offers you the opportunity to understand something more about your partner and even yourself. Do not minimize or belittle your partners strong feelings. Instead, learn to allow each other to have your say and find ways to compromise, so that one person doesnt always give in to the wishes or demands of the other. Sometimes these aspects can indicate a lack of appreciation for the life view, habits or patterns of the other. Lack of appreciation will quickly erode your love for each other. Of course, you cannot expect always to agree but you can learn to tolerate a style or strengths in the other that are different from your own. These differences can in fact complement your life together. There will be times when you feel that the two of you are going in opposing directions and that you just rub each other the wrong way. This may be quite true but it gives you the choice to talk about what each of you want and how both of you can support each other. It may be that this aspect indicates that you need separate interests and fewer shared projects. When you come together again, you will bring plenty of new experiences into the relationship and life will rarely be dull.
Kurt’s Sun Trine Goldie’s Mars:
The core intent of this aspect is to motivate you to act and motivate you to create and achieve together. You may find yourselves being somewhat competitive with each other. But with this aspect between your charts, a healthy competition can enable each of you to move ahead and maximize the energy generated when you are together. Fortunately, your competitive edge tends to be smoother and easier to resolve in a positive manner. For the most part this combination can indicate a healthy way to support each other and get motivated to reach higher and achieve your goals. If one of you is consistently more selfish or if you too often place your needs before your partners needs, trouble will begin. This aspect encourages directness and progress, which can help to resolve your differences, if it is done in a fair and respectful way. Avoid pushing, demanding or taking action without discussing important plans with your partner. It isnt so much what you want to do as that each person knows what the other is doing and why. And that there is agreement in terms of the goal or goals you are mutually pursuing. A healthy energy flow and a productive competitiveness is easier to come by with this aspect. And your lives will be busy and active in some important ways.
Kurt’s Moon Conj Goldie’s Saturn:
You are serious about each other and your relationship. Or theres a serious tone, a sense of responsibility between you when you are together. This can be positive or it can put a damper on things, it depends on what each of you want from the other. One meaning of this aspect is that you have some important work to accomplish together and you could even go into business together. You are likely to feel a strong commitment and form a bond with each other that goes to your roots. Both of you will feel the strong connection and this can become devotion to each other. Although at times you will feel burdened by the obligations you inevitably share, this aspect is a strongly binding one. Possibly Goldie may want more security within the relationship than Kurt, but this does not always follow. There is a mutual urge for establishing some type of commitment or at least creating rules of engagement for your relationship. Discussions of emotional or financial security will likely arise early in the relationship. The partnership works best if there are clear structures that both of you agree upon. With practice working together, you quickly become adept at problem solving, planning, organizing and honoring commitments youve made. Important issues between the two of you will concern responsibility, keeping promises, maintaining integrity, timeliness, parents, children and the overall structure or pattern of your life together. Having goals to pursue and work towards will enhance your partnership. As a team, others view you as stable, reliable and dependable. They may seek out your advice and counsel because they view you as responsible or even wise.
Goldie’s Moon Square Kurt’s Saturn:
This aspect is a binding one but has its share of struggles. The bond is one of a perceived (or real) responsibility toward each other. The two of you will have challenges and obstacles to overcome and obligations to shoulder. In fact, obstacles or burdens may prevent you from culminating your relationship long term or they can make your relationship stronger, as you face them together. Some of the struggles this aspect draws concern the balance or relationship between your past history, your families or divergent career and domestic needs. You could have different feelings or definitions about the roles each of you should assume within the structure of your relationship. Faithfully seeking to determine what the most important priorities are between the two of you will help you separate the real issues from non-essential ones. Sometimes what initially appears to be an issue is, upon deeper scrutiny, a non-issue. Trust and responsibility are key factors in the success or failure of your relationship. The main purpose of this energy pattern between you is to help you develop a greater understanding of trustworthiness and reliability, exactly what that means, and where and how these concepts fit into your relationship life together.
Kurt’s and Goldie’s Sun and Saturn in mutual soft aspect:
This aspect requires that both of you work on developing form and structure in your relationship with each other and the projects of your choice. Maturation and elaborating your specific priorities for a successful life are themes the two of you will be evolving. Expect initiation into higher levels of functioning. This is a growth aspect. Accepting and handling responsibilities of various kinds will be a normal, natural part of your relationship life. In fact, you are likely to seek challenges. There is a desire for order and accomplishment in anything you pursue together. As a team, you appear to enjoy structuring, leading and organizing. Others see you as achievement-oriented and effective at what you create together. As partners, you require a certain level of commitment and you are likely to want a strong foundation on which to build a life. Your energy together leans toward the conservative and you desire value over volume. The intent of this pattern is for longevity and solidity to the extent that you can create this within your relationship, you will have fulfilled the purpose of the aspect.
