Romantic Compatibility Report Sample
The Compatibility Report for Prince Charles
and
Camilla Parker Bowles
Birth Data for Prince Charles: Prince Charles November 14, 1948 9:14 PM London, England
Birth Data for Camilla: Camilla Parker Bowles July 17, 1947 7:00 AM London, England
Introduction
This Lovers Report is divided into 4 chapters.
Chapter 1 compares your temperaments and personalities. The issues described in Chapter 1 become particularly powerful if you are married or live together. Idiosyncrasies or quirks in another person’s personality do not bother us as much if our relationship is a casual one. For example, if one person is neat and tidy and the other is sloppy, this is more likely to become a concern if you are married than if you are only seeing each other occasionally.
Pay close attention to the issues described in Chapter 2 because these are the most important themes in your relationship. For example, if themes of romance and sexual attraction are emphasized, then you can count on this relationship being a passionate one. However, if romance and sexuality are hardly mentioned at all, then this relationship will not be a passionate one.
Chapter 4 describes issues in your relationship of less importance than those presented in Chapter 2. Chapter 3 describes situations and circumstances that arise if you have a close, long-lasting relationship.
If a statement appears to contradict another statement, then your roles are likely to alternate. For example, a statement that Prince Charles is more aggressive than Camilla, and another statement that Camilla is more aggressive than Prince Charles, means that you alternate roles, with Prince Charles sometimes being the leader and Camilla being the follower, and sometimes just the opposite. Also, read the statements carefully, as it is likely that a careful reading will reveal different kinds of aggressiveness or areas in which the aggressiveness is likely to express itself.
To make the most of this report, combine this astrological analysis with other things that you know about each other. For example, we have assumed that you are opposite-sexed (assuming that both of you are heterosexual, otherwise same-sexed). Physical attractiveness, age, religion, education, family and cultural background will affect your relationship as well. The material in Chapters 2, 3, and 4 of this report describes the magnetism between you, but does not describe your individual natures. For example, suppose that Chapter 2 makes little mention of romance and sexuality, but the Natal Reports for each of you indicate that each of you has extremely strong romantic and sexual desires. In this case, marriage is not likely to be successful! However, if romance and sexuality are not important to either of you, then the lack of passion in your relationship is not likely to be as much of a stumbling block.
Your birth chart interpretation is based on the positions of the planets at the time of your birth. For the benefit of
students of astrology, these positions, along with other
technical information, are listed below:
Positions and Data for Prince Charles: Sun position is 22 deg. 25 min. of Scorpio
Moon position is 0 deg. 26 min. of Taurus
Mercury position is 6 deg. 57 min. of Scorpio
Venus position is 16 deg. 23 min. of Libra
Mars position is 20 deg. 57 min. of Sagittarius
Jupiter position is 29 deg. 53 min. of Sagittarius
Saturn position is 5 deg. 16 min. of Virgo
Uranus position is 29 deg. 56 min. of Gemini
Neptune position is 14 deg. 08 min. of Libra
Pluto position is 16 deg. 34 min. of Leo
Asc. position is 5 deg. 23 min. of Leo
MC position is 13 deg. 16 min. of Aries
2nd cusp position is 22 deg. 08 min. of Leo
3rd cusp position is 13 deg. 38 min. of Virgo
5th cusp position is 22 deg. 54 min. of Scorpio
6th cusp position is 3 deg. 50 min. of Capricorn
Tropical zodiac. PLACIDUS houses. Lat. and Long.: 51 N 30 0 W 10 Standard time observed. GMT: 21:14:00 Time Zone: 0 hours West.
Positions and Data for Camilla: Sun position is 23 deg. 47 min. of Cancer
Moon position is 9 deg. 56 min. of Cancer
Mercury position is 19 deg. 56 min. of Cancer
Venus position is 10 deg. 34 min. of Cancer
Mars position is 11 deg. 17 min. of Gemini
Jupiter position is 17 deg. 42 min. of Scorpio
Saturn position is 9 deg. 57 min. of Leo
Uranus position is 23 deg. 50 min. of Gemini
Neptune position is 8 deg. 14 min. of Libra
Pluto position is 12 deg. 23 min. of Leo
Asc. position is 3 deg. 06 min. of Leo
MC position is 9 deg. 49 min. of Aries
2nd cusp position is 19 deg. 39 min. of Leo
3rd cusp position is 10 deg. 44 min. of Virgo
5th cusp position is 19 deg. 17 min. of Scorpio
6th cusp position is 0 deg. 57 min. of Capricorn
Tropical zodiac. PLACIDUS houses. Lat. and Long.: 51 N 30 0 W 10 Double DST observed. GMT: 05:00:00 Time Zone: 0 hours West.
Chapter 1 A Comparison of Temperaments and Life Styles that Affect Your Ability to Harmonize with Each Other
Camilla’s Sun in Cancer and Prince Charles’s Sun in Scorpio: It is so very easy to attach yourselves to each other! Because each of you possesses a powerful feeling nature and a tendency to bond intensely with important people in your lives, you sense in each other a basic similarity in temperaments and goals. There are differences, of course, in your natures, but this overall similarity can strengthen the bond between you. Camilla often feels more compassion and sympathy for others, while Prince Charles may view Camilla’s feelings as sentimentality. When wounded, Prince Charles sometimes tends towards being resentful. Camilla, on the other hand, is more apt to sulk or withdraw when hurt, and usually lets the other person know (generally in a nonverbal manner!) about it. Prince Charles, by contrast, hides hurt more readily.
You may also have different attitudes towards sexuality versus love. For example, Camilla may feel that Prince Charles is sometimes more driven by instinct and lust than by love, and this may become an issue in your relationship. Overall, though, the intense bonding and emotionality of your relationship fosters a deep, lasting attachment between you. Intimacy is likely to come more easily to you as a couple than it does for others, and loyalty is important to you both.
Camilla’s Moon in Cancer and Prince Charles’s Moon in Taurus: Even though the way each of you reacts and responds to your environment on an emotional level is different, there is something oh so familiar about each other. Each of you is security-minded. You want to feel secure and safe in your personal relationships, and you may give up excitement for stability if you had to make a choice! Both of you are very domestic and need a strong, secure home base in order to be happy. The sharing of food, nurturing of children, and creating a home together would be very satisfying for the two of you. Camilla has deep attachments to family and to all things “familiar”. Prince Charles, too, is resistant to changes in domestic or personal life, preferring to stay with what has already been established rather than seeking novelty. Dependability and safety in a relationship are important to both of you, and you can find these things in each other.
