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ErosScopes: September 2009 Love Horoscopes – Libra to Pisces

cafeastro — Wed, 02 Sep 2009 02:22:33 +0000

Horoscopes for the month ahead, with a focus on love, sex, romance, and style.

Eros was the god of erotic love. The position of the asteroid Eros in our charts points to our passion and erotic turn-ons. Mars shows us the style in which we go after what we want, including the ways in which we express our sexuality. Venus shows us some of the important “trappings” and foreplay that help us get in the mood for sex. The Moon shows our underlying emotional needs that can express themselves as sexual fantasies and needs.

While the positions of these planets and cosmic bodies in our natal charts remain static, their positions are always changing in the cosmos, activating houses and hotspots in our natal charts. The horoscopes presented here are necessarily general, as we are focusing on only the Sun sign or Ascendant, and how these sexual cosmic bodies are currently affecting the natal chart.

Please note: These horoscopes are more accurate for the Ascendant sign, so if you know it, read them for the sign of your Ascendant first, and the sign of your Sun second.

September 2009 ErosScopes – Libra, Scorpio, Sagittarius, Capricorn, Aquarius, and Pisces

Libra

With Venus occupying your solar eleventh house until the 20th, dear Libra, you are slightly detached on a personal level. If a romance were to begin during this time frame, it would be characterized by a strong feeling of camaraderie, but it could also be rather impersonal and perhaps lacking in depth and intimacy. Your desire for freedom of expression in your relationships is strong. This means you are able to take a breather from more intense interactions. From the 7-17, others may misinterpret your body language, and you should be aware of a tendency to give off mixed signals. This is a time to review the manner in which you come across to others–not so much whether it truly reflects your nature, but more in terms of whether it is working for or against you. From the 17-29, you may be picking up the wrong cues or reading too much into situations. Whatever the case may be, just for now, you may not feel that your intuition is serving you well. Be as non-judgmental as you can, but do keep an eye out for deceptiveness and falseness in others. This year, you have been especially restless with routines, preferring to answer to your own internal rhythm rather than paying attention to society’s (and nature’s!) rhythms. You work tirelessly one day, and procrastinate the next. Irregular schedules may be taking their toll on your mental and spiritual health, and September brings this matter to the fore. You might find less quality time spent with others, or you could be feeling tension all around that undermines your performance. Mars square your Sun is another challenging energy. This month is not the easiest for relating, and it will be necessary for you to avoid defensive behavior that interferes with healthy interactions. The 11th and 20th are better days for love; while the 14-16 and 30th are more challenging ones.

Scorpio

Mars is helping you out with easy energy and a more playful and adventurous spirit this month, dear Scorpio. You’re assertive and confident in a most pleasing way. You might find yourself creating bridges between others and enjoying the process in September. The need for adventurous excitement and mental stimulation is strong, and impels you to reach out for new experiences, fresh ideas, and interesting friendships. Romantic excitement is likely around the Full Moon on the 4th. This can take the form of relationship tests in a romantic relationship, or an eye-opening admission from a lover. A tug of war between a lover and a friend, or your attention to a busy social calendar, might figure strongly this month. Increased social responsibilities are felt, but at the same time a need for freedom of expression and spontaneity with regards to creative and romantic impulses. Romantic affairs may be erratic or unreliable, and a lover might be especially cantankerous or rebellious. At any rate, casual romantic relationships are exciting but not always in a pleasant way this month! Better days for love occur on the 20th and 24th; more challenging ones are the 8-9, 14-15, and 30th.