Kurt’s and Goldie’s Moon and Jupiter in mutual hard aspect:
This energy between you expresses the endless possibilities available and encourages the freedom to express your emotions. At the same time, the aspect leans towards excessive expression. Whether an expression is excessive, over the top or fitting for a particular context, is something the two of you will have to decide. How much is too much and the resultant consequences, is the learning curve you will be testing together. This aspect requires that both of you determine how you are exceeding your boundaries and whether thats a good thing or not. Emotions will go out of control from time to time particularly when one of you is overwhelmed with too much to handle. The intent of this aspect is to teach you better judgment and encourage wisdom from the many and varied experiences you actively seek. There will be times of poor judgment when you will discover that you failed to take an important element of a situation into consideration. Resist saying “yes” until youve evaluated the conditions or slept on the idea or proposition. Exaggeration and failing to keep promises will create problems for you and so will overoptimism without full knowledge of the facts. If you experience too much “bad luck”, re-evaluate your choices and be sure to be generous wherever you can to maintain the balance between taking and giving in your lives together.
Kurt’s and Goldie’s Moon and Venus in mutual soft aspect:
There is a genuine liking of each other, a very natural affection and sweetness in your relationship. It is one aspect between you that will support you during times of conflict. This energy combination adds to the desire for partnership and naturally gravitates to finding mutual ground for agreement. You will enjoy creating a secure and appealing home environment, if you share living space. There is a natural aesthetic appreciation that could lead you to participate in various artistic or creative pursuits. You will be drawn to the finer things in life and will have to keep tabs on your budget. Others will respond easily to the warm and affectionate energy you have for each other, since it will be obvious that you like each other. Social activities are highlighted and with a bit of effort the two of you can create a fine network of friendships.
Chapter 2: Emotions and Communication Between You
These aspects detail the quality of the emotional connection and basic comfort between the two of you and your ease or difficulty in communicating, talking with each other and simply understanding where each of you is coming from. These aspects also describe how you reason together and resolve issues or problems.
Goldie’s Moon in Gemini, and Kurt’s is in Cancer:
Although you are attracted to each other on many levels, your basic day-to-day habits are probably very different. You approach life’s mundane chores and happenings in ways that may not be clearly understood by your partner. Your feelings and responses can sometimes be confusing for the other person, as much as they care for you and want to understand. This can cause not only friction on a regular basis but also frustration for both of you. Your habits and peculiarities can grate on each other and be the cause of arguments and misunderstanding. If you care for each other, you will, with patience and willingness to compromise, resolve some of these differences. Still, you operate differently internally, which stems very much from your upbringing and how you responded to your early conditioning. These habits and predilections can be difficult to change, and you may simply have to accept the differences in each other. Discussing your feelings openly is a crucial part of this combination. There is a good chance that, once you really understand the emotions behind the attitude or habitual responses of your partner, greater tolerance will result. On the other hand, once your partner understands how you are affected by a particular response or habit, modifying the offending or annoying behavior is part of the compromise necessary for relationship harmony. This aspect definitely requires more tolerance, acceptance and willingness to allow for differences in mood and reaction. You have attracted this combination because you need to dig deeper into your habitual ways of responding and seek out the roots of your behavior by exploring your upbringing. There are many things you do that are unconscious and automatic, and contact with your partner will allow you to take a closer look, modify the negatives and also reaffirm your strongest feelings.
Kurt’s Mercury in Aries, and Goldie’s is in Sagittarius:
There are many different ways to communicate and the two of you seem to be on the same wavelength most of the time. In other words, your partner understands and responds well to your style and method of reasoning, thinking and expressing your thoughts and feelings. You can make yourselves understood the first time, without rehashing and reiterating endlessly. Of course, you won’t agree on everything all of the time, but coming to agreement on issues important to you or perceiving what the other wants to communicate will be easier. Your styles of intelligence are also similar and your preferences for mental stimulation could be the same. You are likely interested in many of the same subjects or enjoy learning together. In fact, one the best features of your relationship is that you can say about each other, “You understand me, you really understand me. I can tell you anything.” You can talk for hours and never get bored. There’s simply a natural connection which will make the rest of your lives together — and your inevitable challenges — that much easier. Because, when you put your heads together, you’re more likely to arrive at a solution you can both live with than either of you could separately.