Of the two of you, Camilla is more emotional, sensitive, and moody, while Prince Charles is more steady, practical, and even-tempered. Prince Charles gives Camilla a reassuring sense of security and is like the Rock of Gibraltar for Camilla during times of emotional stress and turmoil. Camilla may wish, however, that Prince Charles was less impassive at times.
Both of you have Venus conjunct or in hard aspect to Neptune: Both of you have very idealized, romanticized images of love, and love-yearnings which no ordinary mortal can fully satisfy. Fantasies of the perfect lover or true “soul mate” often color your attitudes towards the people in your lives, and you both are apt to have experienced some disillusionment and disappointment in trying to live out these dreams. You perhaps see only what you wish to see when it comes to other people, particularly those you are romantically attracted to. You may find that real human beings do not want to be put on a pedestal and adored, but accepted with all of their limitations. You may believe self-sacrifice and love are synonymous – with disastrous effects!
Both of you are attracted to people who have an angelic, unearthly quality, people who are highly artistic, very sensitive, or who are spiritually inclined. You may long for someone who is unattainable to you, in part to avoid having a concrete relationship with anyone! Both of you tend to have phantom loves – people you dream about but never actualize a relationship with.
At best, the two of you could share your great love of beauty and your devotion to the Beauty or Divinity inside each person. A common spiritual path may well be the “glue” – or at least an important part of it – in this relationship.
Chapter 2 Major Themes in the Relationship: What Brought You Together
Prince Charles’s Mars Opposition Camilla’s Uranus: This is an electric chemistry that is very stimulating. At different times, this stimulating energy can be used well or poorly. Well-channeled, it means you spur each other on, you excite one another, and you breathe fresh air into your partnership. When mis-channeled, there can be impatience with one another. A good way to channel this chemistry is to enjoy vigorous physical activities together, or engage in competitive sports with one another. If you find each other even mildly physically attractive, then sexual arousal will be intense, electric, and sudden, but it may be lacking in finesse and gentleness. If you come to cross purposes, you can become very hostile towards each other. There is an erratic quality to the relationship, and giving each other personal freedom will be especially important. Prince Charles may be put off by Camilla’s somewhat erratic displays of independence and interest. When Prince Charles is angry or wants something to happen, Camilla’s responses may be frustrating, as they can appear aloof and lacking in passion. There is a definite “chase” going on between you. When Prince Charles is aroused and feeling very personal and subjective, Camilla can respond in an impersonal manner, emphasizing independence and autonomy. Frustrations occur when Prince Charles vies for a personal and intimate response from Camilla, but is instead faced with either aloofness or defiance.
Camilla’s Sun Trine Prince Charles’s Sun: You energize each other! Although your goals don’t always jive, you nevertheless feel supported by your partner. In a general sense, you endorse one another. This is a very positive and strengthening aspect in your relationship! Each of you affirms and confirms the other’s purpose. Together, you feel you are going somewhere. Your basic aims and approach to life are in harmony, and the mutual respect you feel forms the basis of an excellent friendship or partnership. You feel understood, appreciated, recognized, and affirmed by one another. You stimulate, vitalize, motivate, and believe in each other in an overall sense. Of course, there are challenges in your relationship, but this particular aspect strengthens your overall belief in one another.
Prince Charles’s Sun Trine Camilla’s Mercury: This active, mental aspect between your charts suggests a positive flow of communication and activity between you. You love to chat with each other, and, most of the time, you understand what your partner means. Many communication problems in relationships stem from misunderstandings, and this aspect helps you to “get” what each other means. In particular, Camilla very easily finishes Prince Charles’s sentences, because Camilla understands Prince Charles’s intentions. Prince Charles admires Camilla’s intelligence, and appreciates this understanding. This is a real friendship aspect. On its own, it doesn’t have romantic overtones, but any romance will benefit from this stimulating and expressive energy. Mental rapport makes for stimulating conversations and means that there are many moments in your relationship when each of you feels supported by your partner. This is a problem-solving aspect. When the two of you put your minds together, you come up with positive solutions to problems.
Camilla’s Asc. Square Prince Charles’s Moon: You care a great deal for each other, but clashes sometimes occur between you. Prince Charles may find Camilla focuses too much on personal needs and desires, while Camilla might find that Prince Charles is overly focused on domestic issues, perhaps paying more attention to the family than to Camilla! Disagreements between you can be highly emotionally charged, yet your attachment to each other is strong, and you both feel quite badly after the argument is over. You do not want to hurt each other’s feelings, and this can be especially true for Prince Charles, who is particularly sensitive to Camilla’s emotions. Be careful not to get into a defensive mode with each other. Prince Charles can easily feel slighted when Camilla expresses the urge for freedom and independence, while Camilla can easily feel neglected at the idea that Prince Charles puts domestic concerns ahead of Camilla’s personal needs.
Camilla’s Moon Trine Prince Charles’s Mercury: Prince Charles very easily stimulates Camilla towards self-expression. This aspect means that you feel very comfortable chit-chatting about practically anything under the sun! This ease with one another is probably noticeable right from the start of your relationship, and the easygoing nature of your interaction will feel tremendous! Who else could you share such personal issues with in such an easy manner? You enjoy long talks and you feel very much at home with each other. You are able to openly share your feelings about various issues, whether they are political, religious, or personal in nature. You will find that as you spend more time together, your tastes, interests, hobbies, and activities tend to blend together harmoniously. The feeling of friendship and inner understanding of each other is very satisfying and of a very positive nature.
Prince Charles’s Mercury Square Camilla’s Saturn: This aspect is a rather challenging one, but not insurmountable. There can be a tendency for Prince Charles to be quite sensitive to what seems to be Camilla’s criticism of Prince Charles’s ideas. Sometimes, it feels like Prince Charles’s intelligence comes under question! This aspect may not be apparent at the beginning of the relationship, but it is sure to surface at some point, and it must be dealt with sensitively. Handling this chemistry between you is a two-sided thing: Camilla should become more aware of a tendency to pick at Prince Charles’s observations and style of communication, and Prince Charles should try not to be too sensitive to critical analysis. Communication problems can be the source of tension and misunderstandings. Camilla’s ideas may be viewed to be too somber or practical by Prince Charles, and Prince Charles may feel this as rain on a parade. If Prince Charles expresses an idea, Camilla may be quick to present an obstacle or a negative comment. Negative communications may be the result. However, each of you has the power to learn from the other. Try taking some advice, and also try to limit cold criticism, because it can really bite sometimes! Remind yourselves that you do value one another’s ideas and intelligence, and be sure to let each other know this fact! Criticisms and realism do have their benefits, as long as they are given and received in the spirit of helpfulness only! You must make sincere efforts to listen receptively and sympathetically, and avoid jumping to conclusions!