Sagittarius

The fireworks in your relationships subside this month, and the desire for exciting but fun experiences with a partner is strong.Â Venus in your solar ninth house until the 20th endows you with warm, fun-loving, and spontaneous energy in the love department. You have a taste for the exotic now that can show up in many areas of your life–who you are attracted to, what you buy, the kind of art or entertainment you enjoy, and so forth. Nevertheless, trouble may be brewing on personal and professional levels. Your domestic life may be erratic, hectic, or in a state of flux; and increased responsibilities on the career front are not helping matters. Juggling professional and personal responsibilities is the main challenge now. A partner will need to be patient with you as you sort things out. Your intimate life is a little more complex and intense this month. A close partner may not be as close this month as he/she is reviewing relationship needs. Give your partner space instead of pushing matters, which simply won’t help. The 20th and 24th are the more harmonious days for love in September, while the 11-12 and 21-23 are a little more challenging.

Capricorn

With Venus moving through your intimacy sector until the 20th, intensity appeals most in your close relationships. Intimate connections can be especially rich and meaningful. Your magnetism revolves around mysterious fascination rather than outgoing charm. In fact, with Mars moving through your partnership sector all month, it’s definitely not the time to sweep anything under the carpet. Relationship issues, grievances, and annoyances are bound to surface, demanding attention. Take the time to sort these matters out, keeping in mind that the higher goal is to connect with your partner at a deeper level. Your daily life may be hectic, with lots of interruptions, errands to take care of, paperwork to sort out, and so forth. A partner needs to be patient with you as you sort out your priorities. Tension that revolves around communications is likely this month, and it’s wise to avoid pinning anyone down to what was said or what wasn’t said. Remember that people are not saying what they mean, and not meaning what they say while Mercury is retrograde from the 7-29. Venus moves through your solar ninth house from the 20th forward, and your approach to love is more outgoing, adventurous, and even flippant. If a romance were to begin now, it is more likely to be with someone of a different background or educational level, or someone you meet through travel. A taste for the exotic grabs hold of you now. September 2nd, 6th, 14th, and 21st are likely to be the most challenging when it comes to matters of the heart. The 20th is a strong day for harmonious relations.

Aquarius

Venus moves through your partnership sector until the 20th, and you want nothing else but to smooth out any complications that have arisen in your close partnerships. You are adaptable and flexible, and all around more willing to please this month. Your need for contact and exchange with a partner is greater this month, becoming more intense and intimate after the 20th. Other people and their needs are assuming more importance in your life than your personal goals now. Intimate relationships can be felt to be healing and revitalizing, as long as you avoid mixing financial matters with affections. Uranus in your second house has been stirring up subtle changes to your value system in recent years. Some of you are moving towards a less materialistic value system, and others may be encountering unexpected circumstances that bring about a fluctuating or uncertain income. You are also inclined to take a few more risks with your finances, or unusual ways of making money could be in place during this long-term cycle. Nevertheless, commitments to others, or support of others, may be daunting at this time, and perhaps even draining of your resources, as well as your feeling of security. The challenge is to find a balance. It may be better to side-step arguments with loved ones that revolve around intimacy and sexuality, or shared finances, unless conversations are approached in a level-headed manner. Better days for love are the 11th and 20th; romantic challenges are more likely on the 4th, 12th, 16-17, and 23rd.

Pisces

Mars moving through fellow Water sign, Cancer, all month keeps you animated, warm, assertive in a charming way, and magnetic. Nevertheless, September may be an emotional month, bringing challenges to committed partnerships. Relationships with others are spirited, dynamic, and in strong focus. You attract strong, supportive, and powerful people to you this month. You are especially willing to please a partner, but not afraid to take the lead either. Emotions run high in the days surrounding a Full Moon in your sign on the 4th. Responsibilities to others, and especially a partner, are magnified mid-month. Your desire for personal freedom is strong, yet outside influences and commitments, particularly coming from a partner or partnership, seem to be blocking you. The challenge is to find a balance. Misunderstandings with your partner while Mercury is retrograde and in the sign of Virgo, from the 17-29th, can do some damage if you (or your partner) focus on words said instead of the meanings behind the words. If you need to talk through problems, do your best to be as non-judgmental as possible, and don’t over-react to what your partner has to say either. Re-thinking a partnership arrangement is possible now, but you should avoid jumping to any premature decisions. You have the chance to strengthen and solidify a commitment from the 18th, and Venus entering Virgo and your partnership sector on the 20th helps to smooth things over. September 17th and 24th are better days for love, while the 12th, 15th, and 23rd are more challenging.