Chapter 3: Your Closest Contacts, Your Strongest Themes
This section interprets the closest connections between your charts. The idea is that the closest ties explain the major or central themes of your relationships and the reason you have come together. The nature of these aspects will also define the main activities, interests and patterns that comprise your life together.
Notice that in this section each paragraph contains both the easier expression of energies as well as the more challenging ones. Both interpretations are included because these close connections pertain to the central learning curve of your relationship. Based on the premise that the more exact the connection (also the closest energetic contact) between your pair of planets, the more psychologically significant the aspect will be for each of you. This means that you are likely to be strongly influenced by each other in the areas described. Because of this, it will be useful to consider both the easier and more challenging interpretations even though you lead with one of them. You will, from time to time and in various circumstances, probably exhibit some elements of each group, both the easier expressions as well as the more challenging ones. Another thing — it’s possible with both types of aspects that you will have the same challenges but simply respond or react to them in different ways. The goal is to rise to the best possible expression of each combination. This is the learning curve and this bestows wisdom.
Kurt’s Sun Square Goldie’s Moon (challenging aspect):
If this is your most exact aspect, the central theme of your relationship is one of balance between the male and female expressions in your relationship and the inner or emotional expressions versus the outer masks you wear to show others.
Challenging aspects: You are likely to struggle more with the expectations you each bring to the relationship regarding the roles you should assume with each other. There is also a tendency to under-appreciate each other’s function within the partnership and this can cause problems. One partner can feel neglected or misunderstood or possibly taken for granted. Take the time to understand fully each other’s contribution to the overall functioning of the relationship, to alleviate any resentment. And be sure to discuss issues as they arise, to avoid forming bad habits.
Easier aspects: It will be easier for you to align yourselves with your emotional side and to feel free to express that part of you with each other and even publicly. You will feel a greater sense of connection and find it easier to take on roles within your relationship without resentment. You are able to establish harmony more quickly than most.
Kurt’s Mercury Trine Goldie’s Mars (easier aspect):
If this is the most exact aspect between your charts, your main relationship theme is being straightforward and proactive in both your initiatives and in your communication.
Easier aspects: It will be easy for you to be direct and initiate communication with each other. You won’t want to leave issues unresolved for long, you’d rather get them out of the way, so you can move on to other activities. You have considerable skill in communicating with teens or youths and it’s possible your work lies in this area or in another that involves strong communication skills. Gathering and distributing information is your forte and can include salesmanship or promoting anything you find worthwhile.
Challenging aspects: At times you are too assertive in the way you express your opinions and, instead of getting support, you will antagonize your partner and others. Speaking before you think can also cause unnecessary hurt and lasting impressions. Take a moment to think before you speak and consider both to whom you are speaking and the consequences of your communication beyond the immediate moment. Impatience can be the culprit of many of your communication problems. Take time to really listen to the other person.
Kurt’s Mars Trine Goldie’s Pluto (easier aspect):
If this is the most exact aspect between your charts, your main relationship theme is to understand, express and harness the wealth of human emotion, passion and power.
Easier aspects: As partners, you are able to focus your energies easily on what you want from life and you have the energy to attain it. You pursue each other’s love or respect with great passion and power and, your bond is a strong one. You will be solicited for positions of power once people understand that you can make things happen in a big way. Part of giving back can be to encourage and train younger folk to persist and go for the prize.
Challenging aspects: In your relationship, you will be dealing with the deep and sometimes unresolved emotional and psychological conflicts of your partner. Intimacy makes these wounded areas of your partner’s psyche more vulnerable. So tread carefully and also don’t overreact. Spend necessary time to understand what motivates you and be sure to “own your stuff,” as they say. Avoid blaming others or projecting your hurts. Work with your frustrations and your passion and learn to control your angry responses. Self-control, now that’s real power.
Goldie’s Sun Sextile Kurt’s Saturn (easier aspect):
If this is the most exact aspect between your charts, your main relationship theme is one of responsibility and credibility. You will likely be ambitious to achieve certain goals and work hard at self-improvement. Honing your skills and talents in order to gain the respect of your peers or community is important. With consistent effort, you can become experts and leaders in your field of endeavor.