Camilla’s Mars Trine Prince Charles’s Neptune: Camilla’s natural instincts are supported by Prince Charles. Prince Charles has a way of calming and soothing Camilla. This is a wonderfully supportive aspect, as you are intrigued by one another, and although Camilla often takes the lead, Prince Charles’s influence is powerful in a quiet way. Camilla is able to set some of Prince Charles’s dreams and visions into action, and appreciates Prince Charles’s imagination. Camilla supports and identifies with Prince Charles’s dreams. Sexual attraction can have much to do with fascination, as Prince Charles sometimes seems just out of reach. There is a spiritual bond here that strengthens your connection to one another. You may especially enjoy sharing your fantasies with each other, as well as sharing imaginative activities, from simply enjoying a movie together to discussing the meaning of life.
Chapter 3 Destiny and Final Outcome of Your Relationship
Composite Sun Square Uranus: Your relationship may or may not be long lasting, but it will always have a flavor of unpredictability, spontaneity, and surprise. Periodic unexpected events and changes create an unsettled feeling between you, as if you can never quite relax and settle down into a comfortable, established pattern. While you will never be bored with one another, neither will you ever feel quite certain or peacefully secure. However, if your temperaments enable you to he highly flexible and adventurous and willing to take risks, you may be able to ride through the ups and downs.
You are destined to act as “awakeners” for one another. One of you may open the other to something totally new and different, even shocking, which revolutionizes the way you view the world and your place in it – something you may once have considered weird or too “far out”. Always there will be the element of experimentation, of following the unexpected twist in the road. Being with one another encourages you both to be more free, unconventional, and impulsive than you might be otherwise.
Composite Moon Opposition Jupiter: “Let’s have a good time!” will be one of the ongoing themes in your relationship. You encourage each other to play, to laugh and see the lighter side of life, to expand your horizons, and simply to enjoy life.
As a couple you are inclined to overdo the “good life” however, and can put too much into luxuries, vacations, delicious but transitory pleasures. You’ll want to live it up together, to just go out and have fun – and FUN is definitely one of the purposes of your relationship… but eventually you’ll have to pay for this if you two don’t keep it within reasonable bounds.
Nevertheless, unexpected good fortune and “miracles” will happen to the two of you as a couple. There is an undeniable “lucky” streak in this relationship.
Composite Mercury Opposition Mars: There is a marked tendency toward argumentativeness and sharp words between you which will need to be worked with if it is not to become an overriding dynamic in your relationship. Petty bickering and insistence on doing things in your own ways can even lead to minor accidents, especially when traveling together. Long distance automobile rides may be especially irritating.
One of the purposes of your relationship is to learn how to honestly discuss conflict and how to assert and communicate your personal desires. If you can find ways to do this without alienating or warring with each other, you will have fulfilled one of the functions of your being together.
Composite Venus Sextile Uranus: As a couple the two of you will attract a lot of unusual friends, eccentric or creative people who will make life interesting and entertaining. Openness to experimentation, especially regarding expressing yourselves sexually or how you derive pleasure and enjoyment, will play an important role in your relationship too. You’ll find that your interaction is always dynamic and changing, so that both of you are taken by surprise and cannot take anything for granted regarding each other. This keeps your connection fresh and stimulating, although you may wish for a little more peace and “sameness” at times.
Dancing, music, or rhythmic, graceful sports like skating or swimming are things you will excel in as a couple.
Composite Mars Quincunx Pluto: At times it will seem that great forces are working against you to prevent the two of you getting what you want in your life together. Events that seem tremendously unfair or random will be a challenge during different periods of your relationship. Also, beware of trying to use force inappropriately or excessively with one another or with others, for it most certainly will be destructive. Misdirected anger can be a real problem. Learning to redirect your anger and aggressiveness into constructive channels will be necessary. Misguided or misdirected passion and sexual energies need to be watched for. Hiding your true desires and intentions can play havoc with your relationship.
Chapter 4 Other Themes in Your Relationship
Camilla’s Sun in Prince Charles’s 12th house: Even if you have been together for many years, Camilla will continue to be intriguing and somewhat mysterious to Prince Charles. You have a knack for uncovering each other’s hidden or repressed traits, and there is a deep, mysterious, perhaps even mystical quality to your relationship. Prince Charles views Camilla as someone to share with on a very personal level, and looks to Camilla for support. You may value your private time together more than anything else in the relationship, finding greatest rewards in these moments. You may also feel protective of one another and prefer to keep many elements of your partnership private from the rest of the world. Camilla has a profound impact on Prince Charles, and should be aware of this fact. Camilla pulls up many desires and some confusion of boundaries in Prince Charles, and Prince Charles may be very sensitive to Camilla’s actions. Camilla may have the “upper hand” in the relationship, or be viewed as the stronger of the two.
Prince Charles’s Sun in Camilla’s 5th house: This overlay is a creative, dynamic one. There is much romantic attraction between the two of you. Camilla views Prince Charles as somebody to have fun with, to unwind with, and to enjoy leisure time with. This position, in and of itself, doesn’t promise a long-lasting relationship. However, no matter how long this relationship lasts, it is a decidedly romantic, pleasurable one. You truly enjoy each other’s company! That fact certainly is a blessing. Problems may occur when either one of you, and perhaps mostly Prince Charles, wants to be considered marriage material. Marriage is certainly not ruled out, but it may not be the first thing on Camilla’s mind. Camilla feels more alive and vital around Prince Charles. There is a real ego boost happening here, and it feels very good indeed!
Camilla’s Moon in Prince Charles’s 12th house: Prince Charles likes to confide in Camilla, telling Camilla many events and circumstances from childhood that no one else has been told. Nevertheless, Camilla may feel that Prince Charles is hard to grasp, or might find Prince Charles hard to define or pin down. Some element of mistrust or confusion is possible over time. Camilla must be especially aware that Prince Charles is especially sensitive and attached to Camilla, and sometimes acts irrationally as a result. This is because Camilla touches a part of Prince Charles that is very deep and personal.
Prince Charles’s Moon in Camilla’s 10th house: This is a strong placement for those involved in professional dealings with one another, as Camilla finds much use for Prince Charles’s talents. In a romantic relationship, this may pose as a challenge, as Camilla finds Prince Charles very useful and may not respond to Prince Charles’s emotions in a particularly sensitive way. If Prince Charles has a great need to be needed in a worldly or practical sense, then this position works well. Otherwise, Prince Charles may eventually feel somewhat used or feel that Camilla is not especially sensitive to Prince Charles’s feelings and personal needs. On the plus side, this suggests a relationship in which you are looking out for one another, and building something practical and realistic together.
