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		<title>Saturn opposition Uranus and Relationships</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Saturn&#8217;s opposition to Uranus was exact on September 15th, and I had planned to write a bit about it before its exact aspect, but couldn&#8217;t find the time to do so, mainly because I was immersed in my own experiences with it! The Sun is aligning with Saturn and opposing Uranus today, shortly before a [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-1181" title="oppositionthumb" src="http://cafeastrology.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/09/oppositionthumb.gif" alt="oppositionthumb" width="70" height="70" />Saturn&#8217;s opposition to Uranus was exact on September 15th, and I had planned to write a bit about it before its exact aspect, but couldn&#8217;t find the time to do so, mainly because I was immersed in my own experiences with it! The Sun is aligning with Saturn and opposing Uranus today, shortly before a New Moon in Virgo that also highlights the degrees of the Saturn-Uranus opposition and that occurs on Friday, the 18th.</p>
<p>This aspect was first exact in  November 2008 and February 2009, and will occur again in April and July 2010. Essentially, we&#8217;re in the middle of it. This September&#8217;s aspect occurred at 24 degrees 43 Virgo and the same degree of Pisces. Last November, it occurred at 18 Virgo 58 and the same degree of Pisces. In February, it occurred at 20 Virgo 39 and the same degree of Pisces. In April 2010, it will occur at 28 Virgo 46 and 28 Pisces 46. Finally, in July 2010, it will occur at 0 Libra 25 and 0 Aries 25.</p>
<p>For those of you who can remember back to  1988, Saturn and Uranus were conjunct in late Sagittarius and early Capricorn, square to this Saturn-Uranus opposition. Themes will be similar to the ones experienced then. Obviously life experiences and other transits and influences mean experiences will be far from identical!</p>
<p>This September&#8217;s Saturn-Uranus opposition is right on my Sun, the last two were on my natal Pluto, and April&#8217;s opposition will be directly on my Moon. While I am certainly feeling these transits, I also feel that the Saturn-Uranus conflict is an integral part of my nature itself, because both planets are very strong in my natal chart. The Saturn part of me is often holding on to attitudes, behaviors, things, and people not only to feel secure and safe, but also because I value that which I have built, and that which I have invested myself into, whether it&#8217;s time, energy, heart, or whatever else (or all). I value things that last, and that grow slowly but surely&#8211;things that require hard work and effort, and things that don&#8217;t come easily to me. Some will say that people with strong Saturn in their charts gravitate towards the more difficult path, whether or not they are choosing to do so consciously, and I understand that implicitly. After a hard Saturn transit has passed, many of us feel more grounded and able to rely on ourselves. It doesn&#8217;t always feel good while it&#8217;s happening, because we&#8217;re not &#8220;winning&#8221; without a heck of a lot of effort. But what we do &#8220;win&#8221; or gain is something we&#8217;ve truly accomplished on our own, and it is more valuable to us as a result. And yet, sticking to the tried and true can keep us in a rut, living with difficulty because we can&#8217;t foresee a better way to live, or don&#8217;t feel confident enough (or deserving enough) to go after it.</p>
<p>And then there is Uranus, and its energy is to stir up the pot. With Uranus, stagnation is seen as an enemy. If we&#8217;re stuck in a rut and can&#8217;t seem to find a way out, Uranus is there to pull us out of it. Changes Uranus brings can be exciting and invigorating, yet destabilizing and disorienting, at least at first. We experience impatience with life as it is, with the same old routine, with responsibilities that we once embraced, or with commitments that we have made.</p>
<p>When powerful Uranus transits occur, we experience strong urges to break free from our routine and to express ourselves in a freer manner. Conditions and responsibilities that we previously tolerated or even enjoyed are now seen as overwhelming and restrictive. Inner changes and struggles are insistent, and if the outer world and the people around us are not changing along with us, or at the same accelerated rate, (which is more than likely!), we could feel extremely restless and tied down. We are likely to question our lives as they have been, and wonder if there is a whole lot more for us â€œsomewhere out thereâ€. While Uranus encourages us to break free from limitations, sometimes we can jump to decisions that we might later regret. With a Uranus transit prominent, we may be listening to a bruised or misbehaving ego, and we are prone to ignoring our deepest emotions. As a result we may sever ties that later leave us wanting. It is especially important to be aware of this â€œblind spotâ€. However, we can&#8217;t ignore the need for change. Embracing the need to change existing circumstances is important, while keeping ourselves aware of extremes of feeling and behavior is equally important. With Uranus, we seek freedom, but if we don&#8217;t listen to our hearts and rebel blindly, we will not be free!</p>