Easier aspects: In your relationship, you will seek security and stability for yourselves and anyone or anything else under your care and protection. You are organizers and will forge step-by-step plans to reach your goals. Others will admire your persistence and discipline. Because you enjoy being productive, or enjoy the benefits of working, there are times when you’ll overwork yourselves. You will need to learn to balance your work time with relaxed, fun times. Although you seem to attract responsibility, it is also something you desire and you appear to handle it well, most of the time.
Challenging aspects: You are likely to have many struggles in your life together and, perhaps, more responsibility than most for children or parents or your careers. Although your successes are often hard-won, you are unlikely to give up, and your struggles can make you stronger. What’s important is that you refuse to become negative or cynical if things take longer or are more difficult than you wanted. Maintaining your integrity in the midst of adversity will earn you the respect and trust of others, and with time and persistence, you will reach your goals.
Kurt’s Venus Square Goldie’s Saturn (challenging aspect):
If this is the most exact aspect between your charts, your main relationship theme concerns the values of seriousness, integrity, trust, commitments and contracts.
Challenging aspects: It’s possible there are obstacles to being committed in love or in business that will frustrate both of you. Timing can be an issue – you may wait too long and delay your decision until the opportunity has passed by. You will learn by trial and error your own rhythm of timing, and when making a move or taking action feels right to you. Avoid negative criticism of yourself and others, because it is counterproductive. It’s also only part of the whole picture.
Easier aspects: You are cautious when getting involved and look for trustworthiness and quality in others, but these are also what you are willing to give. You feel most content with familiar repeated patterns or habits and with creating financial and emotional security. The stability of marriage or formal business contracts appeals to your careful and methodical nature. You are well organized and reliable and tend to keep your word. Others will seek out these admirable abilities. You will be offered positions of responsibility and leadership, and your sense of timing is excellent.
Goldie’s Moon Sextile Kurt’s Venus (easier aspect):
If this is the most exact aspect between your charts, your main relationship themes are valuing emotional balance, a beautiful and harmonious home environment and graciousness and fairness in all your dealings with others.
Easier aspects: You have a natural charm and a way of diffusing tensions in times of conflict. In fact, you don’t really like conflict and confrontation and are quite happy in offering compromises whenever possible. Your relationships with others tend to be positive, although there are times when you fail to say what is necessary for fear of upsetting the apple cart. You will have many friends and associates, and social engagements will always be important in your lives. You strive for beauty and equanimity.
Challenging aspects: Taking each other for granted and failing to give praise or acknowledgement for favors is an issue that you will have to deal with. Self-indulgence can also make life a bit difficult. Living beyond your means or seeking to keep up appearances will eventually create strain in your relationship. Take time to identify what’s the most important value to strive for in any situation You will also learn how much to compromise and when it’s too much, even for the sake of peace.
Report Order FAQ
Frequently Asked Questions related to Report Orders
WHAT IF MY ORDER DOESN’T ARRIVE WITHIN 24 HOURS?
Reports are generally delivered within 24 hours of order placement, or if there were missing details, within 24 hours of the receipt of full information needed to generate the report(s). Occasionally, an order might arrive a little late if there was an unexpected influx of orders, for example, a power outage, etc.
However, if 24 hours have passed and you don’t find an email from Cafe Astrology (reports@cafeastrology.com) in your inbox or spam folder, then please write and let us know. Please understand that we make every effort to send your order, and if this is impossible, you will receive a refund.
Some people have problems with email delivery, particularly with emails that have attachments. In these cases, we can put the report(s) in a secure place online for download. If you prefer this method regardless, write us an email at reports@cafeastrology.com with the request or add the request in the notes with your order placement.
HOW WILL I RECEIVE MY REPORT?
By default, we send report orders placed in this shop to the email address you enter during the checkout process. You can specify an email address where you prefer we send your reports.
SHOULD I USE 12 PM FOR AN UNKNOWN BIRTH TIME?
No, you should specify that the birth time is unknown rather than guess it so that the report can be created specifically for unknown birth times.
Although unknown birth time reports can be a little shorter than the reports with known birth times, they only include information that is known. Most importantly, the ambiguous information is excluded from the report.
Some people feel that they will get more for their money if they guess at the birth time, as they assume that more interpretations in the reports are better. However, it’s much better to have a shorter report with accurate interpretations than a longer report with a mix of accurate and inaccurate interpretations! In this case, less is definitely more.