Camilla’s Mercury in Prince Charles’s 12th house: Camilla loves to probe into Prince Charles’s psyche, taking a sincere interest in Prince Charles’s inner workings, dreams, and subconscious. At times, you may find each other’s conversation, interests, and ways of looking at things a tad perplexing. Sometimes, Camilla wants Prince Charles to verbalize things that Prince Charles feels should remain unspoken. Camilla may suffer from Prince Charles’s “errors of omission” -those things that are left unsaid. Camilla may lack trust that Prince Charles will be forthcoming and straightforward, as Camilla may find Prince Charles somewhat elusive. Communication problems or misunderstandings are very possible with this placement. However, with time and understanding, you can develop a very intimate mental rapport, as Prince Charles may enjoy the ability to talk with Camilla about some of the most private things that otherwise would be left unsaid, finding Camilla to be a supportive and enthusiastic audience.
Prince Charles’s Mercury in Camilla’s 4th house: Prince Charles has a way of stimulating Camilla to discuss very personal issues with Prince Charles, which can promote a very close inner tie between you. Prince Charles may offer advice about Camilla’s home life. Prince Charles is in a position to help Camilla to be more objective about attachments to the past. Camilla may find Prince Charles too logical and rational when it comes to matters of the heart and ties to the past/one’s roots. However, a measure of objectivity can also be very helpful. Camilla could find much comfort in Prince Charles’s opinions, advice, and thoughts.
Camilla’s Venus in Prince Charles’s 12th house: Prince Charles seems a bit mysterious to Camilla and Camilla is intrigued and fascinated by Prince Charles, but may lack trust and feel insecure with Prince Charles. It is important to be honest and candid about feelings in this relationship, as there can be hidden feelings. There may also be a strong spiritual, almost mystical affinity for each other. There is a strong private quality to your relationship. Prince Charles may feel somewhat dependent on Camilla for love, as Prince Charles opens up in many very personal ways, sometimes responding irrationally to Camilla. Although this vulnerability exists, Camilla may be victim of some level of mistrust, as Prince Charles doesn’t respond in a traditional, straightforward, and public way to Camilla’s love.
Prince Charles’s Venus in Camilla’s 4th house: Camilla’s deep feelings of love and admiration for Prince Charles are not likely to evaporate over time. Both of you love your times together, especially your shared domestic life. Camilla opens up to Prince Charles and is easily vulnerable and sensitive in Prince Charles’s presence. If trust is compromised, Camilla would feel deeply wounded. Prince Charles has much potential to make Camilla feel loved and secure.
Camilla’s Mars in Prince Charles’s 11th house: Camilla arouses Prince Charles’s need to contribute to society, or to take a distinct position in the community. Camilla also arouses Prince Charles’s independence and individuality. Camilla tends to be the leader in terms of organizing activities, either shared ones or simply spurring Prince Charles to be more socially active. Camilla awakens Prince Charles’s interests and hobbies, and the two of you may share plenty of interesting and unique adventures.
Prince Charles’s Mars in Camilla’s 5th house: Sexual sizzle! Prince Charles makes Camilla feel alive and vital, and personifies an ideal sexual partner for Camilla. There is likely to be a lot of rousing “play” between the two of you. An element of competitiveness and playfulness is present between the two of you, and it is exciting indeed. Prince Charles also encourages Camilla to develop creative talents, and you may become involved together in creative projects. This is a very stimulating position.
Camilla’s Jupiter in Prince Charles’s 4th house: The warm and nurturing side of Prince Charles is brought out in this relationship. If the two of you live together, it is likely that you will enjoy a high level of domestic harmony. You enjoy your times at home together and both of you contribute much to making a pleasant home life together.
Prince Charles’s Jupiter in Camilla’s 5th house: There is a lot of playfulness and joking between the two of you. You really know how to have a good time with each other. The two of you enjoy playing games together, engaging in creative activities, hobbies, and you generally have lots of fun together. Also, Prince Charles encourages Camilla’s creative talents and interests and enjoys promoting and assisting Camilla’s creativity, whether it be as simple as baking a cake or a more significant undertaking. Camilla gets a real ego boost in Prince Charles’s company. There can be playful teasing between the two of you that you both find very pleasurable. Prince Charles is sincerely interested in promoting Camilla’s happiness, and will typically go to great lengths to do just that. Camilla relies on Prince Charles for an energy and confidence boost. This is a very pleasurable contact!
Camilla’s Saturn in Prince Charles’s 1st house: Camilla’s more mature, responsible, reliable side comes out in this relationship. Camilla becomes almost paternalistic in this relationship. Camilla is also inclined to offer lots of critical advice, at times interfering too much with Prince Charles’s plans and goals. Camilla’s “helpful criticism” sometimes sours into moralistic judgments. Camilla should be wary of the tendency to control or severely limit Prince Charles’s sense of freedom. However, if Camilla’s advice and influence is truly motivated by a pure desire to help, this advice is received well by Prince Charles, and if there is mutual respect, then Prince Charles will come to rely on Camilla for solid support.
Prince Charles’s Saturn in Camilla’s 2nd house: Handling of finances is a major issue in your relationship, especially if your relationship is a permanent one. Deciding how to increase income, how to wisely spend money, and how to develop financial security becomes a big issue, and major problems can arise if either of you ignores or overlooks your partner’s point of view in these matters. You will learn a lot about handling money and resources and how to develop material security in this relationship, and hopefully any difficult lessons will not cause serious regrets. Prince Charles, in particular, should be wary of the tendency to be overly critical of the way that Camilla handles finances and should try not to interfere too much with Camilla’s decisions in this regard. Camilla should try not to be overly sensitive to Prince Charles’s suggestions and should try to extract the useful, valuable suggestions and ignore the rest.
Camilla’s Uranus in Prince Charles’s 11th house, Prince Charles’s Uranus in Camilla’s 11th house:
Together you become active participants in community, social action, and progressive ideas. You encourage one another to become involved in social and political issues, and you encourage each other to look beyond your personal lives and take an interest in issues of broader scope that affect your community, country, or the world as a whole.