ErosScopes: September 2009 Love Horoscopes – Aries to Virgo

cafeastro — Tue, 01 Sep 2009 15:07:57 +0000

Horoscopes for the month ahead, with a focus on love, sex, romance, and style.

Please note: These horoscopes are more accurate for the Ascendant sign, so if you know it, read them for the sign of your Ascendant first, and the sign of your Sun second.

September 2009 ErosScopes

Aries

Venus is gracing your solar fifth house until the 20th, dear Aries, where the goddess of love has a great time. Love is fun, playful, flirtatious, spontaneous, and warm. Nevertheless, during the same period, work and health matters grab much of your attention. In all likelihood, you’ve been overtaxing yourself when it comes to getting the job done. While you do make time for play, and your charm is natural, you are also dealing with the consequences of putting too much energy into your work. The desire for more down time is as strong as the need to manage your work and household, and finding a balance is necessary. Changes need to be made, and the need for adjustments are especially clear around the 4th, 15th, and 18th. There is a general sense of putting your own needs and desires on the back shelf in recent months, and this will change in January, when Eros enters your sign. For the time being, the needs of a partner seem to take priority, particularly after the 22nd, when close personal relationships assume greater importance for you. Mercury is retrograde from the 7-29, and you’ll be going over work projects as well as reviewing past conversations with a lover. Misunderstandings are likely now, so you might want to save important conversations for later, while thinking things over. Taking a step back is a good idea, without alienating anyone in the process. Confrontations are not a good idea. Be diplomatic. When Mercury does turn direct again on the 29th, take your time before charging ahead, particularly when it comes to sensitive conversations with a lover, as the 29-30 is a challenging period for romance. The 20th is warm and strong for love relationships.

Taurus

Until the 20th, Venus is in your solar fourth house, and you are a little cautious and self-protective with your heart. Establishing warm relations with your family is a priority for you during this cycle, and will help to build your strength for the more spontaneous and outgoing cycle that begins on the 20th. This is when Venus enters fellow earth sign, Virgo–an energy that jives with your own nature quite well. It’s natural for you to gravitate towards like-minded and like-hearted peopleâ€”and vice versa. You begin to feel more playful and flirtatious with your affections, and others respond warmly. With Eros retrograde in your solar eleventh house, you are a little detached on a sexual level for the time being. You are more intrigued by the unusual, finding variety as well as freedom most exciting in your sex life during this cycle. You’ve been struggling with the desire to be free to choose who you want to spend time with and the pressures from a romantic relationship. The need to express yourself freely through the people you associate with is a strong urge, but your commitments and responsibilities to a love relationship are impossible to ignore. Finding a balance between these two needs/desires is important this month. Re-thinking the suitability of your job and/or romantic relationships is possible while Mercury is retrograde from the 7-29, but you should avoid jumping to any premature decisions. Both you and a lover should avoid harping on the words used to express yourself and try to get to the meaning behind the words instead. The 19-20 are stronger days for love and romance; the 14-15 is likely to bring some fireworks.

Gemini

Until the 20th, Venus is gracing your communications sector, and good companionship is as equally important to you as romance during this cycle. You prefer an intellectual, communicative, and witty partner right now. During this cycle, you are most attracted to wit, cheerfulness, and verbal rapport in a romantic relationship. You are especially good at mediating conflicts now, although Mercury’s retrograde from the 7-29 might muddy things up a little. It is best to avoid intense conversations, as misunderstandings are very likely. You’re likely sending off mixed signals without even knowing it. A more sentimental Venus cycle is entered on the 20th, when sensitivity and loyalty are more important to you in matters of the heart. You have been experiencing pressures from family and personal responsibilities, and at the same time, career matters are insecure or uncertain. Whether or not to branch out professionally is a question now, but getting your priorities in order on the domestic front is also necessary, or you won’t have the confidence to move forward and take risks. A lover should be aware of your need to make things right on the home front this month. The 19th and 24th are better days for love, although surprises are in store and you can’t rely upon things working out according to plans. Flexibility is a must! Stickier days for the expression of affection are the 11-12, 14th, and 28-30.