CAN I ORDER A SOLAR RETURN (OR OTHER FORECAST REPORT) FOR A YEAR IN THE FUTURE/PAST?
Yes, absolutely. The start date of a report can be any date in the past or the future.
In the case of a Solar Return, the start date will be on or in the two days surrounding the birth month and day due to the nature of this type of forecasting technique, but the year of the report can be any year in the future or past.
In the case of the Time Line report, the software only allows the start date to be the first of any given month, for example, May 1st, 2017.
DO I NEED TO PAY WITH A PAYPAL BALANCE TO PLACE AN ORDER?
No, the shopping cart used on the site is run by Paypal, but all the usual payment options are included so that you can use credit cards, debit cards, and the like. There are different shopping cart technologies available to sellers, and Cafe Astrology has selected the Paypal shopping cart as its solution. All payment details are sent to Paypal and not to Cafe Astrology. Paypal sends Cafe Astrology an email with each order that lists the order details and email address, not any payment information. We are not set up as a merchant at this time.
WHY ARE THE PLANETS’ TRANSITS OF THE HOUSES IN MY REPORT NOT THE SAME AS THOSE OF YOUR HOROSCOPES?
Reports are based on your birth time, while horoscopes are based on solar charts. A solar chart places the Sun’s sign on the Ascendant, and most people don’t have the same Sun and Ascendant in their natal charts. While a solar chart is a valid chart and certainly has its merits, the natal chart should be the first you look at.
WHICH HOUSE SYSTEM DO YOU USE?
For reports, the default house system used is Placidus. However, you can request another house system for your order (example, Koch, Equal, Whole Sign, etc.).
WHY DO MY RESULTS DIFFER FROM THOSE FROM OTHER SOURCES?
It’s important to note that there are many different valid methods for arriving at various astrology calculations, including the Zodiac (Sidereal or Tropical), system of houses used, method of progressing the houses in the case of progressions, use of current or birth location for certain forecasting techniques, and many more. It’s rare that an astrology software program is making wrong calculations. Typically, discrepancies have to do with different systems and not about one or the other being “wrong.” When the Ascendant differs, it’s usually about an ambiguous time zone since we must use the time zone that was in effect at the time of birth and historical time zone information is not perfect. It is simply not true that any one particular software program has every historical time zone correct, although many efforts are made to get them right.
If you receive unexpected results, please send us an email at reports@cafeastrology.com so we can look into the matter and explain the reasons for it, such as an ambiguous time zone or a particular calculation method. It’s important to provide as many details as possible.
WHY IS THE DATE OF MY SOLAR RETURN NOT THE SAME AS MY BIRTHDAY?
The Solar Return chart is drawn for the date and time of the return of the Sun to its exact position at birth, and not to the birthday itself. The Sun returns to its birth position once a year on or near the day of birth, and rarely coincides with the time of birth. For example, if my birthday is September 2nd, 1970 @ 5:00 PM, my Solar Return could be September 1st, 2016, @ 4:24 AM one year, September 2nd, 2017, @ 1:22 AM the next, and so forth. If the birth data is entered correctly on the report, you can expect the Solar Return date and time to be accurate.
HOW CAN I GET MY REPORT ORDER QUICKLY?
Report orders are promised within approximately 24 hours from the time of order placement and complete information required to create the report. We send out reports by email and are at the report computer typically eight hours a day. Because orders and responses come in from all around the world at all hours of the day and night, rush orders are not possible. However, to prevent delays, making certain that you’ve included all information requested and that it’s accurate will prevent the need for email back and forths that will cause delays.
Typically orders are emailed out within 12 hours or so, but they do sometimes come closer to 24 hours. The most common reason is a sudden influx of orders. There are times when more than the usual number of orders come in and it takes much longer to complete orders.
WHEN DO I RECEIVE MY REPORT?
Within 24 hours of order placement, you should receive an email from Cafe Astrology, either as a request for further information or clarification if there is missing/unclear information or with a report attachment. If the information is incomplete, we will request it from you and you will receive your order within 24 hours of receipt of the full information necessary to create your report.
DO I HAVE TO ENTER MY BIRTH DATA FOR EACH REPORT THAT I WANT TO ORDER?
If you are buying more than one report in one order, you can enter birth information only once if you prefer. However, it’s important to note that some reports require different or additional information, so be sure to supply all that is needed to create your reports.