Camilla’s Neptune in Prince Charles’s 3rd house: Frequently, the two of you misunderstand each other regarding some practical detail or specific instruction. Without realizing it, Camilla tends to communicate less clearly to Prince Charles than to others, and does not concentrate as much on the practical nitty-gritty of what is being communicated. Prince Charles, in turn, responds by being slightly distracted and less attentive to the factual details being communicated.
Prince Charles’s Neptune in Camilla’s 4th house: There is a good deal of fantasy, imagination, and playfulness in your relationship. Prince Charles, in particular, sparks Camilla’s imagination and intuition. One way this quality is likely to express itself is in the style of your home, which is likely to be decorated and arranged in a very imaginative way.
Camilla’s Pluto in Prince Charles’s 1st house, Prince Charles’s Pluto in Camilla’s 1st house:
You find one another to be fascinating, mysterious, and almost charismatic. There is a strong desire to know each other more intimately, and share very personal experiences. You may also be prone to power struggles at times or try to manipulate one another.
Prince Charles’s Sun Conjunct Camilla’s Jupiter: This cross-aspect infuses quite a bit of vitality and good will into the relationship. Optimism and enthusiasm is generated between you two. Camilla always seems to give Prince Charles the benefit of the doubt, and trusts Prince Charles’s good heart at the end of the day. Camilla can help Prince Charles by opening up new doors, new avenues of expression, and building Prince Charles’s self-confidence. Even if there are more somber cross-aspects in the synastry of your relationship, this one offers truly fun moments that smooth over differences at the end of the day. Together, you can envision wonderful things, and together you can also overdo pleasurable things, simply because of the confidence stimulated between you! Making each other smile is easy with this combination, and even if the relationship were to turn and you were to separate, positive memories and mutual respect would remain. Excess is associate with Jupiter, and if it exists, it does stem from good intentions. If either of you over-indulges the other, it is because you both have a deep need to make each other happy. Camilla has the power to lift Prince Charles’s spirits up, which is a powerful, natural, and positive “drug”.
Prince Charles’s Asc. Conjunct Camilla’s Saturn: Camilla restricts, disciplines, disapproves of, or criticizes Prince Charles, often in a subtle way or with the assumption that it’s for Prince Charles’s own good. This has the effect of either undermining Prince Charles’s confidence or of forcing Prince Charles to become even stronger and more definite in order to stand up to Camilla.
Especially at the beginning of your relationship, Camilla is likely to be the dominant partner, and Prince Charles may acquiesce to Camilla’s wishes, even when they inhibit Prince Charles’s own natural self-expression. Prince Charles will respect Camilla, and may actually benefit from the structure, stability, and security that Camilla provides. Prince Charles also feels that Camilla is someone to be trusted and depended on, and in turn may feel obligated to Camilla in some important way. There is definitely the potential for a deep commitment between you, but the relationship can easily become stifling also, especially for Prince Charles. Camilla must avoid trying to control Prince Charles.
Camilla’s Asc. Square Prince Charles’s Mercury: The two of you often view a situation very differently, and you frequently respond to events in a different manner. Unfortunately, you are also inclined to feel that your approach is superior and feel very frustrated that you cannot enlighten your partner. Very often, also, this annoying situation is triggered by a relatively minor incident. Just when Camilla wants to do something on impulse, Prince Charles interjects with an analysis or a question. However, if you can avoid petty little arguments, you can benefit from this stimulating aspect. You have much to learn from each other.
Camilla’s Moon Square Prince Charles’s Neptune: You spark each other’s imagination and fantasies, but the tendency to deceive each other is also very strong. You fascinate and intrigue each other, clouding your vision and causing you to often misunderstand each other. For example, you tend to project fantasies and hopes on each other – this is not necessarily bad because these fantasies can become a rich source for imaginative, inspiring works of art or music. Do not rush into a serious relationship too quickly, though, because you need time to make sure that you haven’t got caught up in a romantic, idealistic vision of each other, from which you will later wake. If either of you has a major problem of a psychological, alcohol-related, or drug-related nature, this relationship can become a partnership in dissolute, self-destructive, negative habits.
Camilla’s Mercury Square Prince Charles’s Venus: You enjoy sharing ideas about the arts, literature, and people but often you fail to understand each other and sometimes reach a complete impasse. Your feelings towards each other are sometimes misunderstood too, with one of you perhaps feeling more romantic and the other person feeling inclined strictly towards friendship without romance. Both of you will have to tolerate different points of view from your partner for this relationship to work successfully.
Prince Charles’s Mercury Trine Camilla’s Venus: You love exchanging ideas with one another, and you have some of the most stimulating conversations with each other! There is a natural and mutual sensitivity to each other, and this attunement is the reason behind the fact that you often finish each other’s sentences! You truly enjoy each other’s company and opinions. Camilla tends to sensitize Prince Charles to the arts, very naturally adding a softness and element of compassion to Prince Charles’s analyses. Prince Charles stimulates Camilla’s interests, and you each can find a wonderful audience in the other. Enjoy this friendship! You have the potential to admire one another and to feel enhanced by each other’s presence. This is one of the strengths of your partnership, and it is always wise to remember and recognize that you have a true friend in each other.
Camilla’s Venus Square Prince Charles’s Neptune: Your love for each other has a very dreamy, idealistic, and romantic quality. You are infatuated with each other, sometimes almost hypnotized by each other. You tend to have glamorous and idealistic notions of each other that are far removed from reality. This relationship is prone to major disappointments when you each discover that your partner is not as perfect as imagined. Disillusionment and disappointment are likely, but you can mitigate this tendency if you allow yourself to enjoy the dreamy romanticism without projecting your wildest fantasies onto your partner, believing you have found the companion of your dreams.
Camilla’s Jupiter Square Prince Charles’s Pluto: Through your relationship with one another significant changes occur in your underlying assumptions and beliefs about life and death, your faith, or your sense of personal meaning. Prince Charles may try to force Camilla to accept some philosophy or way of seeing the world, challenging Camilla’s currently held beliefs or religious understanding. Putting your cherished beliefs and ideals to the test, pushing past mental barriers and limits, diving into life more wholeheartedly in order to see how far you can really go, and a deep desire to really LIVE are key issues in this relationship.
Vedic Compatibility Report Sample
Vedic Compatibility Report for Prince William and Kate Middleton (a sunrise chart was used for Kate Middleton’s birth chart, as her time is unknown)
Prince William (1982/6/21 21:3:0 London, 17) – Moon in Gemini and in Ardra Nakshatra
Kate Middleton (1982/1/9 8:13:46 Reading, 0) – Moon in Gemini and in Ardra Nakshatra
Your Moons are in the same Asterism
Fortunately, the asterism that your Moons are in is a relationship-centered asterism. This means that you have great compatibility. Keep reading to get the details of your compatibility, keeping in mind a few things: Since your asterism is relationship-centered, the difficulties mentioned below will not be a problem; they will not be a strong part of your relationship. Only the favorable things mentioned below will play a large role in your relationship.