Cancer

With Mars in your sign all month, dear Cancer, the desire to take charge of your life is strong. You are spunkier and more assertive, a little more independent than usual, and considerably more energetic. Nevertheless, September is a challenging month for all signs, and it will be especially helpful for you to know what it is you want from life before you boldly move forward, or you might find yourself spinning wheels. Your need for healthy and light social interaction is clear, but misunderstandings are also likely, particularly from the 7-29, when Mercury is retrograde. Pressures surrounding day to day activities mount, while the desire to expand your horizons freely is also strong. Restlessness is likely, as the need to freely move about, explore, and find adventure in your life is powerful but also challenged. Committed love is complicated this month, as a partner is feeling uncertain and perhaps pressured to make changes or to break free from limiting circumstances. Patience is in order. A serious discussion mid-month helps to renew your focus on what is most important in your life. Conversations often turn to the past, but they’re going in circles, which can be frustrating. The 20th is a better day for love matters, while the 2nd, 6th, 8th, and 30th are more challenging.

Leo

September is a month in which your desire for pleasure and comfort tends to rule, dear Leo. The goddess of Love, Venus, is occupying your sign until the 20th, and youâ€™ll find that others are especially appreciative of your sense of style. A strong desire for companionship dominates. You prefer the company of others, rather than going it alone. Others notice and perhaps admire you for your pleasant demeanor, which feeds your ego and renews your spirit in turn. Although you are typically a straightforward go-getter, this month youâ€™re in a more receptive state, taking a little extra downtime and perhaps engaging in more private activities and passions. In fact, as charming as you can be, there is also a bit of a brooding quality to you these days. Energies are fluctuating, and you might find that you’re quite indecisive. Mars entering your sign mid- October should change that. For now, take it easy and make plans. The need for intense interchanges with a lover has been strong for some time now, and this month, it can be a real challenge realizing this desire, particularly around the Full Moon on the 4th, when your awareness of this lack in your life is most powerful. Financial pressures might complicate matters, particularly if a partner’s contribution is erratic or unreliable. It can be hard to keep intimacy separate from more mundane concerns, but it’s worth trying. The 16th, and 20th are better days for love matters; the 4th, 11th, 14th, 16-17, 25th, and 29th are more challenging.

Virgo

While you are feeling energetic and more in control than you have been recently, dear Virgo, September brings its fair share of challenges. Increased personal responsibilities and unexpected changes of course figure now. A partner might be hard to rely upon. Relationship tests or challenges arise around the Full Moon on the 4th. With Mercury retrograde from the 7-29, others may misinterpret your body language, and you should be aware of a tendency to give off mixed signals. Don’t worry too much if others aren’t quite “getting” you for the time being. You have been taking yourself more seriously, and feeling a lot of pressure, this year. Keep your sense of humor! Saturn on your Sun can also bring love and romance to you, ironically enough. This is because Saturn rules your romance sector. Inner changes and struggles are occurring at a dramatic pace. Recognize that as you listen to a bruised or misbehaving ego, you are prone to ignoring your deepest emotions, and as a result you may sever ties that later leave you wanting. You could be feeling critical of a partner, who seems to be erratic, irresponsible, or hard to rely upon. All of these changes are “designed” to awaken your senses to relationship patterns that are not serving your purpose well, and to personal traits that are not serving your relationships well. Venus entering your sign on the 20th helps you to feel a little more in control of your life. A new sense of purpose takes hold around the 18th. The 14-15, 23rd, and 28-30 are more challenging days for love and romance, while the 19th and 22nd are more pleasing.