<p>Throw Saturn into the equation (and Saturn has to be in the equation right now, no matter what triggered point is involved) and there can be tremendous indecision and ambivalence. Saturn is pulling us in a completely different direction (the opposite one!). On a positive note, the extremes of potential Uranian behavior might be mitigated by this tug from Saturn, but the down side is that resistance to change is a much greater potential, and resistance can only create more chaos than is necessary.</p>
<p>Neptune is adding even more confusion and ambivalence to the mix. Neptune quincunx Saturn is an energy that often leads to procrastination, and procrastination is just another form of resistance to change. Guilt is also playing a big role in our struggle. From the Uranian point of view, we might fear we are avoiding important responsibilities because we don&#8217;t feel equipped to handle them, or that we are ignoring our more compassionate and fair ideals in our efforts to break free from the past, and guilt can thus nag at us. From the Saturnine point of view, we might fear we are neglecting to consider more humane and idealistic factors in our efforts to make others accountable, in our efforts to keep the status quo, or in our efforts to hold onto our past, which can also lead to vague feelings of guilt.</p>
<p>The truth is, we probably know, or have a fair idea of, the changes that need to be made to an existing structure in our lives, whether that&#8217;s a relationship, a business, a job, a domestic arrangement, an attitude, and so forth. Either we have to let it go and leave it behind, or completely redesign it. Throwing away responsibilities or commitments that truly no longer serve their purpose is one possibility. But Saturn is here to remind us that throwing away certain responsibilities will not lead us on a path to true freedom, and that without rules and responsibilities, there is pure chaos.</p>
<p>If Saturn is conjuncting your personal planet, you are more likely to give up on, or be forced to give up on, something that has previously made you feel secure, but that has been draining you or holding you back. For the time being, you may be re-learning how to go it alone, take care of yourself, and meet your responsibilities without much help from the outside. It might seem that changes are happening to you and you must adapt to them by restructuring your life. On the other hand, if Uranus is conjuncting your personal planet, it may seem that you are more the instigator of change as opposed to feeling that changes are happening to you, and that roadblocks to your progress seem to be coming from the outside, from people or circumstances. Something is stirred inside of you that needs attention. Saturn is reminding you, through opposition or disapproval from others, that you have responsibilities to your past that need to be managed. When Saturn is on your personal planet, there may be a feeling that &#8220;it&#8217;s me against the world&#8221;, while with Uranus on a personal planet, you might be feeling &#8220;it&#8217;s me against my past&#8221;.</p>
<p>If this opposition is affecting our <em>relationships,</em> with Saturn on our planets in Virgo, we might be projecting an attitude that others are not living up to our standards, and we might even have a list of things they are not doing correctly; and with Uranus on our Pisces planets we might be sending the message to others that we are tired of trying to live up to their standards, and we now want to be accepted for who we are. Saturn in Virgo might be saying, if you love me, you would be showing it through honoring my code; while Uranus in Pisces might be saying, if you love me, you would be allowing me to be free to explore what works for me. In July 2010, Saturn will be in Libra opposing Uranus in Aries. Saturn on our Libra personal planets may be projecting the attitude that others are not taking the partnership and commitment to one another seriously enough; while Uranus on our Aries personal planets may be sending out the message that we value our independence and should be able to express it without penalty. Both sides have valid &#8220;arguments&#8221;, and the key is flexibility and consideration ofÂ  the needs of both parties, and somehow coming to an agreement.</p>