RESPECT
The flow of your relationship will stimulate mutual respect and, thereby, growth of love.
In any relationship it is respect that is most important. Love is said to, “flourish in the soil of mutual respect.” When any two people get together there is a particular flow between them. If it flows well, both people feel respected, cared for and loved. If it does not flow well, both people feel disrespected, incompetent and frustrated. Men and women tend to feel loved for different things and thus need to be respected in different ways. Men feel most loved when their thoughts and actions are respected and when they are appreciated for what they do. Women feel most loved when their feelings are respected and when they are appreciated for who they are. This is not to say that a woman does not feel loved when her thoughts and actions are respected and when she is appreciated for what she does, it is only to say that she feels most loved when her feelings are respected and when she is appreciated for who she is. Men do feel loved when they are appreciated for who they are and when they have their feelings respected, but they feel most loved when they are respected for their thoughts and actions and when they are appreciated for what they do. Since men and women feel most loved when respected for different things, a healthy relationship will flow in such a way so that both people will most often be respected for what is most important to them.
Your relationship is set up so that the energy will flow from the man to the woman, which is the ideal situation. The man will get a clear picture of what needs to be done in the relationship and he will be able to take the steps to do it. This will put him in a position where the woman will have the opportunity to respect him for what he is doing. As a result he will feel loved and his self-esteem and confidence will flourish and he will become a better man as a result. He will also get ideas about the relationship and what to do in the relationship and bring them to the woman for her consideration and input so they can work together to create a happy future. The woman will feel loved and cared for since the man is taking the steps that show that she is important to him and that she is worth building a life with. Since the man will be demonstrating his love for the woman, the woman will feel better and better about herself. Any ills she may have suffered in the past and in past relationships that have caused her to wonder why anyone would ever want to be with her will become distant memories and she will become a better and happier woman.
If for some reason you find things not flowing as smoothly, then there are likely to be issues that both of you have to work out as individuals, but which the relationship can help you work out. If things are not flowing as expected, then the man will be in need of improving his self-esteem. He probably doubts himself or just doesn’t know what he wants in life. This can cause him to not put the proper energy into the relationship or make it hard for him to have the courage to tell the woman what he wants. Given time, this relationship can help him discover these things about himself, since the flow of the relationship will help him breed the confidence he needs. The woman will probably still feel the need to prove herself, that somehow she is not “good enough,” or that if she does not do it, no one will do it just for her. As a result of feeling these things, she may do a lot more than necessary in the relationship. Given time, the good flow in this relationship will help her feel better about these things and help her experience a whole new world where she is the center of her man’s attention and actions.
WAVELENGTH
You are on the Same Wavelength
For a relationship to be smooth, efficient and nurturing the couple has to be on the same wavelength. They must have mutual needs so that they can share in the fulfillment of those needs and they must have an innate ability to understand each other. Everything that we do in life has a subtle influence upon us. Throughout the day we crave one thing or another. Fulfilling these cravings goes a long way in helping us feel balanced and energized. When our body is craving exercise we need to get out there and move or we just won’t feel okay. If we are feeling the need to be by the ocean we won’t feel right until we get there. If we feel like eating a certain food, we will feel hungry until we eat that food. So it goes throughout the day. A couple that wants to spend a lot of time together has to have needs and cravings that are similar in nature and they have to have these needs at the same time. Otherwise, one or both of the individuals will not experience enough of what they need and end up not feeling right until, over time, they will become drained. If this type of attunement is not there, then the couple will also not relate and communicate well together since they really won’t be tuned into the same thing at the same time.
Your Wavelength score is 20 or higher which puts you both on the same wavelength and makes you naturally attuned to each other. As a result of this natural attunement with each other you will share many similar feelings about things and will often feel like doing the very same thing, so you will be able to spend hours with each other and your presence will help energize each other. This attunement will help you form deeper bonds as you naturally identify more and more with each other. Since you are so attuned to each other you will often find that you know what the other is going to say and be able to tune into what they really mean, so you will be able to share on a much deeper level. This attunement helps you both energize each other, so spending time together in close proximity, sleeping in the same bed and such can really help you feel good.
Your Wavelength score is determined by eight different astrological measures. Each of these eight measures has something important to show you about your relationship. Continue reading to learn all about these eight factors and how they are affecting your relationship.
EXCESS
Your Relationship Suffers from Excess Vata
Each persons physical health as well as their actions are governed by three principles: Kapha, Pitta and Vata. Kapha correlates to the Chinese principle of Yin and to the Phlegmatic temperament. Pitta correlates to the Yang principle and the Bilious temperament. Vata correlates to the interplay or movement of Yin and Yang and the Windy temperament. These principles are very important in respect to our actions, health and feelings. Kapha provides the capacity for love, devotion, receptivity, rest, enjoyment and emotional response. Pitta provides courage, initiative, leadership, determination, intelligence, improvement and protection. Vata provides the capacity for the change and adjustment that life requires in order to live healthily and happily. If one of these temperaments becomes excessive, then the relationship, the lives of both the individuals and the physical health of the couple may become unbalanced and strained.
Each person has their own make up and blend of Kapha, Pitta and Vata, which is their “normal” state. This “normal” state may or may not be a healthy “normal.” Regardless of a person’s normal mental and physical state, when we relate to another person, the energy can change and there is the possibility of two people relating together to create an excess of Kapha, Pitta or Vata which results in their relationship having some imbalance. The imbalance will also carry over into the rest of their lives.
Astrological Factors indicate that your relationship suffers from excess Vata. Excess Vata can make it difficult to maintain focus and consistency and you may find your lives together being full of change and instability. You may especially notice inconsistency with the small things, such as eating regularly, sleeping regular hours, keeping a schedule, etc. When trying to work something out, you may find yourselves quickly becoming confused and unsure of your thoughts and not be able to explain yourself the way that you desire to. Or, if you do actually come up with a game plan, you will find it difficult to follow through. Basically, excess Vata causes the relationship to be a bit ungrounded and makes it more difficult for you both to be focused and grounded when in each other’s presence. This not only creates difficulties in small things, like not having a clear idea of how to proceed or what to do at times, but also with the big thing of what to do with the relationship. When you do feel a lack of focus around each other, just a short time apart can get you both on track again.