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		<title>Love and Relationship Trends in 2009: Outer Planets</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Jan 2009 15:37:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Three outer planets have recently changed signs or are changing signs in 2009, and these changes affect our attitude towards love, partnering, and relating. Pluto entered Capricorn last year, but dipped back into Sagittarius and then entered Capricorn again. This year, Pluto is solidly in Capricorn and will stay in the sign until 2023. It&#8217;s [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Three outer planets have recently changed signs or are changing signs in 2009, and these changes affect our attitude towards love, partnering, and relating.</p>
<p>Pluto entered Capricorn last year, but dipped back into Sagittarius and then entered Capricorn again. This year, Pluto is solidly in Capricorn and will stay in the sign until 2023. It&#8217;s still early for major shifts in attitudes, but we&#8217;re going to be seeing some interesting trends. We&#8217;ll be accepting more responsibility for our actions&#8211;and our passions. We&#8217;ll be experiencing a shift towards the traditional in all sorts of life &#8220;departments&#8221;, including fashion and style (more professional, perhaps preppy, conservative, and minimalistic styles as opposed to the hippie revival of recent years) for example.</p>
<p>In terms of love and relating, we&#8217;ve been caught up in a very experimental, haphazard and rather wanton approach in recent years. We&#8217;ve seen a huge spike in promiscuity, &#8220;f-friend&#8221; relationships, infidelity, breakups, and so forth. Many will say it&#8217;s due to the ability to connect, largely anonymously (at first), with more people from the comfort of one&#8217;s home via the Internet. It&#8217;s become enormously easy to hook up with others for casual affairs. Relating has become so much more competitive in nature, breeding insecurity and, for many, a sense of faithlessness and lack of confidence in the couple. Over the coming years, I believe there will be a shift towards more conservative partnering, taking more responsibility for ourselves and our partners, and valuing longterm relationships. Capricorn is a mature, goal-oriented, deliberate, and very &#8220;prepared&#8221; energy. Preparing for the future and practical concerns are especially important to Capricorn. We might view an accomplished, mature, and reliable partner as most valuable during this trend. Capricorn is also rather reserved with expressing feelings, at least until trust is gained/earned.</p>
<p>Just as Pluto takes a long time to move through a sign, trends associated with its cycle take time to unfold. A more immediate energy is Jupiter&#8217;s recent ingress into the sign of Aquarius. Jupiter changes signs approximately yearly. Recently, Jupiter has been changing signs pretty close to the New Year, making it a little easier to write yearly horoscopes (ha!). So, Jupiter in Aquarius pretty much helps define 2009.</p>
<p>In terms of love relationships and partnering, Jupiter in Aquarius energy is fair-minded, cooperative, impartial, and impersonal. We value freedom of choice, individuality, fellowship, and friendship. So, while Pluto is working to transform our values in the long term, Jupiter has a more immediate effect on our value system, and in 2009, our attitude towards partnering is likely going to be less than traditional.</p>
<p>Saturn will move into the one-to-one partnership or &#8220;marriage&#8221; sign of Libra at the end of October, and that&#8217;s when we&#8217;ll see the Pluto in Capricorn energy described above a little more readily. Saturn will bring maturity (ideally) and responsibility to our attitudes toward partnering, although it&#8217;s bound to be challenging in the early months of this sign change. It&#8217;s always challenging in the beginning stages of a planet&#8217;s trek through a sign, but this one perhaps especially so, because it starts with a bang in the form of Saturn square to Pluto. Attitudes toward close personal relationships will be scrutinized and tested. Saturn stays in a sign for approximately 2-1/2 years.</p>
<p>Then there&#8217;s the Saturn-Uranus opposition active much of the year. It&#8217;s a case of pitting freedom against responsibility, and really, when you think of it, it&#8217;s much like the Capricorn-Aquarius energy of the year, except with an opposition, it&#8217;s more an &#8220;in your face&#8221; influence&#8211;very hard to ignore! So, it looks like 2009 will bring a lot of changes into our love lives, and probably quite a few challenges as we struggle with what we think we should do. Although Saturn and Uranus are both very different energies, neither of them make it easy to get in touch with what&#8217;s in our hearts.</p>
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