Ancient astrological texts state that excess Vata will harm the woman more than the man. Vata is the energy of movement, grace and change, which is usually more dominant in women than in men. Excess Vata in a relationship, therefore, tends to affect the woman more than the man. So it is more likely that the woman will feel that her life is getting more inconsistent and lacking focus and direction. Excess Vata can cause the woman to suffer from fatigue, constipation, stress, and lethargy in the mornings, restlessness in the evenings and shallow or disturbed sleep. It is, therefore, a good idea to emphasize taking care of the woman’s health and make sure that she eats and sleeps regularly, gets away from the stress and finds something relaxing to do. Exercise helps. Excess Vata can, of course, affect the man as well, but usually it is the woman that suffers the Vata excess the most.
Excess Vata reduces your Wavelength score by eight points over what it would be if you did not have any such excess. Fortunately your Wavelength score is still twenty or greater. This gives you plenty of room to connect and relate healthily with each other even if you do get a bit spacey or ungrounded at times. And it gives you plenty of ways to relate to each other and work out any problems which having excess Vata may cause, to the point that these problems are only inconveniences, inconveniences being something that no relationship ever escapes entirely. If you spend a little time making sure that you both are working to balance the Vata in the female part of your couple by striving towards regularity in your lifestyle, your relationship can even improve.
CONSTRUCTIVISM
You will naturally be creative and constructive with each other.
Astrological indications reveal that you will find it quite easy, and even automatic to be constructive with each other. You will find many things to create together and share many desires together that you hope to build into your lives. You will very often desire to do and create very similar things so that there will be many opportunities to enjoy each other as you build your lives together. Your capability to create together is one of the best things for the relationship and earns you seven points towards your Wavelength score.
TEMPERAMENT
When it comes right down to it, both of you are progressive, industrious and practical people. Since you both have this similar temperament you will better be able to relate to each other and better be able to relate to the rest of the world together. You will both strive to make the most of any situation that life offers you. You will be able to take advantage of the best options that life presents to you. When life is hard, you will both do what you can to make things better and get you through the difficulties. Having a similar temperament goes a long way in creating harmony and a sense of purpose together, and you therefore earn six points towards your total Wavelength score.
FRIENDLINESS
You have a natural affinity for friendship with each other.
A primary ingredient for any good relationship is the affinity of friendship. Friends are discovered in the places we like and in the things that we like to do, so in a relationship, friendship makes two people want to do things together. Also, in any relationship, people need to treat each other in a friendly way, especially during difficult times. Astrological indications reveal that you both have a natural affinity for friendship. This will help you both enjoy the same things and the same places and also help you have the same attitude about things. There will be greater feelings of friendship and mutual understanding, and compromise, when necessary, will be quite easy. When things get tough, you will have friendship to fall back upon and will treat each other kindly as you work things out. This natural affinity for friendship earns you five points towards your total Wavelength score.
INSTINCTIVE COMPATIBILITY
Each person has an instinctive nature that they rely upon in intense situations when all recourse has left them. This instinctive nature is usually resorted to in crisis situations and in situations when a person has to do something, but does not know what to do. The instinctive nature also comes out to a lesser degree during the more intense aspects of sex. For a couple to go through intense situations harmoniously together and for a couple to bond through intense experiences and sexual experiences, it is important that their instinctive natures be compatible.
Astrological indications reveal that your instinctive natures are the same, which is great and earns you three points towards your total Wavelength score. Having the same instinctive natures will help you get through the intense experiences in life easily together and you will even bond deeply through these experiences.
COMFORT
A man’s temperament will either feel comfortable and safe to a woman, or it will feel more threatening. If the man’s temperament feels safe and comfortable, then the woman will, or course, feel better about the relationship, and she will also be better able to get over any issues that may be making having a good relationship difficult for her. It will help her grow emotionally. The man will also benefit as he will feel like he is doing the right things in the relationship which will help him feel good about himself and, by extension, the relationship. If, on the other hand, the man’s temperament feels more threatening, the woman will only have a more difficult time feeling secure in the relationship and the efforts that the man might make to move the relationship forward, or to improve the relationship, may actually cause a setback in the relationship. If that is the case, the man may become frustrated and unhappy with himself and, by extension, the relationship.
Astrological indications reveal that the man’s general temperament is non-threatening to the woman and so you gain three points towards your total Wavelength score. This will help both of you feel good about the relationship – the woman will feel good because more of the man’s actions (if indeed he takes any actions) will feel right by her and the man will feel good because he is doing right by the woman. In times of difficulty, there is a greater possibility of working things out, what the man will do to fix the problem (if he attempts to fix the problem) will more often than not be what will fix the problem.
This is quite a minor comparison by itself, and by itself it will not have a major say in the relationship, it is only important in the context of gaining a high enough Wavelength score as to have a good relationship.
INNATE GIVING
You both innately know what the other needs.
When you are together there will be an innate ability to know what the other person needs and you will both be happy to provide it to the other person. You will both naturally know who is in the greater need at the given moment and the other will be happy to provide at that time. This can really help you both feel like you care for each other and so earns you two points towards your Wavelength score.
MUTATION
This relationship will incline you to make positive changes.
People change as a result of being in a relationship. Each person mutates somewhat as a result of being with the other. Ideally, this change is for the better and since it is part of human nature to want to change and improve, if the relationship has an innate ability to bring about positive changes, the couple’s need for growing and improving will be better met.
Astrological indications reveal that your relationship is more likely to help you both change towards the positive instead of the negative. This will make the relationship more fulfilling and so you gain one points towards your Wavelength score.
INNATE SENSE OF PURPOSE
Even though you have a very high Wavelength score, astrological indications reveal that you do not necessarily have an innate sense of purpose together. So, you will be wise to make sure that your reasons for being together are solid reasons. If your reasons for being together are superficial, then you may well find yourself one day wondering why you are together.
OBSTACLES
Obstacles can be overcome so that you can be together.
In any relationship so much has to happen for two people to completely be together. Many of these things are practical things, like living in the same place, both being free and unattached, having work schedules that allow the necessary time for being together and having enough money to feel secure about building a life together. Then there is always the matter of being in the same mood and frame of mind so that they can enjoy sharing their lives with each other. Getting all of these things to fall into place can be quite a chore at times and there is plenty of opportunity for setbacks and obstacles to being together. For some couples, their destinies are timed so completely differently that there will always be something, or some feeling, preventing them from fully being together. Their destinies pull them apart and simply living their very lives becomes a source of obstacles to being together. When one lives in California, the other lives in Florida, when the Californian moves to Florida, the Floridian moves to New York to take care of their mother…and so the relationship goes or, rather, does not go. Fortunately, you escape this and the timing of your destinies is not an impossible conflict. So long as other compatibility factors are okay, you will be able to sort out your lives and make any changes and adjustments necessary in order to be together.
MISFORTUNE
Your association may attract trouble between yourselves.
Besides the obvious importance to love and to be loved in a relationship, it is important for every couple to share a productive and happy life together. In fact, being in love increases our desire to live a productive and fortunate life. Some people get together and find their lives getting better and find more and more meaning to be with each other. Others, on the other hand, get together only to have everything go completely wrong, not just wrong in their lives, but wrong between them as well. Their very togetherness brings ill feelings between them along with misfortune. It is as if they are tied to a string of unfortunate events. Fortunately, one astrological measurement will show whether a couple is tied to the type of misfortune that has no end and no cure or if their association does not breed any extra ill into their lives.
Astrological indications reveal that your relationship is tied to misfortune. Your very involvement with each other is likely to create problems between you. The deeper you are involved, the greater the problems will become. Your relationship is probably going to be full of ups and downs. This can be very frustrating. The closer you get to the one you love, the more troubles you suffer. You may find that even when you have the best intentions for each other that problems arise out of the blue that confuse and frustrate you, problems that at that moment appear hopeless. The more you try to help each other at these moments, the worse it will get.
Your association with each other will especially cause problems in respect to taking proper care of the woman in the relationship. No matter how hard he tries, the man may always find himself unable to provide what the woman needs, or, at the first hint of the woman’s dissatisfaction or at the first hint of her saying, “no” about something the man may be unable to think of anything to do or say and instead just fall apart. Your association may also attract unfortunate events that disrupt the woman’s goals or which harm her health.
If you really do love each other and want to be with each other, then you will have to learn to disengage and separate when you get into these confusing or depressing situations. You will find that just getting away from each other for a short while will do more good than trying to work things out in that moment. The woman will have to pay attention to herself and make sure that she fulfills her needs and that her health is well maintained. The man will have to learn not to be to sensitive to the woman’s reactions to what he does and when he gets confused, he needs to take a step back to reorient himself.
Since your Respect measurement is high, you have an extra ability to avoid the unfortunate events alluded to and an extra ability to keep things good between you. The fact that you are able to respect each other will help you get through the difficult moments and to do the right things to make each other feel loved. If you do feel lost and confused with each other, after a short break the man will most likely be able to clear his head and do what needs to be done to make the relationship work. This puts you one step closer to avoiding misfortune.
Since you have an innate affinity for friendship, in accordance with the Friendship measurement, you are both better able to understand each other, accept each other and not pressure each other. This helps prevent difficulties arising between you and puts you one step closer to avoiding misfortune.
Since the man’s actions are more likely to be felt as comforting to the woman, in accordance with the Comfort measurement, there is much less chance of ill feelings arising between you and less chance for events to be seen as unfortunate. This puts you one step closer to avoiding misfortune.
One of the things that make it difficult for you to avoid the troubles alluded to is that you do not benefit from the Innate Sense of Purpose measurement and this can create gaps that misfortune slips into. You will want to make sure you really do have the same goals and the same agendas and that you are going forward with those goals. If you do not, misfortune will find you an easy target.
ASSERTIVE PRESSURE
While the Moon represents a person’s nature and consciousness, Mars is the planet through which we assert what is in our mind and heart. For two people to have a harmonious relationship, not only must they have an innate attunement towards each other, they must also assert themselves equally, or else the relationship will become imbalanced and frustrated. The position of Mars in your horoscope, and not just in one of your Vedic charts but in three important charts, determines how much force you assert yourself with in your relationship. If both of you assert yourselves with relatively equal force, you will be able to work together to have a balanced and healthy relationship. If one of you asserts yourself more than the other, then the relationship will become imbalanced.
Your horoscopes show that the woman asserts herself with more force than the man. This can result in the man feeling pushed and nagged while also making it difficult for him to say what he wants in the face of the woman’s stronger presence. The woman may often feel like she has to do everything and that the man is just not doing what he needs to be doing, that he is really not into making things happen in the way that she is. When the woman says “no” to something the man may have suggested, her “no” may sound so loud in the man’s ears that he loses his courage and focus.
In order for this relationship to have a chance at working harmoniously, the man will have to really work on being present and focused in the relationship and the woman will have to practice patience and acceptance for what she does receive.
CONCLUSION
Relationships are rarely easy as we all bring our challenging personalities into our relationships. When it comes down to it, the right relationship is the relationship that we feel right about being in the way that it is. A relationship in which we love a person but hope for things to be different and to change, cannot really be termed the right relationship. It is natural for each of us to have our hopes and wishes and no relationship will fulfill them all, but if we can accept the relationship for the hopes that it does fulfill then we are on the right track to the right relationship. Further, if the hopes that the relationship does not fulfill do not become a source of damage to the relationship or do not cause us to be cruel to our partner, then it is the right relationship.
The Vedic compatibility focuses on this right type of relationship. The considerations it makes are those that determine if people can have this type of foundation together. If the five important measurements are all good, then the foundation for this type of relationship is there. The five important measurements are Respect, Wavelength, Obstacles, Misfortune and Assertive Pressure. Any measurement amongst these that is inharmonious will be a source of stress, difficulty and lack between you two. But that is not to say that it is the wrong relationship, if that is the price you are willing to pay in order to have that person in your life and if you are willing to make the payment with the extra work, then it may well be the right relationship for you. However, it is usually seen that any of these five being insufficient create stresses that are more than the average person wants to pay for their relationship.
Since one or more of these five measurements is inharmonious, this relationship may tend to support each person’s bad habits and issues and make it harder to find happiness with each other as well as with yourselves. The most difficult measurements to lack are the Obstacles and Misfortune. These usually become apparent early on in the relationship. Misfortunes are particularly painful and create huge ups and downs. Lack of Respect and imbalanced Assertive Pressure become more and more apparent after six months and can become very frustrating for both people. Poor Wavelength is the least immediately painful of inharmonious and can take years to take its toll until it makes people drift apart or feel drained. So if this relationship is lacking any of these five measurements, you will want to take a good look at your relationship and see what you are really willing to do in order to have it, it will certainly take more work and effort or a bit of extra compromise.
Since you both share the same relationship-centered asterism, only the above favorable points will be those you experience most in your relationship. The difficulties mentioned will be things that you will probably rarely or never experience. You will share a very similar outlook and attitude about things and will be able to to bring your lives together very harmoniously.
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